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toiboy -> Surveying Dommes (3/28/2006 7:15:17 PM)
I have been always intrigued by an elegant successful woman that was all sure of herself yet enjoyed being a little kinky and sexually dominant and this since I was 7. But there is really no data on who are the dominant women are. My questions follow (and if you have data already collected on this I’d love it if you can share it): - Education level - Profession (prior to becoming pro dominatrix if it applies) - Age of first sexual experience - Your age now ( plus or minus 10 years is fine) - Prefer male subs (percentage) - Prefer female subs (percentage) - Minimum age of submissive accepted - Maximum age of submissive accepted - How many subs have you trained/dominated/owned Type of relationship you enjoy most: - Sensual control and domination (%) - Strict sadistic and complete control (%) Do you feel domination and control something sexually exhilarating or ____ please fill in the blank. I know these may be silly questions and would love if you contribute to them and correct them.

Flame73 -> RE: Surveying Dommes (3/28/2006 7:26:06 PM)
Well let's see if I can answer these questions. Technically I am a Switch because I met and married a wonderful Dom about eight years ago and found My sub side with Him. So I hope I'm not out of line responding here. I spent 6 of the 14 years I've lived the lifestyle solely as a Domme and I continue to spend the greater amout of My time in that mind set. I currently have a subboy in collar and I am always seeking new acquaintences. - Education level : Bachelor's of Science in Nursing - Profession (prior to becoming pro dominatrix if it applies) : Subsititute Teacher - Age of first sexual experience : ( was a lesbian experience) - Your age now ( plus or minus 10 years is fine) : 32 - Prefer male subs (percentage) :60 - Prefer female subs (percentage) :40 - Minimum age of submissive accepted :25 - Maximum age of submissive accepted : 55 - How many subs have you trained/dominated/owned (calculates and recounts): I have owned 7, trained 4 and have no idea how many casual encounters I have had at BDSM clubs and parties. Type of relationship you enjoy most: - Sensual control and domination (%) 20 - Strict sadistic and complete control (%) 70 I have recently admitted that I am truly a Sadist, though I find pleasure in a great many other things outside of simple pain. ~S~ Edited by ModOne - Inappropriate content edited out

lushusboobs -> RE: Surveying Dommes (3/28/2006 7:41:40 PM)
quote: My questions follow (and if you have data already collected on this I’d love it if you can share it): - Education level -Bachelor's in Linguistics, Some Master's Degree Courses - Profession (prior to becoming pro dominatrix if it applies) -I'm not a pro, I'm in the finance industry - Age of first sexual experience (too personal and none of your business) - Your age now ( plus or minus 10 years is fine) 41 - Prefer male subs (percentage) 10% if they are tg male identified or crossdressers - Prefer female subs (percentage) 90% female identified tg or otherwise - Minimum age of submissive accepted 30 - Maximum age of submissive accepted 60 - How many subs have you trained/dominated/owned 4 real time, thousands online and on the phone, since I've talked to lots of people since I was about 25. Type of relationship you enjoy most: - Sensual control and domination (%) 100% - Strict sadistic and complete control (%) Do you feel domination and control something sexually exhilarating or ____ please fill in the blank. I find domination and control to give me psychic balance and satisfaction on several different levels i.e. mental, physical and spiritual. It has to be with the right sub though. The person comes first.

MHOO314 -> RE: Surveying Dommes (3/28/2006 8:14:37 PM)
quote: My questions follow (and if you have data already collected on this I’d love it if you can share it): - Education level : Double majors--Marketing and Psychology - Profession (prior to becoming pro dominatrix if it applies) :Not pro, Marketing strategist, International Marketing - Age of first sexual experience: First sexual --18--first Domme: 38 - Your age now ( plus or minus 10 years is fine):Proudy 54 - Prefer male subs (percentage) : 100% - Prefer female subs (percentage) :19 - Minimum age of submissive accepted : 36 but My boy is a delighftul 54 - Maximum age of submissive accepted 56 - How many subs have you trained/dominated/owned Trained: 6 Dominated/owned: 1 Type of relationship you enjoy most: - Sensual control and domination (%) - Strict sadistic and complete control (%) Dominance Do you feel domination and control something sexually exhilarating or ____ please fill in the blank. Its hot as lava! But the chemsitry has to be there, now I get it all and love too.

thetammyjo -> RE: Surveying Dommes (3/28/2006 8:17:26 PM)
Is there are a survey tool on this board? That might be a more effiecent way to gather the information you want....

september -> RE: Surveying Dommes (3/28/2006 8:52:16 PM)
- Education level : Bachelor of fine arts - Profession: Advertising - Age of first sexual experience: - Your age now: 45 years - Prefer male subs: yes - Prefer female subs: no - Minimum age of submissive accepted: 30 years - Maximum age of submissive accepted: 50 years - How many subs have you trained/dominated/owned: one Type of relationship you enjoy most: - Sensual control and domination : yes, yum, yum - Strict sadistic and complete control: no Do you feel domination and control something sexually exhilarating or ____ please fill in the blank. Yes, there is this great exhilaration in controlling a man who could physically overpower me. What makes domination most exhilarating is the submissive giving his power away. There is this fantastic presense in submission and I love to receive it. The degree of exploration that takes place between me and my submissive, the trust, the fun, all these things are what makes this lifestyle pleasure. Edited by ModOne - Inappropriate content edited out

MsSophie -> RE: Surveying Dommes (3/28/2006 8:56:15 PM)
Education level - Bachelors degree in history Profession - Before I did my years as a pro I was web developer, and now, after, my formal title is Head of Production at an international web marketing agency. Age of first sexual experience - hard to tell. What do you mean by first sexual experience? Those nights along in bed when you start exploring masturbation? The first kiss and "making out"? Loosing your virginity? If it's the latter I was 19 and was so overwhelmed by desire for this chap that I simply failed to control the situation like I usually do. Your age now - 35 Prefer male subs - as pain-sluts 50%, as sex partners 10% Prefer female subs - as pain-sluts 50%, as sex partners 0% Minimum age of submissive accepted - as a pro I accepted everyone who was above the age of 18, as long as their needs did not clash with my limits. I had no upper limit. Maximum age of submissive accepted How many subs have you trained/dominated/owned - frankly, I have absolutely no idea how many people I saw as a pro-domme, I'd have to check with my accountant. These days I do not "own" anyone and have no wish to do so. I meet and play with a number of people when we both feel like it. Type of relationship you enjoy most: - Sensual control and domination (%) 50 - Strict sadistic and complete control (%) 50

ModeratorOne -> RE: Surveying Dommes (3/28/2006 9:32:56 PM)
quote: - Age of first sexual experience Please do not forget the guidelines if/when answering this question.

TexasMaam -> RE: Surveying Dommes (3/29/2006 2:21:29 AM)
- Education level ~ Bachelor of Science, Biology, working on a Masters this year. - Profession (prior to becoming pro dominatrix if it applies) ~ I don't list My career on the boards, but it's unrelated to BDSM - Age of first sexual experience ~ tough call. Age 4: forced. Age 15: consensual - Your age now ( plus or minus 10 years is fine) ~ 48 plus minus nuthin - Prefer male subs (percentage) ~ I'm only interested in a male sub - Prefer female subs (percentage) ~ see above - Minimum age of submissive accepted ~ 42 yoa. - Maximum age of submissive accepted ~ approx 59 yoa. plus or minus a year or two... - How many subs have you trained/dominated/owned ~ I stopped counting at 106. Type of relationship you enjoy most: - Sensual control and domination (%) ~ - Strict sadistic and complete control (%) ~ these are one and the same to Me. I don't have one without the other. Do you feel domination and control something sexually exhilarating or ____ please fill in the blank. ~ Domination and control are both sexually stimulating and psychologically exhilarating. What was the point of this survey? TexasMaam

MysticalPhoenix -> RE: Surveying Dommes (3/29/2006 6:32:08 AM)
My questions follow (and if you have data already collected on this I’d love it if you can share it): - Education level college-computer science - Profession (prior to becoming pro dominatrix if it applies) (I am not a pro domme) IT...now I'm a graphic designer and work in Marketing - Age of first sexual experience I was a freshman in college - Your age now ( plus or minus 10 years is fine) 38 - Prefer male subs (percentage) 100% - Prefer female subs (percentage) 0% - Minimum age of submissive accepted depends on what I'm looking for at the moment-I like younger men and older men (just not the ones in the middle) - Maximum age of submissive accepted see above - How many subs have you trained/dominated/owned Although I have scened with a number of people as I was "learning the ropes" heh, heh, not all of them were subs, I have collared 3. Type of relationship you enjoy most: - Sensual control and domination (%) - Strict sadistic and complete control (%) - Domestic service (%) 100% Do you feel domination and control something sexually exhilarating or NOT please fill in the blank.

toiboy -> RE: Surveying Dommes (3/29/2006 12:09:17 PM)
First I would like to thank everyone very much. Not a single flame or attitude or anything but the best hearted responses. In 1998-9 I did the same thing on the IRC with about 100 samples. Before that I had data mixed here and there from the old days of BBS. (Believe it or not I have been online from the days of SIG’s on compuserve in ‘88– I know am old) quote: What was the point of this survey? TexasMaam I thank you for your question and I will post a quick and fun report that shows what the data shows J The purpose is taking enough samples and statistically translate it to the general population of women I refer to as the silent ones. I also use Likes, Dislikes in each of the respondent profiles where available to augment the data. I know this is not an answer to your question but I would rather wait for a week or so before I say anything now. Anything I say may or may not mess up the responses J

LadyMorgynn -> RE: Surveying Dommes (3/29/2006 3:55:07 PM)
- Education level: B.A. History (emphasis on Middle East) - Profession : Medical Transcriptionist - Age of first sexual experience: 17 - Your age now ( plus or minus 10 years is fine): 50, according to my driver's license and my mother. - Prefer male subs (percentage): 90% - Prefer female subs (percentage): 10% - Minimum age of submissive accepted: 24 - Maximum age of submissive accepted: 50 - How many subs have you trained/dominated/owned: I was supposed to keep count? Type of relationship you enjoy most: - Sensual control and domination (0%) - Strict sadistic and complete control (0%) - Domination/TPE 100% Clue: It's NOT necessarily all about sex or pain! Do you feel domination and control something sexually exhilarating or personally fulfilling

MysticFireTopaz -> RE: Surveying Dommes (3/29/2006 4:58:48 PM)
Hello, Here are My responses:. - Education level Masters of Business Administration - Profession (prior to becoming pro dominatrix if it applies) Information Technology - Age of first sexual experience 14 - Your age now ( plus or minus 10 years is fine) "Forty-something" - Prefer male subs (percentage) 100% - Prefer female subs (percentage) 0% - Minimum age of submissive accepted 38 - Maximum age of submissive accepted 58 - How many subs have you trained/dominated/owned Trained: 15 or so Dominated: Lost count ages ago Owned: 8 Type of relationship you enjoy most: - Sensual control and domination (%) 60 % - Strict sadistic and complete control (%) 40 % Do you feel domination and control something sexually exhilarating (NO) or eurphoric (YES) please fill in the blank. Enjoy the mind control and domination aspect MUCH more than the sexual aspect. Regards, MysticFireTopaz aka Lady Topaz

Spankinatrix -> RE: Surveying Dommes (3/29/2006 7:31:11 PM)
- Education level - working on my PhD - Profession (prior to becoming pro dominatrix if it applies) - mental health - Age of first sexual experience - 16 - Your age now ( plus or minus 10 years is fine) - late 20s - Prefer male subs (percentage) - 60 - Prefer female subs (percentage) - 40 - Minimum age of submissive accepted - 21 - Maximum age of submissive accepted - any (but most matches are 25-35) - How many subs have you trained/dominated/owned - 3 or 4 with a long term committment, dozens and dozens more casually Type of relationship you enjoy most: - Sensual control and domination (%) 40 - Strict sadistic and complete control (%) 60 It is sexual, and it fills a slight void very nicely. I'm usually not excited while I do it, generally I am terribly calm. It is deeply, deeply satisfying.

SweetDommes -> RE: Surveying Dommes (3/29/2006 9:00:36 PM)
Answers in blue are for me (Karen) answers in red are for Holly, if it's purple, we agree. - Education level two bachelors degrees in chemistry with a biology minor and nursing bachelors degree in wildlife biology with a focus on conservation - Profession (prior to becoming pro dominatrix if it applies) registered nurse retail - Age of first sexual experience 16, if rape counts - 19 for first consensual about 20 - Your age now ( plus or minus 10 years is fine) 28 26 - Prefer male subs (percentage) 100 - Prefer female subs (percentage) 100 - Minimum age of submissive accepted 24 - Maximum age of submissive accepted 36 - How many subs have you trained/dominated/owned imagine this is purple 5 Type of relationship you enjoy most: - Sensual control and domination (%) 95 75 - Strict sadistic and complete control (%) 5 imagine this is red 25 I have no clue why it wouldn't post what I wanted it too, but it was ticking me off. As for it being sexual - it's more sexual for me than it is for Holly ... but D/s is a 24/7 thing, and sex can't be (I know, it sucks LOL). D/s for us is just a part of our lives - it's how we run our household.

Nahemah -> RE: Surveying Dommes (3/30/2006 6:37:37 AM)
Here you go! My questions follow (and if you have data already collected on this I’d love it if you can share it): - Education level - Bachelor of Business Administration - Accounting - Profession - Purchaser/Payroll Coordinator - Age of first sexual experience - 14 - Your age now ( plus or minus 10 years is fine) - 26 - Prefer male subs (percentage) - 100% - Prefer female subs (percentage) - 0% - Minimum age of submissive accepted - 20 - Maximum age of submissive accepted - 35 - How many subs have you trained/dominated/owned - 5 (I am very selective) Type of relationship you enjoy most: - Sensual control and domination (%) - 60% - Strict sadistic and complete control (%) - 40% Do you feel domination and control something sexually exhilarating or ____ please fill in the blank. I feel domination and control something sexually exhilarating of course, but more importantly, it is a fulfillment of who I am as a person. Hope this helps!

LadyMorgynn -> RE: Surveying Dommes (3/30/2006 7:00:20 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyMorgynn - Education level: B.A. History (emphasis on Middle East) - Profession : Medical Transcriptionist - Age of first sexual experience: 17 - Your age now ( plus or minus 10 years is fine): 50, according to my driver's license and my mother. - Prefer male subs (percentage): 90% - Prefer female subs (percentage): 10% - Minimum age of submissive accepted: 24 - Maximum age of submissive accepted: 50 (because men my own age seem to look and act so much older than me and I'm not into the whole "daddy" thing) - How many subs have you trained/dominated/owned: I was supposed to keep count? Type of relationship you enjoy most: - Sensual control and domination (0%) - Strict sadistic and complete control (0%) - Domination/TPE 100% Clue: It's NOT necessarily all about sex or pain! Do you feel domination and control something sexually exhilarating or personally fulfilling

DiannaVesta -> RE: Surveying Dommes (3/30/2006 7:51:06 AM)
- Education level – BA business - - Profession (prior to becoming pro dominatrix if it applies) – business consultant marketing & sales. Was professional dominatrix about 8 years. Own fetish business- live cams, phone sex lines, subscription websites & entrepreneur investing in real-estate. - - Age of first sexual experience – no comment - - Your age now ( plus or minus 10 years is fine) 46 - Prefer male subs (percentage) 30 - Prefer female subs (percentage) 70 - Minimum age of submissive accepted - 25 - Maximum age of submissive accepted - 60 - How many subs have you trained/dominated/owned – professionally – too many to count. Personally I have collared only 3, however trained and dominated many. Type of relationship you enjoy most: - Sensual control and domination (%) 50 - Strict sadistic and complete control (%) 50 - This depends on the relationship & I feel that I am still sensual with complete control or sensual when sadistic. Do you feel domination and control something sexually exhilarating or ____ please fill in the blank. - This is a big question for me. Fem Supremacy is part of who I am as a woman. Like being a lesbian (who enjoys the service and company of submissive men) I have no choice in the matter. It fulfills me emotionally, spiritually, psychically & psychologically. It literally is my life and who I am.

newdombbw -> RE: Surveying Dommes (3/30/2006 7:56:54 AM)
My questions follow (and if you have data already collected on this I’d love it if you can share it): - Education level BA - Profession (prior to becoming pro dominatrix if it applies) Admin Assist. - Age of first sexual experience 17 - Your age now ( plus or minus 10 years is fine) 52 - accurate and honest <g> - Prefer male subs (percentage) 100% - Prefer female subs (percentage) 0% - Minimum age of submissive accepted 37 - Maximum age of submissive accepted 60 - How many subs have you trained/dominated/owned 15-20 Type of relationship you enjoy most: - Sensual control and domination (%) 85% - Strict sadistic and complete control (%) 15% Do you feel domination and control something sexually exhilarating. Yes, sexually exhilarating.

Smythe -> RE: Surveying Dommes (3/30/2006 7:36:27 PM)
- Education level Master's degree - Profession (prior to becoming pro dominatrix if it applies)Mental health - Age of first sexual experience 17 - Your age now ( plus or minus 10 years is fine) 47 - Prefer male subs (percentage) Have only ever had male but - Prefer female subs (percentage) have been curious about what it would be like with a female. Just never pursued it - Minimum age of submissive accepted don't really consider age too much but I don't think I would be interested in someone in their 20s or early 30s - Maximum age of submissive accepted I guess if he is too old to get down on his knees, he is tool old for me - How many subs have you trained/dominated/owned 10-ish some were "experiences" some were relationships Type of relationship you enjoy most: - Sensual control and domination (%)85% - Strict sadistic and complete control (%)15% Not sure about your distinctions here. I very much lean toward the former but also consider myself to have a definite sadistic side Do you feel domination and control something sexually exhilarating or ____ please fill in the blank. yes, and quite emotionally satisfying, always interesting, challenging best Smythe

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