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lovingpet -> RE: A "Step" Backwards? (3/9/2010 5:42:52 AM)

Here I went and shockingly posted now three times on the Politics and Religion forum just for you, Level, and you have ignored me.  [:(]

Actually, it's all good.  I'm invisible here, remember?  LOL

lovingpet




StrangerThan -> RE: A "Step" Backwards? (3/9/2010 9:54:45 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Level

quote:

ATLANTA — Visit any of the nation's more than 100 historically black colleges or universities and you'll see clusters of men and women engaged in the rhythmic clapping and foot stomping routines known in black Greek circles as "stepping."

Now a white Arkansas team's win in an Atlanta step competition has started a fiery debate over the African-inspired tradition and whether the integration of a once-ethnically exclusive activity constitutes a form of cultural theft.


http://www.google.com/hostednews/ap/article/ALeqM5g0CiyQnstLPTPGAIas816aHbqqCQD9E42R581

The audience was wowed by the white team after their performance, but erupted into boos when they were announced as winners. Why?


The US is certifiably insane when it comes to race, gender and sexual orientation. Aside from a distinct need to codify differences in law, one's heritage and choices have become a castle where entrance is by invitation only, and anything other than observance risks offense. How we got to that point from I have a dream, I'll never understand.

Although I do understand the sponsor's actions.




tazzygirl -> RE: A "Step" Backwards? (3/9/2010 10:10:54 AM)

~FR

When black students tried to attend a white school, they were treated the same, and worse.

When white girls wanted to marry native american boys, the boys were hung.

There isnt a single race that hasnt felt the sting of disapproval from the white community... except the whites.

Guess now they are getting theirs.

Do i agree?

nope

but i do understand.




StrangerThan -> RE: A "Step" Backwards? (3/9/2010 10:27:51 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

~FR

When black students tried to attend a white school, they were treated the same, and worse.

When white girls wanted to marry native american boys, the boys were hung.

There isnt a single race that hasnt felt the sting of disapproval from the white community... except the whites.

Guess now they are getting theirs.

Do i agree?

nope

but i do understand.


Then you understand why we are on track to never get past race, gender and sexual orientation. If the haters won't keep it alive, folks like you will.

Shrug. If that's your vision of the future, have at it. I prefer the one where I can look at a man as a man, a woman as a woman, and not have to see them as anything else.






tazzygirl -> RE: A "Step" Backwards? (3/9/2010 11:06:13 AM)

Assume much? Actually, from some of your previous posts, i already know you do.

As i said, i dont agree with it, but i do understand it.

If you have issues with that, those are your issues. But, before assuming someone is racist, and not having the balls that it requires to actually say that, learn a bit about the person you are assuming about.

People are in an uproar over a squad of white girls beating out a black squad of steppers... the white girls obviously being the better group.

Racism will be overcome when we can look past skin color.. even to this extent... and merely say.. the best team won. They did win. And i applaud them. I also applaud the groups who entered. I condem the handling of the miscalculations of the scores. I find it deplorable the team has to share their winning.

And, before you dare to assume again. I had an uncle who was shot dead because he was "caught" with a white girl.

Ready to make more assumptions?




mnottertail -> RE: A "Step" Backwards? (3/9/2010 11:16:42 AM)

Ja. Bring it On, girlfriend!!!

Oh no, you di int.




StrangerThan -> RE: A "Step" Backwards? (3/9/2010 3:48:35 PM)

Now that's just damned funny.

If you think I mind calling people racist who endlessly categorize then you have assumptions of your own to deal with. Its here floating around in more than one thread. As far as hinting at you being one? What I said is if you can understand why it is acceptable for a group to be outraged because another group won something for no other reason than race, then you can understand why getting past it is more your problem than those who already have. If that makes you feel like you're being branded as a racist, so be it. What it is meant to imply if you want implications is that you're not part of the resolution. You're clinging to history as much as those who operate on the other side and honestly, I have little time or sympathy for either.

I had a cousin who had his throat cut in the middle of a downtown street for hanging with a white girl. Does that make us "even"? My family came to this country as indentured servants and spent their first generation here treated as chattel. Means nothing though does it? Neither does, and if I have to explain the why of it to you, then I'll make the assumption that you're dense.

Every race on this fucking globe has endured persecution. Most of them have never gotten past it. Look at the world. A good portion of the countries in it are suffering some kind of separatist movement, and use things centuries old as justification.

You can live anyway you want. You can scream offense at one offense, and condone another by understanding if you want. That's your perogative. Rather than King dream, what have instead is a super-sensitive society that ties itself in knots over the what they shout to the world they're tolerant over.

it is bullshit.




Level -> RE: A "Step" Backwards? (3/9/2010 3:55:45 PM)


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ORIGINAL: lovingpet

I think it is entirely possible to proceed through history and take a bad path along the way and that is what I believe occurs on occasions such as this.  There are a few (a slim few) who, since the civil rights movement and all the very hard won battles for equality, find they can stand toe to toe with the (for the most part) former oppressers and decide the best way to keep their newfound status is to push those who once pushed them down to the back of the bus so to speak.  It doesn't seem to have anything to do with skin color per se as much as it does history and holding on to hatred and bitterness for past injustices.

The next step in ethnic relations is not to turn thing on its ear and take that eye for an eye.  As justified as it may feel, it solves nothing.  I see a lot of self segregation going on by the very groups who fought long and hard to have the option to not be excluded.  I see the choice to remain or become separate as a self empowerment thing, but it is detrimental when it is done with wrong motivation.  I want everyone to be proud of their heritage, but I appreciate those who can share their heritage and graciously accept incorporate others outside their traditional group far more than I do those who wall themselves off unduly out of what?  Fear?  Anger?  Hate?  A sense of righteous indignation?  This isn't an ethnic/race thing.  I see it in political affiliations.  I see it every time a woman has to hop up on her soapbox and proclaim how she "doesn't need any man".  I see it when men huddle in their old boys' clubs.  I see it when someone gains success and financial stabilty, but still need to "keep it real".  It's ugly.  Progress and forward motion allowed folks to be able to take this stance, but it is one that is harmful both to self and future positive change.  The consequences can be anything from stalemate to a reversed, but equally tragic, injustice in the near future.

Like I said, this is a slim few that do this and it isn't limited to things such as ethnocentrism.  I am not clear on the final outcome, but I hope those judges didn't cow to the negativity of the crowd.  I hope they remained fair and awarded based on merit rather than skin color, national origin, gender, public opinion, or political correctness.  Isn't that supposed to be the great dream that we've been trying to attain?  Then let's make sure we are taking step forward, but in a direction that leads to positive change and closer to this laudable ideal we've been working towards for so long.

lovingpet
the unposter 


Excellent post, pretty lady. I especially liked:

quote:

As justified as it may feel, it solves nothing.


*sprays you with invisible stuff for protection* [;)]




lovingpet -> RE: A "Step" Backwards? (3/9/2010 4:38:53 PM)

Yay!!!!!!  *sprinkles self in gold stars*  [:D]

In all honesty, if the past was truly behind us, we wouldn't need to hold on to hostility and bitterness.  Doing so, or even just excusing it as understandable, is an excellent way to set up the next human tragedy.  I choose to walk away and toward the possibilities of tomorrow.  I do so with determination that things can and will be better even though there is plenty of discouraging signs to the contrary along the way.

lovingpet
*gets all covered up in Level's invisible spray and disappears again*




BeingChewsie -> RE: A "Step" Backwards? (3/9/2010 4:50:54 PM)

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Racism will be overcome when we can look past skin color.


I disagree racism will be overcome when we embrace our differences in both skin color and culture. Our schools, universities, and workplaces can't become racism free until the people in them become more culturally competent. Looking past skin color essentially means seeing everyone as white, everyone as the same, we are not the same, we are different. Those differences need to be embraced and respected. As a white person I won't even pretend to understand what minorities face in this country, I have white privilege, and because of that those of us who are white can't really understand, we can only work hard to become culturally competent so we can put aside our prejudices and stereotypes.




Level -> RE: A "Step" Backwards? (3/9/2010 5:02:59 PM)

Surely you aren't saying only whites have predjudices and stereotypes, though?

I do see value in what you say about needing to understand, and embrace differences, as long as that doesn't create a negative situation. "Different" isn't necessarily good or bad, right or wrong.




BeingChewsie -> RE: A "Step" Backwards? (3/9/2010 5:55:21 PM)

No, not saying that at all.

quote:

ORIGINAL: Level

Surely you aren't saying only whites have predjudices and stereotypes, though?

I do see value in what you say about needing to understand, and embrace differences, as long as that doesn't create a negative situation. "Different" isn't necessarily good or bad, right or wrong.





Level -> RE: A "Step" Backwards? (3/9/2010 6:00:11 PM)

Ok, I wasn't trying to put words in your mouth, I just wanted to clarify what you meant! [:D]




tazzygirl -> RE: A "Step" Backwards? (3/9/2010 8:53:32 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: StrangerThan

Now that's just damned funny.

If you think I mind calling people racist who endlessly categorize then you have assumptions of your own to deal with. Its here floating around in more than one thread. As far as hinting at you being one? What I said is if you can understand why it is acceptable for a group to be outraged because another group won something for no other reason than race, then you can understand why getting past it is more your problem than those who already have. If that makes you feel like you're being branded as a racist, so be it. What it is meant to imply if you want implications is that you're not part of the resolution. You're clinging to history as much as those who operate on the other side and honestly, I have little time or sympathy for either.

I had a cousin who had his throat cut in the middle of a downtown street for hanging with a white girl. Does that make us "even"? My family came to this country as indentured servants and spent their first generation here treated as chattel. Means nothing though does it? Neither does, and if I have to explain the why of it to you, then I'll make the assumption that you're dense.

Every race on this fucking globe has endured persecution. Most of them have never gotten past it. Look at the world. A good portion of the countries in it are suffering some kind of separatist movement, and use things centuries old as justification.

You can live anyway you want. You can scream offense at one offense, and condone another by understanding if you want. That's your perogative. Rather than King dream, what have instead is a super-sensitive society that ties itself in knots over the what they shout to the world they're tolerant over.

it is bullshit.



No one asked for your sympathy. And i dont give a damn if you understand the word "idiot" though you may want to look it up for future reference... im sure you hear that word alot.

In order to get past something, to overcome something, or to work through an issue, you first have to... wait for it... understand... it. And understanding does NOT mean acceptance. Its like the difference between empathy and sympathy... no worries, i will wait while you look them up.

Half my family was already here when the pale faces showed up... lol... i love that expression, better than white. The rest came over as indentured servants. You want the kumbaya without the knowledge it takes to achieve it. Standing up and screaming... "that aint right!" wont get you squat unless you understand whats wrong with it to begin with.

Understanding... its a huge word... im sure you will eventually realize the meaning of the word and the difference between it and acceptance.




StrangerThan -> RE: A "Step" Backwards? (3/9/2010 11:38:15 PM)

The more you write, the more it sounds like you have some real hate issues to deal with. We have the same heritage make up girlfriend. The difference between us is that I can embrace both sides. I have no lingering hatred to deal with, no reason to cling to wrongs done in the past as a reason to condone wrongs done today, no reason to stay entrenched in a them vs us mindset - which you clearly have. Your posts in this one thread are peppered with it.

You toss around the concept of understanding a lot but until you understand that, life will always give you reason to blame someone else, and hate someone else because of what they are, not who they are. Everything else is drivel meant to be rationalization of being irrational. You have my sympathy whether you want it or not.

And that's where I'll leave it so you can have the last word.








slvemike4u -> RE: A "Step" Backwards? (3/9/2010 11:55:51 PM)

This from a man who a few short posts ago identified the startin point as the "i have a dream" speech....what a joke!




tazzygirl -> RE: A "Step" Backwards? (3/10/2010 3:58:26 AM)

a complete joke, mike. but he knows that.




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