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Greetings from Calgary - 3/28/2006 5:47:37 PM

LadySeraphina

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My friend recommended this site, so I thought I'd check it out.

I'm a professional Dominatrix, which is something I really enjoy, since not everyone can live the life as I do. For those who can't, coming to me provides a safe, controlled way to play. I love training newbies (n00bs) and watching them develop and learn about themselves. It's intensely satisfying to see someone leave feeling so truly de-stressed and fulfilled.

Personally, I keep a houseboy. I love him dearly and he is very precious to me. It is my plan/hope that he will soon be staying at home all the time, and will not have to work elsewhere. We both look forward to the time when his job consists of cooking, cleaning, and seeing to my needs.

We are also looking at having a child in the future, and he will stay at home as primary caregiver. This is good for both of us, as he is far more patient than I am, and I spread my nurturing to my clients as well as my dearling and my (yet-to-be-conceived) little one.

I read a lot, I write and paint and draw when the mood hits. I am very talkative, love to play games, and am usually kind. Well, that's me in a nutshell, like it or not.

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RE: Greetings from Calgary - 3/29/2006 11:42:46 AM

trikebrontosaur

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You sound lovely Mistess

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RE: Greetings from Calgary - 3/29/2006 9:53:12 PM

LadySeraphina

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Thank you, trike.

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RE: Greetings from Calgary - 3/30/2006 11:23:20 PM

wordnymph

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do you have a website and may i view it? I am one of those noobs that you are reffering to. I often feel frustrated and at a loss as to how to have my partner engage in this lifestyle. I beleive i am a "switch" as i am learning it is called. I often dominate or am the aggressor, but find i am frustrated with the reaction i get from my partner. I usually react by biting, pushing, trying to force him to dominate me. this is where i am learning now...is not the way. so for two days now i have been tending to his every need and whim, asking his permission to do anything, even pee! hoping he will naturally take on the dominant role...am i on the right track?

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RE: Greetings from Calgary - 3/31/2006 9:15:04 AM

LadySeraphina

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At the moment I don't have a site, but when I do I don't believe it will help the way you are hoping for. It will primarily have photos and descriptions of our services. You might want to read "Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns" by Phillip Miller and Molly Devon.
I would also suggest open and honest communication with your partner. Just trying to force them into responding the way you want isn't going to work. To play well, you must play safe, sane, and consensual. The consensual aspect has been missing in your approach. By trying to force a reaction from your partner, you are not giving them the option to consider play, and agree to it (consent). You are best to discuss it openly with your partner. If they aren't into it, that's all you can do.

Be well.

Lady Seraphina

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RE: Greetings from Calgary - 3/31/2006 11:46:11 AM

trissy

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Dear Lady Seraphina,

Welcome to the boards. In the past, i have served my Lady as a houseboy/'wife' just as You described Your plans for the future. It was an extremely satisfying relationship for both of us. Why shouldn't men serve Women? Conventions are just so, well, conventional.

Regards,
trissy

PS- i like Your photo in Your profile- You have a very regal neck!

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RE: Greetings from Calgary - 4/1/2006 11:08:44 AM

LadySeraphina

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Thank you, trissy.

I do not use feminization on my houseboy, but certainly I'll agree that the customs of our society deserve to be shaken up a little.

Be well,
Lady Seraphina

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