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Mind Fuck - 2/27/2010 7:16:55 AM

DomRumsfeld

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Looking for ideas for a mind fuck. My slave feels that she has never experienced the margins of her emotions. she needs a real roller coaster ride. That being said, I am not looking for a kidnap, rape play or sex w/ another person scenarios. faux abandonment is out also. I am not a sadist either. I have a knife trick scenario in mind and I'm aware of the ice/branding scenario. How bout it? Any creative mind fuck ideas?

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RE: Mind Fuck - 2/27/2010 7:42:56 AM

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Objectification? Turn her into a lampstand or table or something. A while of that, ignored, being just furniture, I'm assured is a hefty mindfuck.

There's that, or pet play. I saw a thread on another site about fake dogfood recipes recently.

Kinda depends on your definition of mindfuck. The ice/branding and knifeplay ideas sound closer to edgeplay, so if you both crave the intensely physical, how about a jail scene for a weekend, or longer - given time and other concerns are taken into consideration.

Public exposure/humiliation?

I tend to favour more passive mindfucks - it's all about what you can make happen in her head, after all, not so much what you can/might do to her body.

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RE: Mind Fuck - 2/27/2010 8:01:14 AM

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Hmmm good thoughts and thank you. she claims she is edgy yet she is a tough nut to crack re: insight. this is definitely trial and error. We are both intensely physical yet it is her mind and her emotions that I need to take for this ride. btw, the mind fuck subject was one she raised and one into which she herself has no clear insight. I believer she really doesn't know herself.

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RE: Mind Fuck - 2/27/2010 8:07:04 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DomRumsfeld

Looking for ideas for a mind fuck. My slave feels that she has never experienced the margins of her emotions. she needs a real roller coaster ride. That being said, I am not looking for a kidnap, rape play or sex w/ another person scenarios. faux abandonment is out also. I am not a sadist either. I have a knife trick scenario in mind and I'm aware of the ice/branding scenario. How bout it? Any creative mind fuck ideas?

Errr, you said mind fuck.
Most of what you just mentioned are physical actions with a mental dynamic.
Want a straight up simple mind fuck?
Bring something absolutely deranged to your next session- a 15 inch dildo, a blowtorch, a plug the size of a bowling pin.
Slap that mother down, right where she can see it, watch her eyes roll, brain go ooooooh ooooh what the hell is he going to do with that thing.

(Note-This works a whole helluva lot better if you have an affinity for edge play and she knows it. If not, have fun, spend a few weeks dropping hints about unusual new interests, thoughts on new games, taking things in some slightly deeper directions)

Do your usual thing, but maybe toss some sensory deprivation, but revel in the fact that, at some level, she is gonna be completely cognizant of the presence of the instrument of clitoral destruction, car battery, whatever etc... and that is going to be fucking with her through the whole scene.

The kicker?
You never use whatever your chosen decoy is.

Just plant the seed.
Play with it.
Play word games around it.
Look at the torch, vice, rack at the end and say, "Oh man. Never got around to you. Oh well. Next time." and then don't say anything else.
If you are an artist, you can play it out for weeks, keep her riding on that edge.
If it's a plug, start doing anal training with little plugs, tell her you are working your way up, if its a torch introduce some base elements of fire play, things like that.
Trust me.
There are only about one hundred trillion billion little cruelties and mind games that can easily be spun from this base scenario, all of which will enable you to jerk her leash at any point you want.
Power, control. The heart of D/S.
Yum.

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RE: Mind Fuck - 2/27/2010 8:14:42 AM

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There ya go. We are on a similar wave length. I have in mind a razor sharp knife, blindfold her and will substitute a metal spoon handle for knife during the real play. Further insight: we were at a nightclub and they were shooting a promo video for an upcoming band. They had cameras everywhere and she was freaked out like it was an episode of Cheaters. Camera dudes kept wandering the club shooting film of the patrons (which kinda surprised Me that the club allowed that). Anyway, that's the freak out she constantly refers back to.

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RE: Mind Fuck - 2/27/2010 10:07:15 AM

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quote:

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I have in mind a razor sharp knife, blindfold her and will substitute a metal spoon handle for knife during the real play.

Use the knife and keep the blindfold in your pocket, dude! Knives have a blunt side, y'know

Hunter's knives are a favourite, I hear. There's plenty of experts here who'll expound on safe but scary knifeplay.

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RE: Mind Fuck - 2/27/2010 12:57:32 PM

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Ok, here's where we get to see just how SICK you Doms can be. Should be fun!

dove
(hoping her perverted Dom doesn't read this thread. lol)

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RE: Mind Fuck - 2/27/2010 12:58:40 PM

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Blowtorch? ROTFLMAO!

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RE: Mind Fuck - 2/27/2010 1:02:34 PM

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You want a mind fuck?......................

No.......................:)

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RE: Mind Fuck - 2/27/2010 1:40:00 PM

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No, but, I love being fucked out of my mind! lol

(couldn't resist)

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RE: Mind Fuck - 2/27/2010 1:44:51 PM

dove967

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Ok...ok...ok.......ADD at work here. I just got the joke, Sir Jeffff.

(slow but not silly)

ok, mabey a little silly...

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RE: Mind Fuck - 2/27/2010 1:50:48 PM

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Have her stand, knowing she will soon be bound to a chair. Break glass, so there are glass shards in front of the chair. A lot of them. Blindfold her, spin her round and around, play for a while, so she no longer knows which direction is which. Take her to the chair and bind her in it. She'll think she's facing the direction of the broken glass, because that was the orientation of the chair before. The trick is that you turned the chair around, so she's facing a "safe" area.

Play with her in the chair for a while. Then scatter thin potato chips on the floor in front of her, telling her she is going to have to get up and walk across the glass. Untie her (blindfold still on) and have her walk across the potato chips. The chips cracking will sound a lot like pieces of glass breaking underfoot.

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RE: Mind Fuck - 2/27/2010 2:11:32 PM

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That is positively evil, Red! I like the way you think

zeph

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RE: Mind Fuck - 2/27/2010 2:32:16 PM

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How about this one... Next time you go the the hardware store with her. Go the the section where they have the huge wood clamps. Take your time and check out all the clamps. Give some to her to try operating. Then buy up a couple of the biggest ones.

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RE: Mind Fuck - 2/27/2010 2:43:21 PM

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AND??? Where's the mindfuck, all she knows is the clamps has been bought. Mindfucks aren't your strongest suit are they?

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RE: Mind Fuck - 2/27/2010 2:46:57 PM

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Quite true, she may think he's just taken up woodworking.

The worst one i ever had done to me, when blindfolded and tied down, was the Dom i was dating at the time squirted hair conditioner on me and told me that it was "bird sh*t." You know, when you're blindfolded that stuff is cold and feels just like you might think the real thing would feel. i found myself imagining where and how he collected it, and why, just for the purpose of squirting it on me. Kept my brain spinning for a loooooong time.

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RE: Mind Fuck - 2/27/2010 2:57:58 PM

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Just because Raven got me hot hot hot with an awesome article link, I am going to share one of my favorite CM posts ever.

http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=1842814

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RE: Mind Fuck - 2/27/2010 3:13:51 PM

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Well, I'm not into woodworking and I have done this and it scared the crap out of her.

Keep your rude comments to yourself zephrofthenorth. I did not ask you for a critic of what I'm good at, duh.

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RE: Mind Fuck - 2/27/2010 3:25:52 PM

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quote:

How about this one... Next time you go the the hardware store with her. Go the the section where they have the huge wood clamps. Take your time and check out all the clamps. Give some to her to try operating. Then buy up a couple of the biggest ones.

What is unique about this is it an be done outside of a scene. Just an innocent trip to the hardware store. Yeah, if youre a wood worker it might not work.

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RE: Mind Fuck - 2/27/2010 3:30:04 PM

Fitznicely

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Well, I'm not into woodworking and I have done this and it scared the crap out of her.

I've done this too. Got a nice wide eyed "no way".

Man, I love hardware stores...

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