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RE: Matchmakers - 3/3/2010 6:18:40 PM

HeathenMa1am

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If there were a real matchmaking service, like you say you are looking for something specific and whoever has it replies, that would actually be pretty cool. That's pretty much the way I acquired my cat. Looking for a specific breed, color, etc. Of course in the case of humans I am looking for specifics that don't fit neatly into a computer search box, like "genuine" and "polite". Things that require human judgment.

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RE: Matchmakers - 3/8/2010 5:00:35 PM

joether

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Yeah, really sucks, for us subs who (legitly) wish to meet a wonderful Domme. Have a nice relationship, and go, where ever the relationship goes. Unfortunately, we get lost in the shuffle with all this garbage (heck, the scammers go after subs too). Still, sometimes, the good Domme/sub is least where you look.

I'm happy if a Domme just looks at my profile, let alone actually try to communicate. I dont bite (ok, not much...), dont smoke, dont drink (ok, maybe 3 times a year). I have to duck for doorways, ceiling fans and low flying aircraft.

So, to the OP, I would simply block the request, or report it as a scam. Someone I dont know, wants me to inspect their partner for some unknown reason. Yeah, THAT, sounds suspicious.

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RE: Matchmakers - 3/9/2010 1:52:07 AM

allthatjaz

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What woman in her right mind is going to contact another woman and stranger with this sort of bollox ?
What woman in her right mind is going to show interest in dominating someone elses submissive who they have never met, never talked to and have no idea if they even exist.
This is where men get women so wrong. They think they are being clever when in fact they are just making complete prats of themselves!

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RE: Matchmakers - 3/9/2010 4:07:56 AM

ResidentSadist

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I haven’t been in a Yahoo group for 10 years and scammers up their game every few months. I have no idea if there is a new game in town. But I can tell you about the old game that was not a scam by my experience.

This was (maybe still is) popular in yahoo user groups and even a few PEP members who are inundated by so many submissives applicants. To “test” validity or worthiness of long distance applicants, a Domme local to the sub is offered the service of the applicant for a limited time. The jest of it was that long distance Domme gets a report from the local Domme, sub gets chance to audition, local Domme gets temp gifts/service of a said sub. Several years ago my girl ran the local PEP** and I often saw them swap, verify and rate client/sub/applicants like that.

On CollarMe, I get requests to do scenes with or check out local subs for long distance Dom/mes several times a year. When I used to be on AOL or Yahoo, it was a frequent occurrence. In the past I have met a few locals for lunch as favors for long distance online friends.

**no I wasn’t her slave, she was mine. Yes, I know, a pro Domme as a slave to the RS… unimaginable eh?

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RE: Matchmakers - 3/9/2010 5:40:38 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: joether
I have to duck for doorways, ceiling fans and low flying aircraft.

*giggle* For a moment, I had hoped you were my WoW Guildy "Monkey". He's 6'7". I had to run off and play with him for a bit this morning. Thank you for reminding me. I had not paid any attention to my little Monkey in a while. It's always good to stoke the fires unexpectedly. Keeps boys on their toes.

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RE: Matchmakers - 3/9/2010 5:44:57 AM

MsStarlett

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Oh.... And that Matchmaker thing? That's what your profile is for. You list what you like and what you're looking for... then you read the profiles of others. Anything worth having is worth working for. Start reading.

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