starymists
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ORIGINAL: SoulfulSadism What'd you characterize as the distinctions between a sub and a slave ? For me, the difference isn't really that great, and it's more of a semantical difference in my life, but it goes like this...I can be made to submit. A look, a tone of voice, a tool from the tool box, and I can and will change my direction. I can be taken by the hand, or a handful of hair and made to do something, whether I want to or not…my body can be made to do what someone who has control wants it to do…but I can not be made to surrender. No one can make me think this, want that…no one can take my mind, unless I make a conscious choice to let it go, to give it over, to entrust it to another’s care and direction. Surrender is a choice that only I can make, but once made, that choice binds me tighter than any bondage I've experienced. Inside of that place of surrender, I have no limits, no safe word, no need to take control back. In that place of surrender, I can trust that the Dominant who has chosen me will protect me, care for me, not abuse or harm me. For in that place of absolute surrender, his wants become my wants. His needs become my needs. His desires become my desires...in essence, I become his.
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