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Attractiveness - 3/30/2006 2:16:27 PM   
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On the scope of things how important is it that your partner is attractive? 

on a scale of  1 - 10?

for bdsm____

for public____

for sex____

Other____

What is the top 3 most attractive features about a partner that is to die for.

Excluding love as that is obviously #1 to those who embrace it.

(oops wrong area sorry)


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RE: Attractiveness - 3/30/2006 2:39:59 PM   
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quote:

On the scope of things how important is it that your partner is attractive? 
on a scale of  1 - 10?
for bdsm____
for public____
for sex____
Other____

What is the top 3 most attractive features about a partner that is to die for.


Beauty is in the eye of the beholder--however, I looked for traits more than physical looks, ( well ok his height did spin My head around and his voice melts My heart especially when he screams...)
 
To Me its the traits that are attractive--and then I saw him and he was gorgeous, so add the traits that I fell for and he's hot!
 
The top three attractive to die for things?
 
Height
Voice
Eyes
 
 
okok R1 I am in love I guess I don't count huh?



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RE: Attractiveness - 3/30/2006 2:50:55 PM   
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I find people attractive in different ways...are we talking physical, spiritual, or emotional attraction?
 
I'm giving you the benefit of the doubt here rather than assuming that as a man there's only one thing on your mind...

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RE: Attractiveness - 3/30/2006 3:01:20 PM   
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Well RealOne i would have to admit i look at the whole "deal" but for me the top three well four actually would have to be ..
1.. sense of humour
2..nice eye's
3..personality
4..sexy bum

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RE: Attractiveness - 3/30/2006 3:32:14 PM   
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I always love these types of questions.  As someone who has been turned down upon first sight by a number of local (at the time) ladies who also happen to have profiles on these sites that said they looked at the "whole picture" or that "looks didn't matter", I reailly have to laugh.  Out loud even.  Hah!  =P  I'd love more honesty.  Her: "You are an ugly troll! Go away!"  Me: "Um, so dinner is out, eh?"  Hehe.

As for me, attractiveness is pretty important in my partner.  But I tend to think that showgirl glamourous makeup is quite disgusting.  Give me a nice cute natural woman and I'll take her everywhere just so I can "say", "See.. I got me the most beautiful woman in the world!".  Especially if its a play party and she likes wearing the skimpiest of costumes. =P

The top three things that contribute to my dying for someone based on looks;  The part of her neck right below her ear, her back near the shoulders, and if she wears glasses... Oh... I love girls in glasses.  =)

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RE: Attractiveness - 3/30/2006 3:37:01 PM   
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...do we mean physically? or inside?

Physcially it's
-Eyes
-Facial Cheeks
-Smile.

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RE: Attractiveness - 3/30/2006 3:37:25 PM   
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Attractive to me isn't always attractive to others, and some of the physical things I find MOST attractive in a man (size being a huge factor - the bigger and more muscular, the better) are attributes my Master doesn't have, yet He is the most attractive man I know.
 
The top 3 things that make a man attractive:
 
1.  His mind
2.  The way he treats other people
3.  His hair... gotta have good hair

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RE: Attractiveness - 3/30/2006 3:43:16 PM   
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In terms of looks:
 
1- legs
2- eyes
3- smile
3- feet
 
Non-looks:
 
1- voice
2- humor
3- heart
3- intellect
 
How important are looks? Well.........if you wake up facing your partner and a gasp of despair escapes your lips.....that's not good. I'm an average looking guy at best, and I want to find my lady pleasing to me. She doesn't have to look like Jane Seymour or Beyonce, but I do like to wake up happy.

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RE: Attractiveness - 3/30/2006 8:42:45 PM   
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1.voice
2.intelligience
3.humor
4.confidence

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RE: Attractiveness - 3/30/2006 10:26:38 PM   
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1. Personality
2. Personality
3. Personality
4. Personality

oh ... did I mention personality?

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RE: Attractiveness - 3/30/2006 10:51:24 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Real0ne

On the scope of things how important is it that your partner is attractive? 


It's one of the least important traits but I will admit that I'm legally blind without my glasses and wear a lot of blindfolds. ;)


quote:

What is the top 3 most attractive features about a partner.


I must admit I'm a sucker for Himself's Bronx accent. New York does me in every time. lol

He has an incredibly dark, devious and dirty mind.

He's got a huge funny bone.

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RE: Attractiveness - 3/31/2006 1:39:14 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Real0ne

On the scope of things how important is it that your partner is attractive? 

on a scale of  1 - 10?

for bdsm____

for public____

for sex____

Other____

What is the top 3 most attractive features about a partner that is to die for.

Excluding love as that is obviously #1 to those who embrace it.

(oops wrong area sorry)



The body - I love athletic women on the thicker side with well proportioned/uniform arms

The Voice - Damn... has to be sweet!

Femininity - Can't live without it

Intellect -  Oh yeah... love em' smart


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RE: Attractiveness - 4/3/2006 5:36:42 AM   
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Greetings :)
 
If I may comment please
 
for BDSM: 5
for Public: 5
for Sex: 5
for Other: 5
 
I find different qualities of a person to be attractive, but I mostly look for intelligence, humor, manners ( in public ); physical looks are only the icing on the cake. Something that is not needed, but nice if it comes with the package. Just my own preferences though.

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RE: Attractiveness - 4/3/2006 10:27:31 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Real0ne

On the scope of things how important is it that your partner is attractive? 

on a scale of  1 - 10?


based on what *i* find attractive which is His mind and thought process:

for bdsm__9__  its very important His mind has attracted me and we think alike in general

for public__7__  not as important in public but He can't be a dummy

for sex_2__  doesn't take much of a mind to screw and worst case scenario, "shut up and just fu(k me".

Other__8__  for general conversation

quote:


What is the top 3 most attractive features about a partner that is to die for.


1. mind
2. height and build
3. eyes

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RE: Attractiveness - 4/3/2006 1:13:17 PM   
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 For BDSM 10
For Public 11
For Sexx 8
Other 9
3 most atractive features to Me
Face.
Torso
Legs

Call Me shallow & superficial but if a slaves not attractive then she's not going to be with Me!!!

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RE: Attractiveness - 4/5/2006 5:51:57 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: yourMissTress

I find people attractive in different ways...are we talking physical, spiritual, or emotional attraction?
 
I'm giving you the benefit of the doubt here rather than assuming that as a man there's only one thing on your mind...


Oh there are many ways and levels of attractiveness and it is as varied as the sands on the beach, i left this totally open for anyone to post what they feel is attractive!

quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterRenegade77

Call Me shallow & superficial but if a slaves not attractive then she's not going to be with Me!!!


This brings up an interesting question, i wonder how many people would actually do an ltr with someone without seeing what they look like physically prior to the ltr?

quote:

ORIGINAL: MHOO314

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder--however, I looked for traits more than physical looks, ( well ok his height did spin My head around and his voice melts My heart especially when he screams...)

To Me its the traits that are attractive--and then I saw him and he was gorgeous, so add the traits that I fell for and he's hot!

The top three attractive to die for things?

Height
Voice
Eyes


okok R1 I am in love I guess I don't count huh?


of course you count MH!   :)



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RE: Attractiveness - 4/5/2006 6:02:54 PM   
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That spark that draws me like a moth to a bright burning flame - thats what pulls me in.

Personality first, physicality second

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RE: Attractiveness - 4/5/2006 6:10:53 PM   
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Well...for me...tattoos are sexy as hell...but I really enjoy a sense of humor in a guy  And it matters not for BDSM or vanilla.

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RE: Attractiveness - 4/5/2006 6:43:24 PM   
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I'm not going to sit here and say looks don't play a part. There has to be some attraction...........so if we are talking looks
1.height..........love tall men
2. eyes....love light eyes
3. Arms....muscular arms do me in
and I have this weird obsession for big bald men YUMMMMMMMMMM
then non physical features,
1. Sense of humor....if you don't have one we won't work. I am a goofball, don't take too much serious
2.all really comes down to personality make me laugh and smile and I will always keep you as happy as I can.

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RE: Attractiveness - 4/5/2006 6:55:13 PM   
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Physically:

1. Eyes
2. Silver in a mans hair
3. A huge c***

Non Physically

1. Depth of Character
2. Experience of Life
3. At home with their masculinity.
3a. Being able to laugh at themselves and not take life too seriously, yet at the same time not be shallow.

On the scope of things how important is it that your partner is attractive? 
on a scale of  1 - 10?

I guess your meaning physically here so:

for bdsm =2 

for public =0

for sex =2



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