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Genderplay and Female Bodies - 3/29/2006 11:32:20 AM

outofhabit

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So, I am female-bodied, submissive, and genderqueer (predominately with a boi gender presentation but sometimes I do the genderfucked femme look). I *love* genderplay and am looking for new ideas. Suggestions?

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RE: Genderplay and Female Bodies - 3/29/2006 11:43:44 AM

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What kind of ideas are you going for?

Two labels I've liked for myself: mini-dyke and tweenie. LMAO

Fire - who does the butched femme look...everyday

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RE: Genderplay and Female Bodies - 3/29/2006 12:24:13 PM

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Different types of scenes/fantasies that involve genderplay and gender-variant females. Forced feminization of bois/butches and being picked up and discovered to not *really* be one gender or another and punished for it are two scenes from my current play...and I was sort of interested in what others were doing. So much is written around forced feminization of males and sissification of males...and that's nice, but I'm not male.

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RE: Genderplay and Female Bodies - 3/29/2006 4:44:23 PM

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For me gender is not something I play with. I am genderqueer, more and more looking into living as a male. For me it is not a game, but rather trying to find out where I fit in life. However I have heard that in certain night shirts I have, I look sissified. I've also heard from someone else who seemed a bit surprised, that I guess due to their relative rarity, it is strange to find a female so dedicated to becoming masculine.

I do often fantasize about what it would be like to be bigendered or nongendered though.

If you fancy body building, perhaps you could do an "after-showering" scene and found to be female by the guy you are with. That is the best I can think of, as again, gender isn't something I play with.

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RE: Genderplay and Female Bodies - 3/29/2006 6:45:04 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Slipstreme

For me gender is not something I play with. I am genderqueer, more and more looking into living as a male. For me it is not a game, but rather trying to find out where I fit in life. However I have heard that in certain night shirts I have, I look sissified. I've also heard from someone else who seemed a bit surprised, that I guess due to their relative rarity, it is strange to find a female so dedicated to becoming masculine.

Actually, FTMs are just as common as MTFs. But, anyway, part of the reason I like genderplay is because my gender is so complex and sort of scary. I'm getting a corporate job during the summer so I have to grow my hair out a bit...it's like half an inch now and that's about as long as I can stand and I know it'll have to be longer. I'm starting not to pass as male anymore, which sucks. But in bed, I can have my gender respected. It's not that weird to have my clit called my cock and to be called a boy. A lot of people are into different stuff. And I can be ordered to be feminine...because I'm not purely any one gender or another...it's just that my masculinity is so attacked that I'm far too interested in protecting it to be able to appreciate any of my femininity, but still be seen as a boy who is acting feminine, not as a girl. So, that's what I think it offers a genderqueer person.

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RE: Genderplay and Female Bodies - 3/31/2006 1:34:19 AM

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I'm FTM (on T, post op), and some things I did of this kind with my former dom were:
-going out one night in the city with him, me in full fem mode (make up, tight shiny silver tank top, short skirt with no panties, stockings)
-answering "yes!" to my dom's offer to go swimming with him in the nerby sea...and him THEN showing me I would have to wear one of those old one piece swimsuit, one yellow with big red flowers. This had to be my biggest genderplay mindfuck, since it was in full light and oh so in public, and I had gone swimming by myself, so in my usual boy mode, two days ago at the same place. Plus, that swimsuit was just horrible looking.
-Uncle/niece roleplay, him surprising me in front of the mirror putting oranges in my girly pyjama top to make it look as if I had breasts, spanking ensued.
-Roleplay as a m/f couple in a fancy dinner, using formal speech, etc, him making me wear one of his mom's dress, shoes with heels, and stupid big hat. Plus make up.
-Making me write a long letter about how miserable and stupid I look like when sissyfied.
-When pre-op, dressing me up in little boy gear (thick fuzzy socks, white underoos, small a-shirt) tucking me in bed and all.
-When pre-op, roleplaying that I was gonna be his "giton", his very own personal little faggot while in the army.

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