thepillowdreamer -> RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... (3/1/2010 12:13:54 PM)
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i'm pretty sure i'm blocked by the op, but i gotta tap into my inner emotional masochist (and idiot) here and try again. bob. sug. are there bdsm clubs and such that you can go to in your area? i know that's not the best place to meet people, but having local friends with your interests would be good. how many people here met great partners through friends? *raises hand* have you tried a matchmaking service? who knows, it could work. and these people would be looking specifically for people you want. i'm not on the up-and-up on sites like match.com et such, but could you post a profile there with what you want as a whole? mentally, physically, and sexually. you're a grown man, and there's nothing to be ashamed of, if you're scared of getting called a freak or whatever on a normal dating site. lastly, there's a lot to be said about single's parties. it's all about networking, and of course you're not gonna meet that perfect girl through these means, but it's a step in the right direction. there's so much opportunity for people on the interwebs to be these wannabes you're talking about, and there's that opportunity for that in rl, too, but again: step in the right direction. i'm speaking from experience. you can gain a lot from friendships and networking. hell, i was in love with somebody who started out as a friend. he's not with us anymore, but he was a best friend, a partner, a soulmate, and a lover. so uh... yeah. that was my sap of the day. ... i feel like i need an insulin shot. and if bob's got me blocked like i think he does, will somebody please relay it for me?
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