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trainmenow123 -> new to site and life style (2/22/2010 8:47:03 PM)

Hi i am a sub looking for a Mistress to train my virgin ass the way she wants, very willing to learn, limits to be tested. i live alone in a 3 bedroom house.



sirsholly -> RE: new to site and life style (2/23/2010 12:59:58 AM)

you might want to say what you are bringing to the table.....what you are offering.



DarkSteven -> RE: new to site and life style (2/23/2010 5:04:48 AM)

What holly said.  Also, you seem to want play sessions, which you call "training".  Dommes (heck, women in general) are usually looking for a relationship, with the play sessions just one part of it.

If all you want at this point is play and learning, then join a BDSM group local to you.  Google and find some.

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trainmenow123 -> RE: new to site and life style (2/23/2010 5:20:45 AM)

what i have to offer is the willingness to learn, some of the things i have done are hot wax, bondage, spanking, enemas, cbt, collar and sissy training. toys i have used, humbler, dildo, butt plug, hand cuffs, belt and restraints.  



CarrieO -> RE: new to site and life style (2/23/2010 5:25:13 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: trainmenow123

what i have to offer is the willingness to learn, some of the things i have done are hot wax, bondage, spanking, enemas, cbt, collar and sissy training. toys i have used, humbler, dildo, butt plug, hand cuffs, belt and restraints.  


You and every other person.

Enjoy your stay.



DarkSteven -> RE: new to site and life style (2/23/2010 5:29:10 AM)

OP, that's not what holly meant.

This lifestyle is not about toys.  It's not about play sessions.  It's ultimately about people, and some of them happen to have toys and do play sessions.

Your profile states that you love cooking, fishing, antique shows...picture someone in your mind that you'd like to cook with or for.  Someone you'd like to be sitting next to, both of you with fishing poles in your hands, just talking (or spending quiet time together).  Then communicate that vision to a woman you think you might like.

If she's a Domme and you're a sub, the playing will come if you click outside the bedroom.  But not till then.

Think of it as saying, "I'd like to get to know you" to a woman instead of "You're hot!  Let's fuck!"



trainmenow123 -> RE: new to site and life style (2/23/2010 5:44:36 AM)

Thank you. im new to finding some one who lives the life style. so the info is most appreciated.so it is not different the looking in the vanilla world. its about love and caring.
I am looking to meet some one who i can share my interests with and build a relationship with.I like cooking, fishing, going to the beach, volleyball and things with the outdoors, or just having a nice day together. i love to make my partner happy, some of the things i do are surprise them with a small gift or just rubbing their shoulders for no reason.  



choccywoc -> RE: new to site and life style (2/23/2010 6:00:18 AM)

Welcome to CM. Follow the good advice.



DarkSteven -> RE: new to site and life style (2/23/2010 6:52:14 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: trainmenow123

Thank you. im new to finding some one who lives the life style. so the info is most appreciated.so it is not different the looking in the vanilla world. its about love and caring.
I am looking to meet some one who i can share my interests with and build a relationship with.I like cooking, fishing, going to the beach, volleyball and things with the outdoors, or just having a nice day together. i love to make my partner happy, some of the things i do are surprise them with a small gift or just rubbing their shoulders for no reason.  


Beautiful.  [:)]



Kaiel -> RE: new to site and life style (2/23/2010 7:08:58 AM)

Hello and Welcome to CM! Good luck on your journey! 



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