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SirDominic -> RE: Does a Dominant Serve a Submissive (12/1/2007 10:41:48 AM)
Similarly the issue is here posed as a trick question - "Does the Dom serve the submissive". If it were cast as, "Does the submissive receive a service from the Dominant?" - there would be not much in dispute. Yeah, getting too hung up on semantics seems all too common. And that is really what this thread is all about. How we each define the OP's question. To muddy waters further, if a Master chooses to serve a slave, is he being submissive because he is serving, or is he dominant because he has chosen the action. Seems to me, as long as the Master is doing the choosing, he is not being servile, even if he is serving his slave.

AquaticSub -> RE: Does a Dominant Serve a Submissive (12/1/2007 1:21:35 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LordODiscipline I do actually - the captain of a ship serves a nation, not the crew... everything is under his perview and is his responsibility - there is a saying in the Navy -"You can deligate authority, but never responsibility" The captain is responsible for everything that happens, but is not responsible to the crew - only the nation and his mission. Hence the ability to order the crew do things that might get them killed; otherwise - he would not do so. Just another thought. ~J Not every sea captain serves a nation. In the days of whaling captains definately served their crew. If they didn't ensure they made enough money off the whale blubber to serve the needs of their crew, they didn't have a crew for the next trip. Then and now, when a ship is in trouble the captain must do what is best for the crew, not himself.

BiteGirl -> RE: Does a Dominant Serve a Submissive (12/1/2007 2:08:15 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LordODiscipline This is one of those sophist twists of logic that makes absolutely no sense and negates the entire premise of a power exchange/domination relationship. Copntrary and popular among those who enjoy word play, it is a relative paradigm of thought in order to provoke reponse without logical reference, mature and intelligent repose, or consideration. Just my opinion. ~J quote: ORIGINAL: draxxe Does a Dominant Serve a Submissive,,, This is a current topic we have in the chat room in Old Guard and wanted to share it with you! I personnely say yes so bring on the bashing and after you do I will tell you why! Draxxe I agree. It's a power exchange, each are there for the other. Each cannot surivive without the other, no sub, no dom. Dom's who don't meet your needs are clearly just horny men who have nothing to offer you. move on.

LittleWench -> RE: Does a Dominant Serve a Submissive (12/2/2007 1:09:06 AM)
Does it matter? I've been browsing these forums for some two years now, and threads like this happen all the time. Who is really in charge, who has the power, who serves who, is the sub topping, is the top bottoming.... who cares? If its a caring reciprical relationship in which both parties are getting their needs met, who cares who "serves" who?

FrankAr -> RE: Does a Dominant Serve a Submissive (12/2/2007 1:33:16 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: draxxe Does a Dominant Serve a Submissive,,, This is a current topic we have in the chat room in Old Guard and wanted to share it with you! I personnely say yes so bring on the bashing and after you do I will tell you why! Draxxe Greetings Draxxe, I am a Free man of Gor and so will only help the female if she is sick, with some cleaning and cooking, for I hate a place being dirty. Apart from that she would have to be near death's bed to get me to help her with a few things, I would just kick her out of bed and to do her chores. Be well. Frank Ar.

LittleWench -> RE: Does a Dominant Serve a Submissive (12/2/2007 1:58:23 AM)
Actually you are a human citizen of the planet Earth, and a little compassion goes a looooong way.

salilus -> RE: Does a Dominant Serve a Submissive (12/2/2007 7:50:17 AM)
I serve my Daddy and he takes care of me, in order to get the best of me... and because he loves me, of course. Seriously, if I were miserable and broken and depressed, he wouldn't get much out of me, though.

FrankAr -> RE: Does a Dominant Serve a Submissive (12/2/2007 6:12:16 PM)
Actually you should read what is written and not what you think is written......I said that I am of Gor, not living ON Gor. It is just like saying that I am Croatian,. but living in Australia.

HalloweenWhite -> RE: Does a Dominant Serve a Submissive (12/3/2007 8:46:34 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: draxxe Does a Dominant Serve a Submissive,,, This is a current topic we have in the chat room in Old Guard and wanted to share it with you! I personnely say yes so bring on the bashing and after you do I will tell you why! Draxxe I agree with proudsub-it's about power -exchange-. B/both parties bring something to the table.

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