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First time anal question - 2/22/2010 4:18:04 PM

nicemike

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I'm an older male (60) and have met a pro Mistress who is great fun for me. She is my first. During a session she used a dildo (vibrating) on my ass. It felt fine, maybe great to be violated by her. The problem was that in short order I felt as if I was gonna have a discharge from my penis, thought I might pee.

Was it a pee attack, or was my prostate telling me to cum? I requested the anal fuck stop, but want to be better prepared, or educated next time.

Any help for me?

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RE: First time anal question - 2/22/2010 4:28:34 PM

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Hi Mike

I had an old girfriend that iked useing her finger up my butt....yeah thats pretty much how it feels the first coupe of times, I think the feeling tends to diminish a little. She woud use her finger while doing a BJ...I could ony hold on for about 60 seconds then POP...I'm sure youl get more in depth answers than mine, just wanted to let you know your "normal"

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RE: First time anal question - 2/22/2010 5:18:13 PM

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I would advise peeing before trying again and see how it goes

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RE: First time anal question - 2/22/2010 7:03:49 PM

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I would advise telling her how it feels. She might not care if you peed but might care if you had an orgasm. Enjoy the new experiences.

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RE: First time anal question - 2/23/2010 9:23:01 AM

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I'm an older male (60) and have met a pro Mistress who is great fun for me. She is my first. During a session she used a dildo (vibrating) on my ass. It felt fine, maybe great to be violated by her. The problem was that in short order I felt as if I was gonna have a discharge from my penis, thought I might pee.

Was it a pee attack, or was my prostate telling me to cum? I requested the anal fuck stop, but want to be better prepared, or educated next time.

Any help for me?

What probably was happening was the dildo was not only massaging the prostate gland but also putting pressure on your bladder which will give a sensation of having to pee. Especially with vibrating dildos, those vibrations will move through your lower body. Next time try to empty your bladder completely before engaging in anal play with insertables, you will still get that full feeling which is quite pleasurable. A good idea is to study a pictorial of the male anatomy from the waist down, then you'll see where the internal organs are in relation to the rectum, lower intestine, colon, etc.

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