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mornaz -> looking for a master, not sure if this is acceptable (3/28/2006 6:50:06 PM)
i apologize, i like this website, but haven't had much luck meeting anyone. i am sorry if this is not the place to discuss this kind of thing, but...i am wondering where a poor lonely sub is to find someone to put her in her place...lol!

Lordandmaster -> RE: looking for a master, not sure if this is acceptable (3/28/2006 6:59:45 PM)
My advice would be this: when a bazillion doms respond to this thread "HAY RITE BACK TO ME OK IM ONLY LIKE THREE OURS FROM DELLAWARE," I'd recommend crossing them off the list of prospectives.

JohnWarren -> RE: looking for a master, not sure if this is acceptable (3/28/2006 9:11:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mornaz i apologize, i like this website, but haven't had much luck meeting anyone. i am sorry if this is not the place to discuss this kind of thing, but...i am wondering where a poor lonely sub is to find someone to put her in her place...lol! It's not really the place for a personal advertisement but it is pretty much the perfect place to ask things like "what are dom/masters looking for" and "what should I put in my profile to attract them"?

mnottertail -> RE: looking for a master, not sure if this is acceptable (3/28/2006 9:24:34 PM)
I see you been on the site awhile kiddo........ these two guys (as of the time I write this) have given you pretty good advice......may seem flippant, I know.....but realistic. I think you have made a major advancement coming to the boards.....little more realistic out here....you will find that even those who are supposed to know what is going on......well, just don't........... You will hear this again and over and again and over, take some time, but get real, see a bunch of kinksters real time.....hit a munch, talk around a little.......so you don't know what a rubber with a little chicken head on it for pecking your eyes out is............. Hell, then you gotta concern yourself with where do I get chicken headed rubbers in my area, 'cause only "TRUE" kinksters got 'em........ You are about a good looking girl, and I know this don't mean much 'cause I read your profile, and I am in my 50's and I know you don't look for trade there......... But overall, good people out here. And regardless of what Lam says, if the only problem that crops up is they spell Delaware with two EEs (LLs is so yesterday Lam)) you are a wonderful human with wonderful needs and you are so not alone.........rock your own world .......look around go to a munch trade barbs.......get into whatever you are into. LOL, Ron

ivorylace -> RE: looking for a master, not sure if this is acceptable (3/29/2006 4:23:09 AM)
Wow a ton of good advice. My 2 cents now. you will find more when you are not seeking. Stop working so hard at it. Read the boards, post here, go out in your Community and get involved there. One day when you are not looking... POOF he will be there. ~ lace

Cloudz -> RE: looking for a master, not sure if this is acceptable (3/29/2006 5:30:53 AM)
Participate in the boards, let others know your thoughts, opinions, and what you value. Not everyone reads the profiles, but many read the boards.

fyreredsub -> RE: looking for a master, not sure if this is acceptable (3/29/2006 6:00:52 AM)
here lately Ron, your posts are even kewler than before... ya got some kind of fire burning there[;)] great advice love the 2 e's............

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: looking for a master, not sure if this is acceptable (3/29/2006 6:01:19 AM)
If you want something to work out in the long term- don't get into a committed relationship with anyone for at least 6 months. If you don't care, then get collared tomorrow.

babyblues -> RE: looking for a master, not sure if this is acceptable (3/29/2006 6:23:27 AM)
i would recommend a change to your profile....rather than concentrating on a list of demands, perhaps you could tell what you have to offer....i have found that Men really do want to know what's in it for them, and to be honest, your profile comes across as a bit, um, grumpy....you might want to tweak it a bit...good luck with your search....

fastlane -> RE: looking for a master, not sure if this is acceptable (3/29/2006 6:25:53 AM)
Oh Boy....now you've done it. My advice is to delete the first 500 replies from Doms that you recieve today. Hide your profile and begin reading the boards and contributing. When you see people that you find interesting, contact them and begin a dialouge. There are plenty of good people here, but you need to be selective and get to know them. You will have no trouble at all! Good luck, Kevin

Kinkypupper -> RE: looking for a master, not sure if this is acceptable (3/29/2006 9:40:44 AM)
It will happen when you least expect it and will happen when you are most ready for it. Get involved with your local BDSM club/ group. Let others know who YOU are in a vanilla sense as well. Don't jump at the first person who shows a interest. Don't appear desperate. A "real" 24/7 relationship is way different then a on-line one or one you read about in a book. See if you can sit in at a local "MAST" meeting (Masters and slaves together).

SoulBelow -> RE: looking for a master, not sure if this is acceptable (3/29/2006 9:57:48 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Kinkypupper It will happen when you least expect it and will happen when you are most ready for it. Get involved with your local BDSM club/ group. Let others know who YOU are in a vanilla sense as well. Don't jump at the first person who shows a interest. Don't appear desperate. A "real" 24/7 relationship is way different then a on-line one or one you read about in a book. See if you can sit in at a local "MAST" meeting (Masters and slaves together). Very sound advice from the Kinkypupper. I agree. You will always find what you're looking for when you're not looking and life has a strange way of offering things up to you when it feels you are in the right place. I don't believe in one universal god but there's definitely greater forces at work and I've started to trust them. Good luck with your search. X

Lordandmaster -> RE: looking for a master, not sure if this is acceptable (3/29/2006 10:07:04 AM)
Absolutely true. quote: ORIGINAL: ivorylace you will find more when you are not seeking. Stop working so hard at it.

enslavegirl -> RE: looking for a master, not sure if this is acceptable (3/29/2006 10:26:42 AM)
ditto for ivorylace i wasnt looking when Master swept me off my feet They always find you when you least expect it

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