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came4U -> RE: I Need a Slave to Love (2/28/2010 9:24:40 AM)

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Nah. You can only mentor those who are humble enough to realise that they have room to grow.


but that is the problem,

if you recall...he is going to be in his 30s FOREVER!!

geez louise. How can a person like that grow? lol

edit: MJ didn't wanna grow up either, and we all know how that disabled him.




LadyAngelika -> RE: I Need a Slave to Love (2/28/2010 9:25:28 AM)

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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

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For you, yes. I'm sure it is a popular belief.

Btw, I find winkies come in handy in this text based enviroment for indicating jokes ;-)

- LA


I was responding to domi... 99% of the time one can assume it is a joke when I am posting a reply to him, unless they want to assume it isn't... which is fine by me..


Oh. Well I don't pay enough attention to domi to have noticed that pattern.

- LA




juliaoceania -> RE: I Need a Slave to Love (2/28/2010 9:26:45 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

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For you, yes. I'm sure it is a popular belief.

Btw, I find winkies come in handy in this text based enviroment for indicating jokes ;-)

- LA


I was responding to domi... 99% of the time one can assume it is a joke when I am posting a reply to him, unless they want to assume it isn't... which is fine by me..


Oh. Well I don't pay enough attention to domi to have noticed that pattern.

- LA



Your loss...

He is one of the most entertaining posters on this board...






LadyAngelika -> RE: I Need a Slave to Love (2/28/2010 9:27:08 AM)

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ORIGINAL: came4U

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Nah. You can only mentor those who are humble enough to realise that they have room to grow.


but that is the problem,

if you recall...he is going to be in his 30s FOREVER!!

geez louise. How can a person like that grow? lol


No I don't recall. Surely you don't think I was masochistic enough to read this entire train wreck?

- LA




LadyAngelika -> RE: I Need a Slave to Love (2/28/2010 9:28:36 AM)

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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

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For you, yes. I'm sure it is a popular belief.

Btw, I find winkies come in handy in this text based enviroment for indicating jokes ;-)

- LA


I was responding to domi... 99% of the time one can assume it is a joke when I am posting a reply to him, unless they want to assume it isn't... which is fine by me..


Oh. Well I don't pay enough attention to domi to have noticed that pattern.

- LA



Your loss...

He is one of the most entertaining posters on this board...


I disagree.

- LA




susie -> RE: I Need a Slave to Love (2/28/2010 9:28:58 AM)

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ORIGINAL: SaintIntensity

I think a succinct "good luck with that" will suffice - does anyone else think this is actually Bob's "inner demon" being unleashed? 6 posts in and he is telling people what the "lifestyle" is all about... wowsers!


Funny I was wondering if this was another Bobbie incarnation. If not what the hell is happening to the world of CM?

susie
a very NOT grandmother (or even mother for that matter)




kiwisub12 -> RE: I Need a Slave to Love (2/28/2010 9:29:35 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Dante17677

There is no trap. I've been nothing but honest about who I am. Which is far more than I can say for most people. I may not be nice to the trolls, but I've always treated women I've dated with respect. At least until they cheat on me. Then I just break up with them. I've never tolerated cheaters or liars. I find them to be infinitely repugnant.



Maybe we are getting to the core of things here. If all your relationships end with the woman cheating on you, then being the only common denominator of all these relationships, you need to ask yourself what it is about you that leads the women in your life to cheat on you? Until you can answer this, then all your relationships are doomed - and if you get your ideal woman and seclude her away frome everything and everyone, then it will probably be the mailman , the milkman or the meter reader that she cheats with.
You've said a lot of things that taken by themselfs are really nice, and even more things that raise the hackles of this "grandmother". You sound a lot like a 17 year old that was hurt by his first girlfriend and is lashing out at everyone else.

You still haven't offered a lot of reasons why a beautiful young woman would want to come to you - its been all about you - your need for physical beauty, your need for emotional healing, your need for solitude. You might want to address that on a more human level - not your ability to control someone, but your enjoyment of laughter or gardening or woodworking or something other than the 10 minutes a day that you spend "controlling" someone.




juliaoceania -> RE: I Need a Slave to Love (2/28/2010 9:30:43 AM)

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ORIGINAL: came4U

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Nah. You can only mentor those who are humble enough to realise that they have room to grow.


but that is the problem,

if you recall...he is going to be in his 30s FOREVER!!

geez louise. How can a person like that grow? lol

edit: MJ didn't wanna grow up either, and we all know how that disabled him.


Remember what the hippies said, "Don't trust anyone over 30"






juliaoceania -> RE: I Need a Slave to Love (2/28/2010 9:31:47 AM)

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I disagree.

- LA


As is your right....~smiles~




came4U -> RE: I Need a Slave to Love (2/28/2010 9:32:43 AM)

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No I don't recall. Surely you don't think I was masochistic enough to read this entire train wreck?


oh, hmm clever. lol butttt, I am too lazy to look back for it, but he did claim that he is so 'youthful' that he will still look 35 at age 70. lol

awe, don't we all think that though? as teenyboppers we imagined that 30 yr olds were ancient and almost ready to be put out to pasture. Then we grow up. Well, some of us are in the land of reality it seems.




kiwisub12 -> RE: I Need a Slave to Love (2/28/2010 9:32:45 AM)

ohhhhh - zing!!! - not.

you are so funny when you are being defensive. Maybe you have a sense of humour after all.




krikket -> RE: I Need a Slave to Love (2/28/2010 9:35:17 AM)

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came4U -> RE: I Need a Slave to Love (2/28/2010 9:35:47 AM)

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Remember what the hippies said, "Don't trust anyone over 30"


you know you are a grown up when.........you see bellbottoms come back into fashion 4X.

you know you are in denial when.......you are 31 and believe you will look the same in retirement.




sirsholly -> RE: I Need a Slave to Love (2/28/2010 9:38:26 AM)

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you know you are a grown up when.........you see bellbottoms come back into fashion 4X.
or when you see kids dressing like we dressed as teenagers and realize good ol' mom was right...We DID look ridiculous!!




LadyAngelika -> RE: I Need a Slave to Love (2/28/2010 9:38:33 AM)

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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

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I disagree.

- LA


As is your right....~smiles~



Indeed. ~smiles~

- LA




Dante17677 -> RE: I Need a Slave to Love (2/28/2010 9:40:03 AM)

Cheaters cheat, nothing can change this. Blaming the victim of a cheater is like blaming the victim of a rapist or a child molester or other sexual deviant.

Most people cheat these days, it's become accepted by our over-sexualized society. I simply refuse to accept it. It's wrong to cheat and even more wrong to blame the victims of cheaters.

I'm simply not looking for the overtly social woman. I'm not overtly social myself, so such a person would never be compatible with my preferred lifestyle. This isn't a flaw...it's a difference of lifestyle.

It's always interesting to me that the moment the topic of cheating comes up some cheating idiot always counters with the mentioning of someone being controlling...which isn't the case.

Control in a master-slave scenario to me is merely the fantasy. In my mind it's always been the slave that's really in control because she chooses to allow you to be her master. A slave is a precious gift from the slave herself. She gives you the gift of herself.

Without her desire to be your slave, you will never be her master. Of course I'll just assume most people here are already aware of this.






came4U -> RE: I Need a Slave to Love (2/28/2010 9:40:16 AM)

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or when you see kids dressing like we dressed as teenagers and realize good ol' mom was right...We DID look ridiculous!!


andddd, when spankins' were so the 'norm' that we were told often to pull down our pants....

now we are tellin' em to pull em UP!!

edit: btw, Dante all this cheating, cheating talk?? ooook

I've never cheated nor been cheated on (that I know or care about lol), but it seems you have some trust issues. That to me..is a no-no. You gotta get your shieet together son. It is way too much info and way too much baggage for my taste anyways.





CalifChick -> RE: I Need a Slave to Love (2/28/2010 9:46:25 AM)

I have the distinct impression of Cherry 2000, before the dude had sex with her on the wet soapy kitchen floor. 

And he's not going to get Melanie Griffith at the end.


Cali




KatyLied -> RE: I Need a Slave to Love (2/28/2010 9:50:01 AM)

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As is your right....~smiles~


Indeed. ~smiles~


Stop it!  ~smiles~

[;)]





Dante17677 -> RE: I Need a Slave to Love (2/28/2010 9:53:00 AM)

Not everyone I dated cheated, but it is more common where I lived than in other regions. I've lived elsewhere before and I never had problems with cheaters until I moved here. Here, cheating is like a sport. People here try to figure out how many people they can get away with fucking before the week is done. It's all rather...well...sickening.

It's definitely left me with a bad taste in my mouth in regards to cheaters.




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