Level -> RE: A "Step" Backwards? (3/9/2010 3:55:45 PM)
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ORIGINAL: lovingpet I think it is entirely possible to proceed through history and take a bad path along the way and that is what I believe occurs on occasions such as this. There are a few (a slim few) who, since the civil rights movement and all the very hard won battles for equality, find they can stand toe to toe with the (for the most part) former oppressers and decide the best way to keep their newfound status is to push those who once pushed them down to the back of the bus so to speak. It doesn't seem to have anything to do with skin color per se as much as it does history and holding on to hatred and bitterness for past injustices. The next step in ethnic relations is not to turn thing on its ear and take that eye for an eye. As justified as it may feel, it solves nothing. I see a lot of self segregation going on by the very groups who fought long and hard to have the option to not be excluded. I see the choice to remain or become separate as a self empowerment thing, but it is detrimental when it is done with wrong motivation. I want everyone to be proud of their heritage, but I appreciate those who can share their heritage and graciously accept incorporate others outside their traditional group far more than I do those who wall themselves off unduly out of what? Fear? Anger? Hate? A sense of righteous indignation? This isn't an ethnic/race thing. I see it in political affiliations. I see it every time a woman has to hop up on her soapbox and proclaim how she "doesn't need any man". I see it when men huddle in their old boys' clubs. I see it when someone gains success and financial stabilty, but still need to "keep it real". It's ugly. Progress and forward motion allowed folks to be able to take this stance, but it is one that is harmful both to self and future positive change. The consequences can be anything from stalemate to a reversed, but equally tragic, injustice in the near future. Like I said, this is a slim few that do this and it isn't limited to things such as ethnocentrism. I am not clear on the final outcome, but I hope those judges didn't cow to the negativity of the crowd. I hope they remained fair and awarded based on merit rather than skin color, national origin, gender, public opinion, or political correctness. Isn't that supposed to be the great dream that we've been trying to attain? Then let's make sure we are taking step forward, but in a direction that leads to positive change and closer to this laudable ideal we've been working towards for so long. lovingpet the unposter Excellent post, pretty lady. I especially liked: quote:
As justified as it may feel, it solves nothing. *sprays you with invisible stuff for protection* [;)]
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