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Which letter of BDSM is your top focus?


Bondage
  12% (4)
Discipline
  6% (2)
Dominance
  21% (7)
submission
  39% (13)
Sadism
  15% (5)
Masochism
  6% (2)


Total Votes : 33
(last vote on : 2/14/2012 6:52:01 AM)
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Which letter of BDSM is your top focus? - 2/24/2010 4:48:15 AM   
Whiplashsmile4


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RE: Which letter of BDSM is your top focus? - 2/24/2010 7:31:50 AM   
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RE: Which letter of BDSM is your top focus? - 2/24/2010 7:37:33 AM   
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RE: Which letter of BDSM is your top focus? - 2/24/2010 8:19:17 AM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		I'm with RS.  I've never been one for reinventing the wheel.  Each letter only stands for one word, just like any other acronym. 

With that said, I still didn't vote.  This is because I would be too pulled between discipline and sadism to pick one over the other.


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RE: Which letter of BDSM is your top focus? - 2/24/2010 8:31:58 AM   
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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

I didnt know Dominance & submission were in BDSM?



http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/BDSM
http://sexuality.about.com/od/glossary/g/BDSM.htm
http://www.wordwebonline.com/en/BDSM


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RE: Which letter of BDSM is your top focus? - 2/24/2010 9:15:45 AM   
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RE: Which letter of BDSM is your top focus? - 2/24/2010 9:21:54 AM   
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Yeah.. I don't count ds as part of the mix either, even though I am submissive. That is relationship stuff, whereas the others are physical. I did vote because I am a masochist.. lol and a sadist.
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I didnt know Dominance & submission were in BDSM?



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RE: Which letter of BDSM is your top focus? - 2/24/2010 9:36:18 AM   
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although I never really think about the word BDSM.

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RE: Which letter of BDSM is your top focus? - 2/24/2010 9:57:55 AM   
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Can't vote. When I think of BDSM, I imagine it's something the Old Guard do, and their newer adherents, whatever you want to call 'em. What I do, although you might find BDSM practitioners doing similar things, claims no resemblance to it at all.


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RE: Which letter of BDSM is your top focus? - 2/24/2010 10:11:29 AM   
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RE: Which letter of BDSM is your top focus? - 2/24/2010 10:15:26 AM   
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RE: Which letter of BDSM is your top focus? - 2/24/2010 9:48:47 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Fitznicely

Nooo! Another pointless discussion about what BDSM means!

Can't vote. When I think of BDSM, I imagine it's something the Old Guard do, and their newer adherents, whatever you want to call 'em. What I do, although you might find BDSM practitioners doing similar things, claims no resemblance to it at all.



Nah.. no discussion just a simple innocent poll.

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RE: Which letter of BDSM is your top focus? - 3/25/2010 2:54:48 PM   
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Status: offline 		It is difficult to pick just one.

As a switch, I enjoy both sides of the restraints. For me, bondage is the most fun. But there are aspects of each of the others that motivate me, too.

I enjoy clamps, flogging, riding crops...so that moves into the pain aspects of the activities. I wouldn't say a sadist or masocist in the strictest sense of the word, but in those areas to some degree.

I idea of a beautiful leather clad Domme in boots and my being at her feet, being told to lick her boots...works for me. So that moves into the Dominance/submission arena.

When I'm the Top, again, bondage, clamps, flogging, crops, etc. Whatever she and I are into.

So yeah, its difficult to select only one description for the poll. But I love bondage involved in all of it, so that's why I selected it.

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RE: Which letter of BDSM is your top focus? - 3/25/2010 3:13:28 PM   
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RE: Which letter of BDSM is your top focus? - 3/25/2010 4:25:02 PM   
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RE: Which letter of BDSM is your top focus? - 3/27/2010 7:32:25 PM   
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Status: offline 		lets see... i love being bound but only if i'm being dominated and in a very submissive state. i also have masochistic leanings that makes for awesome orgasms.. so i'm not sure. the whole alphabet equally?

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RE: Which letter of BDSM is your top focus? - 3/27/2010 7:33:43 PM   
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RE: Which letter of BDSM is your top focus? - 3/27/2010 10:08:14 PM   
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RE: Which letter of BDSM is your top focus? - 3/27/2010 10:23:02 PM   
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Status: offline 		I think the S is my main focus, from either side of the kneel.

If I'm with DB, it's because I'm wondering what horribly awful thing He has thought up to do to me.  If I'm topping someone else, I'm wondering just how horribly awful I can be to that person.

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RE: Which letter of BDSM is your top focus? - 3/28/2010 8:32:20 AM   
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