Hie thee to the Wet Spot! The Center for Sex-Positive Culture (CPSC) is located IN Seattle. As I recall, memberships are a mere $55/year, and Member Orientations are held at least weekly (required before you can attend a social or play party). Check it out online: http://www.sexpositiveculture.org/
"Life is a banquet, and most poor fools are starving to death!" —Mame, Auntie Mame