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Dk18uk -> My first visit to a master tuesday (3/7/2010 2:01:55 PM)

I would consider myself to be a straight top, however I have been having fantasies about sucking a man off, ideally under a forced condition.. I am talking to this Dom who is really into the scene has loads of toys and I am going to visit him on Tuesday.
He has told me once I get to his postcode he will text me details on how to let myself into his place, undress and place a hood on and I will be blindfolded throughout the entire session

I am shitting myself but also excited.. All i know is this first session is just to please him, if I do this then he will invite me for another session this time to try things I want to try..

Any suggestions??



LadyPact -> RE: My first visit to a master tuesday (3/7/2010 2:06:17 PM)

Make sure your insurance premiums are paid.



Lockit -> RE: My first visit to a master tuesday (3/7/2010 2:10:36 PM)

Make me your beneficiary on that insurance.

Really, you would do something that risky? I would suggest stop shitting yourself and temper your hunger to rush right out and do stupid.



kiwisub12 -> RE: My first visit to a master tuesday (3/7/2010 2:12:33 PM)

Make sure he knows that you have told someone where you will be - once you finally get details about where you will be. And you might tell him you need to make a safe call or the police will come knocking.

If he is for real, he shouldn't mind.



Dk18uk -> RE: My first visit to a master tuesday (3/7/2010 2:13:09 PM)

you seriously think i am being stupid.. He has a website so he is genuine..



came4U -> RE: My first visit to a master tuesday (3/7/2010 2:15:11 PM)

Statistics show that most people shit themselves right before an accident.



quote:

you seriously think i am being stupid.. He has a website so he is genuine..


oh my.

waits. counts to 10. [:D] thats funny guy.



Lockit -> RE: My first visit to a master tuesday (3/7/2010 2:19:42 PM)

OP... you're a dom? LOL... this is getting funnier by the moment. 



LadyAngelika -> RE: My first visit to a master tuesday (3/7/2010 2:21:41 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Dk18uk

you seriously think i am being stupid.. He has a website so he is genuine..


Yeah. And if you believe that, I have waterfront property for you in the Sahara.

You asked for suggestions and you got them, from people who have been at this for a while. If you don't like the advice you get here, then too bad.

And seriously, you want to play Russian Roulette with your life, that is your prerogative. Just think about the people who care about you who might give a damn if you disappear. As LadyPact said, make sure your affairs are in order.

- LA



DarkSteven -> RE: My first visit to a master tuesday (3/7/2010 2:22:36 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Dk18uk

you seriously think i am being stupid.. He has a website so he is genuine..


Let's just say that I didn't think you were stupid until I read the second sentence.



LadyAngelika -> RE: My first visit to a master tuesday (3/7/2010 2:22:54 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: kiwisub12

Make sure he knows that you have told someone where you will be - once you finally get details about where you will be. And you might tell him you need to make a safe call or the police will come knocking.

If he is for real, he shouldn't mind.


What it LuckyAlbatross or someone else who used to say that safe calls and the like weren't really prevention but really just made it easier for the cops to find you body faster? I thought that was a brilliant statement and stuck with me. Nothing can ever replace being careful, using your judgement and common sense.

- LA



lally2 -> RE: My first visit to a master tuesday (3/7/2010 2:23:40 PM)

.edited cos i changed my mind.


good luck - be safe. xx



CarrieO -> RE: My first visit to a master tuesday (3/7/2010 2:23:59 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Dk18uk

you seriously think i am being stupid.. He has a website so he is genuine..


A genuine what?   Not to sound sarcastic but seriously...what does having a website have to do with anything?  Have you met this person?  Have you discussed any limits?  Do you have any concerns about stds?  Have you discussed that with this person?  Would he have any problems if you brought along a partner who could be there just in case? 

You say he's "really into the scene"...how do you know that?  Is there any chance of speaking with anyone he's scened with? 

Maybe I'm over-reacting but I think if you haven't given at least a few of these things thought or discussed them with him, you need to cool your jets and find a little common sense.

Just my $0.02....FWIW



VaguelyCurious -> RE: My first visit to a master tuesday (3/7/2010 2:24:33 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

quote:

ORIGINAL: Dk18uk

you seriously think i am being stupid.. He has a website so he is genuine..


Let's just say that I didn't think you were stupid until I read the second sentence.



Dear DarkSteven.
I was about to make that joke. You stole it.
Expect to hear from my lawyers shortly.
Yours,
VC

[8D][8D][8D][8D]



DarkSteven -> RE: My first visit to a master tuesday (3/7/2010 2:25:52 PM)

I am a Dom.  As such,  I am worth at least six lawyers.  



came4U -> RE: My first visit to a master tuesday (3/7/2010 2:29:49 PM)

Dk18

just think of it this way.....we are not being mean or bad., just realistic.

please listen: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iJj1JPZLJto

I know most here honestly don't want to see or hear about anyone getting hurt., really.



VaguelyCurious -> RE: My first visit to a master tuesday (3/7/2010 2:30:23 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

I am a Dom.  As such,  I am worth at least six lawyers.  


Well that's fine cause I have seven.



WyldHrt -> RE: My first visit to a master tuesday (3/7/2010 2:45:24 PM)

quote:

He has told me once I get to his postcode he will text me details on how to let myself into his place, undress and place a hood on and I will be blindfolded throughout the entire session

Any suggestions??

LadyPact nailed it.
You are going to meet someone you don't know, at a place you won't even have the address to until you are en route, and going to get naked and blindfold yourself?? I hope for your sake that this guy doesn't decide to bring out 6-7 buddies after he has you tied up.

As for this guy being genuine because he has a website, are you serious? You do know that it is possible to fake info on a domain registration, right?

The folks here who are telling you to slow down are spot on. Stop long enough to think about what might happen if this guy isn't on the up and up.



SassySarijane -> RE: My first visit to a master tuesday (3/7/2010 2:49:16 PM)

What safety measures have you taken?
What info do you have about him that is verifiable?
Have you discussed and agreed on limits and such?


Others have brought up very important points and your statement that you know he's genuine because he has a website is one huge, steaming, pile of BS. Any moron can have a website.

Edited to add: Can you do us an itty bitty favor and post here after your visit to let us know you survived and didn't end up hospitalized either? Trust me, we'd like to know the outcome of this one.



CalifChick -> RE: My first visit to a master tuesday (3/7/2010 2:52:58 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Dk18uk

you seriously think i am being stupid.. He has a website so he is genuine..


You might want to google the phrase "correlation does not imply causation."

For you, this means:

Ex-forces does not mean you are kinky (from your profile).
Having a website does not mean genuine.


Cali



Dk18uk -> RE: My first visit to a master tuesday (3/7/2010 3:17:41 PM)

your all right of course

thank you for your feedback




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