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RE: Distance Control - 3/6/2010 8:27:59 PM

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ORIGINAL: thaprincess

AQuietSimpleMan you make good points here I must say, but my sub and I would like to find something that he could wear potentially for like a few days, take off, etc. If such a device cannot be found that is fine with me, I trust my sub and I know that he will listen to me. But I would still like a chastity device for the symbolism and physical reminder it would give to him to know that he is mine and mine alone. But thank you for your concern.

I agree. Chastity Devices can be really symbolic of the sub's submission and is a constant reminder to the sub and the owner that's he owned and who's boss, plus it keeps him thinking about what his Mistress wants and not about his wee wee.

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RE: Distance Control - 3/16/2010 1:07:20 PM

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hi the cb6ks can be worn for long periods. after getting used to it you can almost forget you are wearing it.
very easy to clean with the cleaning kit. you can lead a normal every day life in it
you just can not get erect

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RE: Distance Control - 3/16/2010 7:56:01 PM

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AQuietSimpleMan,

Why can't a long distance chastity scenario work? Not sure of your definition of long term, but if you accept 2 1/2 months as long term then i can come forward as a slave that has done so. On Maxfisch there are instances of slaves that have commented of their experiences of duration in chastity three - six months and longer.

For a newbie yes a weekend or a few days can be much discomfort especially during moments of deep submissive thoughts or the foolishness of attempted erection. Otherwise a CB device is comfortable enough to wear short term and without harm although there will be unexpected moments of pinching.

I do not consider it as dangerous although yes after a period of time i have experienced some chaffing and minor raw areas, but nothing serious. In taking a bath i enjoy to to soak long time and often will read a magazine as i relax in hot water... drain some as it cools and adding more hot water. This is my preference over a quick shower and i have not had cleanliness issues. The exception of course is if things do not align when urinating, but that is short term embarrassment.

Chastity is a mind-fuck and i find the psychological aspect more intense than the physical... it can be intense and difficult emotionally. There were moments when i thought i would go insane with craving and submissive lust.

In a emergency the numbered plastic tags can be easily cut with diagonal(wire cutters) and a padlock can be cut with small bolt cutters. I have experienced chastity a number of times and found no serious safety issues. With chaffing and minor raw areas Goddess and i discussed it. She was with greater concern than i and considered terminating for safety reasons. I gave assurance i could safely continue and so we did with trust and awareness. She trusting my judgment and assurances, myself trusting Her concern was genuine which of course it was.

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