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Hi.. my first post here.. my impressions so far.. - 2/27/2010 7:19:42 AM

SirAldric

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OK.. I'm a newbie.. we can all agree on that so don't shoot me ;-)
I'm impressed with the large traffic on this site; so many people in this community.
Amazing indeed.

Less impressed am I with the seemingly incredible high percentage of fake people here.
Scrolling through some profiles I got disappointed soon; it seemed there were hardly any real women here.
So many unbelievable female slave profiles with pics which simply are too good to be true, texts that seem to be copied from one fake profile to the other, full of typos and/or unbelievable statements. 'Masters' that behave like idiots and completely seem to misunderstand what D/s is all about.

It seems the little pubertal boys, the morons and the small far far away criminals have taken over this place.
Pity, because I like the concept.

So community, what are your feelings about this?

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RE: Hi.. my first post here.. my impressions so far.. - 2/27/2010 7:22:26 AM

Jeffff

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What community?

Who are you to declare another fake?

You are about to be buried in scorn. Lets see if you have the stones to take it!

Let THIS resonate through the community!

Love

Jeff

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RE: Hi.. my first post here.. my impressions so far.. - 2/27/2010 7:23:54 AM

Smutmonger

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that's what you get for looking at profiles written by nigerian scammers?

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RE: Hi.. my first post here.. my impressions so far.. - 2/27/2010 7:27:39 AM

LaTigresse

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quote:

ORIGINAL: SirAldric

OK.. I'm a newbie.. we can all agree on that so don't shoot me ;-)
I'm impressed with the large traffic on this site; so many people in this community.
Amazing indeed.

Less impressed am I with the seemingly incredible high percentage of fake people here.
Scrolling through some profiles I got disappointed soon; it seemed there were hardly any real women here.
So many unbelievable female slave profiles with pics which simply are too good to be true, texts that seem to be copied from one fake profile to the other, full of typos and/or unbelievable statements. 'Masters' that behave like idiots and completely seem to misunderstand what D/s is all about.

It seems the little pubertal boys, the morons and the small far far away criminals have taken over this place.
Pity, because I like the concept.

So community, what are your feelings about this?

I checked my books and you are not a real Knight. You, dear boy, are a fake!

QE 1

( as am I........contrary to popular belief.......I am not a virgin...)

< Message edited by LaTigresse -- 2/27/2010 7:28:55 AM >

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RE: Hi.. my first post here.. my impressions so far.. - 2/27/2010 7:50:04 AM

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If you cant sort the wheat from the chaff, you need better skills... telling us that you think most of the people you have come across are bad people, isnt our problem, its YOURS and nothing we can do will change that...we know there are good and bad everywhere yet we manage to find ourselves able to partake of the site and especially the forums without being upset at the "others".

However welcome to the boards, stick around and remember nowhere is safe from the HNG, scammer or wanna be.
of course your definition and mine may differ.
Lucy

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RE: Hi.. my first post here.. my impressions so far.. - 2/27/2010 8:19:45 AM

DarkSteven

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Welcome.

Yeah, when I read through the fake slave profiles, I thought "These morons can't even distinguish between D/s and kinky sex." Then I read the profiles of the men too dumb to know the difference either...

Just don't complain about the fakes here, the Dommes who charge money, and fat people. We've heard all those before.

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RE: Hi.. my first post here.. my impressions so far.. - 2/27/2010 8:22:23 AM

choccywoc

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Whatever...welcome to CM.

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RE: Hi.. my first post here.. my impressions so far.. - 2/27/2010 8:25:06 AM

UniqueRaven

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Oh Jeffff, please be nice.

i'm going to be.

OP, welcome to the boards. There are many more "real" people on this side of things.

i use the "other side" (as they call it) too, i'm searching as well right now. And it's funny i thought about this this morning- even with all the fakes and creeps and just plain scary people, i like this site, because 1) it's free; 2) It's "community moderated" (mostly) and 3) there are a lot of good people here, if you just take the time and say "God Bless" to the fakes. i've had my pics, and profile text stolen, used by scammers, cam artists, you name it, and i'm still shouldering on and happy....still way better than Alt, or any other paysite in my view.

Just be prepared if you come over to the boards and complain, you will get flamed - because it's not what the boards are for, and there's a post like yours at least once a week.

My best to you, and good luck.

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RE: Hi.. my first post here.. my impressions so far.. - 2/27/2010 8:25:56 AM

peppermint

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

Welcome.

Yeah, when I read through the fake slave profiles, I thought "These morons can't even distinguish between D/s and kinky sex." Then I read the profiles of the men too dumb to know the difference either...

Just don't complain about the fakes here, the Dommes who charge money, and fat people. We've heard all those before.

Don't forget to add to the list those who are collared and have NO business being on this site. Also, add those who just come here for the forums as they have NO right to clutter up the system just because they want to participate in silly forums. Heck. we ALL know this is a sex hook up site only.

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RE: Hi.. my first post here.. my impressions so far.. - 2/27/2010 8:26:44 AM

Justme696

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quote:

It seems the little pubertal boys, the morons and the small far far away criminals have taken over this place.
Pity, because I like the concept.

it is the internet....pubertal boys and girls love it

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RE: Hi.. my first post here.. my impressions so far.. - 2/27/2010 8:30:49 AM

peppermint

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quote:

ORIGINAL: SirAldric

OK.. I'm a newbie.. we can all agree on that so don't shoot me ;-)
I'm impressed with the large traffic on this site; so many people in this community.
Amazing indeed.

Less impressed am I with the seemingly incredible high percentage of fake people here.
Scrolling through some profiles I got disappointed soon; it seemed there were hardly any real women here.
So many unbelievable female slave profiles with pics which simply are too good to be true, texts that seem to be copied from one fake profile to the other, full of typos and/or unbelievable statements. 'Masters' that behave like idiots and completely seem to misunderstand what D/s is all about.

It seems the little pubertal boys, the morons and the small far far away criminals have taken over this place.
Pity, because I like the concept.

So community, what are your feelings about this?

My feelings are that it is really sad when a supposedly grown up adult has to whine and complain about a web site that costs him absolutely NOTHING for his very first post on the site. Such a post makes you seem a bit silly and not what I expect from a Dominant.

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RE: Hi.. my first post here.. my impressions so far.. - 2/27/2010 8:37:40 AM

RedMagic1

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quote:

ORIGINAL: SirAldric
completely seem to misunderstand what D/s is all about.

Pardon me, but do you completely understand what D/s is about? I don't, but I do know that I really enjoy kinky sex!

So let's see. I've been the D in a D/s relationship that lasted a few months. I've currently got a fun situation with a college student who contacts me when she thinks she's slacking, and I give her a bedtime, and tell her she can't log into either Facebook or CM until she finishes her calculus homework, etc. Nothing sexual involved there at all though; I like the control and she likes the structure. That said, I much prefer putting my hands on naked women!

Honestly, SirAldric, who are you to decide who is fake? Hide the profiles you don't wish to see, block the emails you no longer wish to receive, and focus on the positive. Which of the following two lines would give a better impression when introducing yourself at a party?

1."Great party, a shame about all the shit in the front yard though."
2. "Great party. My name's Aldric. I've been interested in BDSM for x many years. I'm pretty good at Y thing, and am interested in Z but still don't know much about it, so I'm hoping to meet lots of great people here."

I hope you can see the point here. Good luck on the site. I've had a great time here, and I hope you do too.

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