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RE: I keep reading female profiles where they want a ma... - 3/2/2010 6:12:09 PM   
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My question is teach them what?



Calculus.  All women want to know calculus.


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RE: I keep reading female profiles where they want a ma... - 3/2/2010 6:37:09 PM   
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Calculus.  All women want to know calculus.



I know it's what I've always wanted!


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RE: I keep reading female profiles where they want a ma... - 3/2/2010 6:42:32 PM   
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My question is teach them what?



Calculus.  All women want to know calculus.




And statistics.



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RE: I keep reading female profiles where they want a ma... - 3/2/2010 8:49:43 PM   
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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

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ORIGINAL: osf

My question is teach them what?



Calculus.  All women want to know calculus.




And statistics.




I start with basic math:

Kana: How many strokes was that, cunt?
Slave: Errr, 8
Kana: Wrong. Now we have to begin again.
Slave: Noooooooooooo
Kana: Cackles- Mwwwuuaaaaaaahhhhhhhh

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RE: I keep reading female profiles where they want a ma... - 3/3/2010 4:07:49 AM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		In the beginning we very much had a teacher/student relationship. It was fun and I like learning. It was also incredibly hot. What's not to like about a pretty young thing sitting at your feet looking worshipfully up at you while going "ooh, I get it!"? Young like pretty being in the eyes of the beholder.

We have with the years pretty much come to the end of that, as by now the only new things he could teach me are things I'm incapable of learning. Usually involving the ability to visualize in 3D which I can't do. I'm spatially challenged.

What he first taught me was how he likes his tea.

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RE: I keep reading female profiles where they want a ma... - 3/3/2010 8:25:08 AM   
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My question is teach them what?

I'm just beginning to believe it's part of the fantasy.

Women can learn by being with someone how it feels to be what they are, but is that being taught or is that a natural outgrowth of the experience?


What do I want someone to teach me? It depends on what that person knows. I'm looking for someone that brings a new perspective to things, who can make me THINK, who expands my horizons. It's got nothing to do with perversions, or teaching me to be a submissive, or a woman. Nobody can 'teach' me those things. But, I am looking for someone who can offer me experiences, and a point of view, where those natural tendencies can grow and flourish. If he can't offer those things, the relationship is going to get stagnant. I'm not looking for simple compatibility. I'm looking for synergy. And, since I see D/s as having structure, with the Dom doing the leading simply by his role in the relationship, we are not going to work very well together if he can't lead me in ways that I am naturally drawn to follow.

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RE: I keep reading female profiles where they want a ma... - 3/3/2010 8:38:06 AM   
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ORIGINAL: antinomy


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ORIGINAL: osf

My question is teach them what?

I'm just beginning to believe it's part of the fantasy.

Women can learn by being with someone how it feels to be what they are, but is that being taught or is that a natural outgrowth of the experience?


What do I want someone to teach me? It depends on what that person knows. I'm looking for someone that brings a new perspective to things, who can make me THINK, who expands my horizons. It's got nothing to do with perversions, or teaching me to be a submissive, or a woman. Nobody can 'teach' me those things. But, I am looking for someone who can offer me experiences, and a point of view, where those natural tendencies can grow and flourish. If he can't offer those things, the relationship is going to get stagnant. I'm not looking for simple compatibility. I'm looking for synergy. And, since I see D/s as having structure, with the Dom doing the leading simply by his role in the relationship, we are not going to work very well together if he can't lead me in ways that I am naturally drawn to follow.


Looks up, sees she wears the newbie mantle
Thinks, "Out of the mouth of babes."
Well said.


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RE: I keep reading female profiles where they want a ma... - 3/3/2010 3:48:32 PM   
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Status: offline 		OK I expect AquaticSub will be all over me for this...lol... :) .... but teach me anything. I like and appreciate someone who is knowledgeable about things I am not, or who knows more than I do about things I am familiar with already. For example, someone showed me the brakes on a car the other day and how they worked. I never saw that before. Hmm... interesting! But I expect that most of these profiles probably referring to the sub wanting a Dom who can teach them to be a stronger person, meaning that while it may be their nature to be a submissive, they may have trying and frustrating times in attaining whatever it is they are looking for or what their Master expects. Something that will take guidance and helpthat they are not able to do on their own.(?)

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RE: I keep reading female profiles where they want a ma... - 3/5/2010 7:16:58 AM   
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Status: offline 		I don't put it down, but I don't get the "teaching" thing. I consider myself a whole person before I meet anyone. At the same time, I believe everyone we come into contact with teaches us something. But I would never seek someone out to be my teacher. I would seek someone out to be my partner.

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RE: I keep reading female profiles where they want a ma... - 3/5/2010 7:20:36 AM   
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Status: offline 		I love the teaching thing. I generally prefer men I feel are smarter than me. I like someone who challenges me that I can learn from. I lie to learn new things and experience things through their eyes.

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RE: I keep reading female profiles where they want a ma... - 3/5/2010 7:23:17 AM   
MichiganHeadmast


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Status: offline 		I can't teach anything more than what I know.

Once we've established those limitations, let the classes begin!

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RE: I keep reading female profiles where they want a ma... - 3/5/2010 8:37:00 AM   
WinsomeDefiance


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Status: offline 		You know, I've always had a thirst for knowledge.  Now that my memory isn't what it used to be, I can happily say that in my thirst for knowledge - my cup is always only half full!

So sure, while I don't list that I'm looking for someone to teach me - I would sort of assume that it was likely I'd learn something.  And relearn it...and relearn it...

What was the topic again?

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RE: I keep reading female profiles where they want a ma... - 3/18/2010 8:25:30 AM   
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Status: offline 		I think women put they want to be taught on their profiles because they are responding to the fact that most men like to believe women need to be trained to be slaves or subs.

Personally, my belief is that people are dominant or submissive, and that's that. You can't teach them to be what they are not, only to act like it. Why would someone want to be trained to be what they are not? The training should only be as regards to learning to fulfill the requirements and desires of the one they serve.

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RE: I keep reading female profiles where they want a ma... - 3/18/2010 10:02:23 AM   
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ORIGINAL: MasterJackal

I think women put they want to be taught on their profiles because they are responding to the fact that most men like to believe women need to be trained to be slaves or subs.

Personally, my belief is that people are dominant or submissive, and that's that. You can't teach them to be what they are not, only to act like it. Why would someone want to be trained to be what they are not? The training should only be as regards to learning to fulfill the requirements and desires of the one they serve.



It's not always about what they are. it's about their fantasies and being trained seems to be a big fantasy for some

Oh, being under consideration for some reason is another big fantasy

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RE: I keep reading female profiles where they want a ma... - 3/18/2010 11:34:27 AM   
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I don't put it down, but I don't get the "teaching" thing. I consider myself a whole person before I meet anyone. At the same time, I believe everyone we come into contact with teaches us something. But I would never seek someone out to be my teacher. I would seek someone out to be my partner.


What she said.

I learn from my Master and He learns from me.  He expects me to learn from many sources and become more capable.  I like that, I like the support of His expectation that I will demand the best from myself.  But the reason that expectation is support is that He expects that level of learning and effort from Himself too, it's a personal development value we share.

I can totally see that other people might really enjoy a Dom/me-to-sub teaching dynamic, though.  I just think it's an example of individual D/s desires.  Seems it might be a bit hard to maintain over many years, unless the sub has a short memory.

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RE: I keep reading female profiles where they want a ma... - 3/18/2010 11:38:55 AM   
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My question is teach them what?



Calculus.  All women want to know calculus.



How did you know?

Are you Dom enough to teach me calculus, Stephen?  Pwease?

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RE: I keep reading female profiles where they want a ma... - 3/18/2010 12:01:16 PM   
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Status: offline 		The reason I chose my Master is because he intrigued my mind and helped me to see things in a new light.  Through his guidance I have learned a lot about myself, the reasons for some of my reactions, and have grown as a person.  Could I have done this without him, or as a natural course?  To some extent, but not with the same sense of fulfillment and feeling of belonging.

Even after years together I can still look at him and ask things like, "Why do you think I had that reaction?  More physical or emotional?" and he will talk it out with me.  If he was not my teacher at times our relationship would not have the deep bond that it does.  (And I also sometimes have the chance to teach him - it is a two way street.)


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RE: I keep reading female profiles where they want a ma... - 3/19/2010 8:21:05 AM   
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Status: offline 		I think you always learn from your past relationships regardless D/s or not. You learn from both the good and the bad. I have learned so very much from Master these past five years, about myself, the world, the lifestyle, etc... and I think it's safe to say he's learned alot from me as well. I think it's part of growing together as a couple. As for the OP's question I'd have to agree with some here who simply said, "ask them" no one else can answer this question for you, only the person asking to be taught can answer what he/she wants to learn.
 
The blow job comment made me laugh.

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RE: I keep reading female profiles where they want a ma... - 3/21/2010 3:25:48 PM   
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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

Calculus. All women want to know calculus.



Because women want you to lie tangent to their curves?


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RE: I keep reading female profiles where they want a ma... - 3/22/2010 1:16:21 AM   
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My question is teach them what?
I wouldn't have any idea what other people are looking for in such a thing. The things I'm teaching Carol are:

  • How to submit more fully when that is appropriate.
  • How to submit less fully when that is appropriate.
  • How to tell the difference.
  • How to identify a good leader (in the event I die or she gets bored with me)


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