thepillowdreamer
Posts: 114
Joined: 2/26/2010 Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: bondageDick Who knows I might not even like being with a real domme and the lifestyle with it . All I know is I like being restrained and some times doing the restraining as well. I not really desperate just want to experience. see, that's what we like to read. you're curious and being candid about it, which is much better than the attitude problem you had earlier. just be civil, have patience, and again, never settle. i checked out your profile and have a couple thoughts on it that could help out. - you said earlier that the pic isn't of you. that's a big no-no, not to mention false advertising. either take it down and add a note that you'll only privately exchange pics, orif you're feeling ballsy, go ahead and plaster your pretty mug up on there. nothing wrong with more faces on the site :3
- your profile is short but not sweet. add more detail. hell, i'll even give you a little boost up at the end of my bitch- i mean, critique ;)
- interests are what a lot of people go by, and you don't have a whole lot of what you're interested in even listed! i know everybody's different, but i like to go ahead and categorize *all* the interests listed so that if somebody who likes the same stuff i do stumbles across my profile, they'll take note of it and it'll be that extra initiative to shoot me a message.
- everybody gets frustrated, but there's no need to get nasty when you don't get what you want. again: patience, patience, patience.
- it's okay to be curious, and don't let anybody tell you otherwise. go ahead and admit that you're curious in your profile: the right kind of domme will appreciate your honesty.
re: your profile. hoo, boy. express yourself! don't just assume that people will see a vague profile and be interested, because to me at least, it reeks of laziness. you noted that you're a nice guy. great! nobody wants to play with a douchebag! so, say, "i'm a nice guy who's curious about bdsm. i love to be restrained but sometimes like to be doing the restraining. [insert more personal info here not related to bdsm, because you're not a faceless piece of meat]. i'm not interested in pro-dommes, but i'd like to find a nice woman to explore with. hope to hear from you!" ehunno. something like that. as is, it's just so bland.
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