agirl -> RE: If you told your slave (2/21/2010 8:10:52 PM)
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ORIGINAL: agirl I'm not picking at YOUR *tiered power structure*......I was reading your post and addressing that. Taking the common sense approach obviously isn't that common if it needs to be factored in. I realize that. However, it's like having a paperwork kink and a contract 50 miles long. Things can go without being said and formally arranged. Some people choose, for varying reasons, to say them. I don't regard choosing to say them as daft in the slightest. Simply different. Having a written contract does nothing for me - our system is entirely in our heads but *shrugs* Written contracts work very well for others and I can how they are useful. Edited for clarity cause my mind is going faster than my fingers and to answer your other statement: Yes the words disobey and please were in my post. You'll find I addressed that when I said quote:
I, personally, do not regard it as disobeying. I was simply using the terms that had already been referenced. I regard it as more attending to the more important matter. We prefer to have the "this is more than that" more formalized. It's our power structure. Another poster, whose comment began the discussion with Icarys which you commented on, used the term "refuse to obey". I used disobey for ease of discussion in my example. I used please because I have a dynamic based around pleasing him and I didn't feel I needed to more academic in my posting terms. I'm sorry that you used terms that got misconstrued, for whatever reason you chose to use them. As I mentioned previously, I responded to what you wrote. I don't know what you mean at all in your last sentence, how academic do you need to be?.....lol agirl
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