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RE: Graphic pics...ugh! - 2/20/2010 11:38:15 PM   
NihilusZero


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ORIGINAL: slavekal

I didn't say that it was shocking to find sexual pics on a sexual site.  I said that Mistresses have repeatedly said that graphic pictures of the asses and genitals of strangers are not likely to be perceived positively...yet guys continue to post such pics.

You have a point but, to be fair, your title gives the clear impression that your motivation is not to give out charity advice to young lads as to how to better attract potential dommes, but rather to express displeasure with exposure to them.


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RE: Graphic pics...ugh! - 2/20/2010 11:55:27 PM   
MsHValentine


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ORIGINAL: slavekal

No matter how many threads are written about it, no matter how many Mistresses tell guys not to do it, submissive males still insist on posting pictures of their genitals and spread ass cheeks. I have never talked to even one lady who found such pics attractive in any way. They know what dicks look like, and it they want to see your asshole, they will let you know.


Do you really think they care? It doesn't matter if you tell them women don't find the pictures attractive or that they've seen a dick or not, they don't care. In fact they get off on her not liking it. Ignoring rather than giving it attention is better.

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RE: Graphic pics...ugh! - 2/20/2010 11:58:35 PM   
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ORIGINAL: slavekal

I didn't say that it was shocking to find sexual pics on a sexual site.  I said that Mistresses have repeatedly said that graphic pictures of the asses and genitals of strangers are not likely to be perceived positively...yet guys continue to post such pics.


Don't bother telling them what to do. Wouldn't you rather see the real man anyway? Wouldn't you rather see how they are when left on their own accord, rather than "acting" in accordance to someone else's etiquette advice?

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RE: Graphic pics...ugh! - 2/21/2010 12:10:26 AM   
DarlingSavage


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ORIGINAL: FelineFae

Along this line of thinking, i don't mind posting pictures of my boobs.
Sometimes, i can be a bit of a boob.

In general, i'm pretty fond of seeing chest pictures.
i understand some of us can't show our faces for different reasons.
So, since the chest is where the heart is, i like these pictures.Seeing pretty and tasteful boobs at the same time, that's just icing on the cupcake.


I really like how you said that! Wow! That's just gorgeous!

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RE: Graphic pics...ugh! - 2/21/2010 9:20:43 AM   
LadyAngelika


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ORIGINAL: MsHValentine



quote:

ORIGINAL: slavekal

I didn't say that it was shocking to find sexual pics on a sexual site.  I said that Mistresses have repeatedly said that graphic pictures of the asses and genitals of strangers are not likely to be perceived positively...yet guys continue to post such pics.


Don't bother telling them what to do. Wouldn't you rather see the real man anyway? Wouldn't you rather see how they are when left on their own accord, rather than "acting" in accordance to someone else's etiquette advice?


My thoughts exactly. I am done telling men how to act, behave, present themselves, etc.

If a man really can't figure it out on his own that most level headed and serious women would prefer to be approached with a well written letter and a very normal pic by a man who has read their profile and assesses that he meets their criteria, then let him reveal himself as the wanker that he is right off the bat. It makes the triage that much easier.

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RE: Graphic pics...ugh! - 2/21/2010 10:07:11 AM   
masmiss


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Status: offline 		When I get a message from a sub I always look at his profile before responding.  If there are photos of erect cocks or gaping anuses I delete and block.  My feeling is that these misinformed/ignorant men believe that Dommes just love graphic pics and have no clue what we're truly looking to find.  It's repulsive, sure, and I find myself mumbling my annoyance but I move on.

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RE: Graphic pics...ugh! - 2/21/2010 12:49:05 PM   
HisSweetElysium


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Status: offline 		Slavekal's pic is the antithesis of fucked up. I wish more ppl on this site had pics like his it would be a far more aesthetically pleasing environment.  

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RE: Graphic pics...ugh! - 2/21/2010 12:54:31 PM   
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Status: offline 		Wow!!! You Dommes can be rather hard on the gaping anuses that are on this site.

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RE: Graphic pics...ugh! - 2/21/2010 1:04:45 PM   
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ORIGINAL: HisSweetElysium

Slavekal's pic is the antithesis of fucked up. I wish more ppl on this site had pics like his it would be a far more aesthetically pleasing environment.  


Yes, it's very aesthetic. slut

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RE: Graphic pics...ugh! - 2/21/2010 1:05:49 PM   
Justme696


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ORIGINAL: HisSweetElysium

Slavekal's pic is the antithesis of fucked up. I wish more ppl on this site had pics like his it would be a far more aesthetically pleasing environment.  



that sounds as bad as wanting porn movies with a story

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RE: Graphic pics...ugh! - 2/21/2010 2:08:46 PM   
HisSweetElysium


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ORIGINAL: Justme696


quote:

ORIGINAL: HisSweetElysium

Slavekal's pic is the antithesis of fucked up. I wish more ppl on this site had pics like his it would be a far more aesthetically pleasing environment.  





that sounds as bad as wanting porn movies with a story

Oh cross thread teasing me? BAD MAN!!  and a weirdo.


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RE: Graphic pics...ugh! - 2/21/2010 5:08:16 PM   
AnimusRex


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ORIGINAL: FelineFae

Along this line of thinking, i don't mind posting pictures of my boobs.
Sometimes, i can be a bit of a boob.


So, like...could you post a link to where one might see these pics?

For, um...research purposes.

For a friend.

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RE: Graphic pics...ugh! - 2/21/2010 6:54:06 PM   
HisSweetElysium


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RE: Graphic pics...ugh! - 2/22/2010 2:06:52 AM   
ranja


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A dick is a dick and an asshole is an asshole, they are all slightly different though
i don't understand your problem with this...

people take dirty pictures of themselves and post them on the internet, and feel deliciously naughty about it... if it bothers you, then stop looking at it.

What it says about the people who post the dicks, cunts, tits, and assholes is that they have an exhibitionist streak about them, some are more rude than others...

you yourself are exposing your titties for all to see, so shut up man.

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RE: Graphic pics...ugh! - 2/22/2010 4:29:13 AM   
Drifa


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quote:

ORIGINAL: slavekal
No matter how many threads are written about it, no matter how many Mistresses tell guys not to do it, submissive males still insist on posting pictures of their genitals and spread ass cheeks. I have never talked to even one lady who found such pics attractive in any way. They know what dicks look like, and it they want to see your asshole, they will let you know.


Just go to the other side and report them for having overexplicit pics, if it's the profile pic that's bothering you.

If it's people sending you the pictures, I honestly think a lot of men do not understand that women don't have that same "eyes-to-genitals" wiring that men do. A naked sexual picture turns THEM on, so they don't actually understand that it's not a lady's cup of tea.

Artistically, it's really difficult to get a picture of "the naughty bits" that's attractive. Most end up looking to me like illustrations in a medical textbook! There are ways to convey "sexy" without focusing on dick or split beaver in the pic, and I recommend people look at great art through the ages for the overall posing and framing to get ideas.

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RE: Graphic pics...ugh! - 2/22/2010 4:44:21 AM   
MzBetty


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Status: offline 		I agree, I do not want to see naked photos. I DO love to see a nice chest though!!

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RE: Graphic pics...ugh! - 2/22/2010 5:15:51 AM   
LadyAngelika


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Status: offline 		Reducing a man to what he is physically isn't for me.

I like a man's mind, the way he thinks, his intellect, his rational and logical thought, his inner strength, his wit, his assurance, his successes, his charm, his sense of humour, his emotional maturity, his two feet firmly planted on the ground...

If he has all of that, I don't need rippling muscles and 10" schlongs. The basic attraction needs to be there, but it goes so much deeper than the physical.

Profile pics are of very little significance to me as long as they are in good taste. Genital pictures indicate to me that the man has no idea what I want and it is a immediate no. Same with introduction letters that are sexually charged.

I would like to see a man's smile, his eyes, etc. I don't post a face pic as my primary for professional reasons and I would completely understand if a man I'm interested didn't. But I do want a face/clothed body pic exchange soon enough.

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RE: Graphic pics...ugh! - 2/22/2010 7:15:21 AM   
KatyLied


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Status: offline 		I have always thought that these picture takers are either proud of their stuff, lead with their dick/asshole, or are grossly mis-informed regarding what makes a person interesting (sad if those are the only things of interest they possess).  But ...I will not refuse to look and laugh.

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RE: Graphic pics...ugh! - 2/22/2010 8:06:42 AM   
Smutmonger


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Status: offline 		I never understood why a guy would want to post a picture of his junk-at least dress it up in a little costume or something to show some sort of sense of humor-and a little origionality?

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RE: Graphic pics...ugh! - 2/22/2010 12:32:28 PM   
Kaiel


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ORIGINAL: FelineFae

Our pictures are meant to represent " us ", who we are.
Picture of penis = I am a dick.
Picture of anus = I am an a** hole.
Picture of vagina = I am a c***.
Well, that's how i see it all...


LOL, What is totally out of shape full frontal view equal?? I just a caught a glimpse of one, ewwww!


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