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osf -> What is the ratio (3/2/2010 12:49:25 PM)

This is something I've thought about over the years, what is the ratio of serious dominants to serious submissives , male dom/female submissive


by serious i mean those that actually want to live the life and have a basic understanding of what it entails.

what have you observed?




Justme696 -> RE: What is the ratio (3/2/2010 12:55:19 PM)

1:1

every one always find 1 person that finds him/her serious ( no matter what others think off it) sooner or later




slavekal -> RE: What is the ratio (3/2/2010 1:04:17 PM)

It is really unanswerable.  Too many people fall outside of the neat little definitions.  I am a hetero male sub.  But some people are part time sub, part time vanilla.  Some are switches.  Some straight, some gay, some bi.  And then you have to ask, how bi are they?  Some are masochists, but not submissive.  It would be impossible to get anywhere near accurate numbers.




Smutmonger -> RE: What is the ratio (3/2/2010 1:07:10 PM)

Asking this is really not going to get concrete answers.

I would tend to think more along the lines of how many are going to actually go to some sort of "meat world relationship"..as opposed to "fucking around online"




NihilusZero -> RE: What is the ratio (3/2/2010 1:07:16 PM)

The question is incoherent.

"Serious" is a complete variable measured differently by each person.

It helps that you tried to define what "serious" means for the purposes of the discussion but you chose malleable traits. Everyone wants to "live the life", but what that "life" is becomes wholly an assessment of his/her own. Consequently, everyone wants to live the life they want to live.

We need more specifics parameters here.




osf -> RE: What is the ratio (3/2/2010 1:09:32 PM)


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ORIGINAL: slavekal

It is really unanswerable.  Too many people fall outside of the neat little definitions.  I am a hetero male sub.  But some people are part time sub, part time vanilla.  Some are switches.  Some straight, some gay, some bi.  And then you have to ask, how bi are they?  Some are masochists, but not submissive.  It would be impossible to get anywhere near accurate numbers.


and that has very little to do with the question

I'm asking about those that want to live the life, 24/7 with someone regardless of what their kink is




NihilusZero -> RE: What is the ratio (3/2/2010 1:12:12 PM)

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ORIGINAL: osf

I'm asking about those that want to live the life, 24/7 with someone regardless of what their kink is

Now that's a bit more specific.

So, you're asking what everyone thinks the ratio of 'full-time' D-types to full-time s-types is?

Hmm....I don't imagine there may be too much discrepancy in the end, but I might be inclined to say the numbers would fall a little heavier with the dominants.




wisdomtogive -> RE: What is the ratio (3/2/2010 1:21:48 PM)

Oh my, i am totally clueless on that. All i know for sure is in Sir's household we are both very serious about how we live and we live a M/s relationship.

Ratio is usually a guess don't you think. Who is to know or judge on this? Best of luck in finding your answer.

wisdomtogive




Justme696 -> RE: What is the ratio (3/2/2010 1:26:54 PM)

quote:

ratio of 'full-time' D-types to full-time s-types is?


well if you need a sub to be Dom(me) ( and vice versa)..the ratio would be atleast 1:1




Pudicitia -> RE: What is the ratio (3/2/2010 1:36:44 PM)


Your idea of a 24/7 authority exchange relationship is likely to be very different to someone elses, and therefore perhaps not constitute "serious". You may allow eye contact without permission, they may not. Who is more serious? This question will endless circle ... and never be answered ... blah, blah, blah.




VaguelyCurious -> RE: What is the ratio (3/2/2010 1:41:13 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Justme696

quote:

ratio of 'full-time' D-types to full-time s-types is?


well if you need a sub to be Dom(me) ( and vice versa)..the ratio would be atleast 1:1



What about poly families?




domiguy -> RE: What is the ratio (3/2/2010 1:42:48 PM)

what is the ratio of the threads you start ...to people viewing your threads and muttering, "What a douchenozzle" under their breath?




Jeffff -> RE: What is the ratio (3/2/2010 1:44:45 PM)

Nice change, no one says "cock smoocher" anymore




Mercnbeth -> RE: What is the ratio (3/2/2010 1:48:40 PM)

~ Fast Point of Pragmatic Usage ~
quote:

What a douche nozzle

[sm=threadhijack.gif]

Domi, considering where a "douche nozzle" is traditionally used according to the written instructions, I'd dare say that MANY men posting on this site would LOVE to be, or at least know what it feels like, to be a "douche nozzle".

Just sayin......Not that your name calling skills should come under question.




LadyPact -> RE: What is the ratio (3/2/2010 1:49:28 PM)

The question is impossible to answer.  My definition of serious is going to be different than another person's.  So, which one of us would be right to the actual meaning of serious. 

As for the ratios that folks are throwing around, the 1:1 thing just hasn't been My experience over the years.  I'm sure someone will come along to disagree with Me, but I just don't see the numbers stack up in the same comparison with the vanilla population.  There have always been more males on both sides of the kneel interested in wiitwd than females.  It's in men's best interest to understand that from the beginning and know that they absolutely will have competition.




LadyPact -> RE: What is the ratio (3/2/2010 1:52:19 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Jeffff

Nice change, no one says "cock smoocher" anymore

Never fear.  I can promise you that at least one person that I know is still quite liberal with the term 'cock smoker'.




Jeffff -> RE: What is the ratio (3/2/2010 2:11:21 PM)

Pole smoker is alao a good one


With appologies to any  Poles who do not wish to be smoked


Jeff




osf -> RE: What is the ratio (3/2/2010 2:19:07 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: domiguy

what is the ratio of the threads you start ...to people viewing your threads and muttering, "What a douchenozzle" under their breath?


what is the ratio of your complaints about my threads to actual threads i start?




ownedbyPF -> RE: What is the ratio (3/2/2010 3:03:28 PM)

7.23:square root of -1




VaguelyCurious -> RE: What is the ratio (3/2/2010 3:05:49 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: ownedbyPF

7.23:square root of -1


Haha! Mathematical insults!

If I had biscuits I would share them with you.




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