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antinomy -> RE: What makes up a Dom to you? (3/3/2010 6:51:06 AM)
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Not sure my opinion matters...lol...but, you asked, and I'm bored....
A Dom, simply put is a dominant man. Nothing all that special in and of itself, as testosterone is a glorious thing, and there are lots of guys out there that seem to wallow in the stuff. But, how he WEARS that testosterone....now....that's where a Dom who will attract my attention differs. He has a confidence about him, it's not that he's smug, he just knows that he's in control of himself. He's down to earth, without being a jackass, as there is huge difference between being dominant and domineering. He attracts positive attention, people gravitate towards him- because he's intelligent, well mannered, gentlemanly, and good at picking up on people's cues. He commands respect~ simply by being himself. He's the type of guy that others admire, sometimes without even really knowing why. And why is that? Because, his leadership comes naturally, he leads because he believes he is worth following, and that he has something to offer those that decide on that course. He knows where he's going, why he's going there, and the calibre of people he'd like along for the ride. He does not take himself, or life, too seriously. He can laugh at himself, is down to earth, and yet still knows when to take things seriously. He's human, he knows it, embraces it- and knows, too, that he's never going to be at the top of his game without the right submissive at his side (or kneeling at his feet, as the case may be).
That's a Dom to me. *L* And, if you happen upon one that's unattached, please feel free to send him my way! (Okay, MODS, just kidding....no self serving plugs here, no siree!)
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