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Darkraven6 -> RE: Sub or slave? (4/14/2006 9:38:34 AM)
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I personally agree with what many here have said...I dont feel Im disipline enough, to be a slave, Im far to full of "why?" type questions, and Im very sprited, love to tease and share my opinion far to much. For that reason, I believe that Im fit as a sub. But, I dont feel that Im a sub, because I seek pleasure, half as much as it pleases me to make sure that Sir is well pleased. Being a rather new sub, it actually came as a suprise to me that for me to orgasm, was pleasing him. Silly as it may sound, Ive seldom have had orgasms, due to many reasons Im sure...but the fact remains, that in my mind, to please Sir, was all that actually really pleased me. This little fact that I recently learned, lol, is still something that Im getting use to...gladly. As well, I also believe that when a sub finally finds a Dom/Master/Mistress/Domme, and its a relationship that really works, I feel that one, not even thinking...would turn into a slave to some point. Simply due to their connection and wanting to please, that in the form of the relationship, and the desire to please, care, love, adore, worship, trust, and respect, its just something that would happen. But...to simply state that Im a slave, right out in the beginning of a relationship or meeting or such, would be wrong. Because, personality wise, that just isnt me. Possibly, at least in my mind, being a sub then would be mostly stating that me, personality wise, matters...and in ways must count in some form. Be it my feelings, or desires, or what not...to some point, I must count. But to simply state Im a slave, as well to me, means I go into the relationship simply to do as Im bid, strickly for someone elses desires and wishs...knowingly...and I dont count, not on any level. So, the difference, to me, is the relationship more so, then the lable of sub or slave. Its how you and your Sir, (etc.) inter into a relationship, and with what you both agree and understand the relationship will be.
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