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Amanece -> RE: Expanding my defintion of service... (3/11/2010 9:05:48 AM)

I would love for you to show me you have learned from me, observing closely, listening well, what I like and how and you do what would please me without even being told, expecting to be corrected if needed but the disposition, the observation, the attitude..yes, it would make me smile...



blmtrsne -> RE: Expanding my defintion of service... (3/11/2010 9:27:08 AM)

For me, it's two things:
- freeing up my time so I can do other things I like more.
- Getting to know me so well that my wish is your command. That is before I expressed it.
The summum is that you get to know your Mistress that well, that you surprice Her regulary with something She was just getting an urge for.
So, start by surprising Her by knowing which flowers She likes most, when She wants a drink, what kind of drink, what event She would like to visit...



ElanSubdued -> RE: Expanding my defintion of service... (3/11/2010 3:16:47 PM)

Domin8tingUrDrmz,

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Domin8tingUrDrmz to WyldHrt:
It must suck for you subbly types when we dommly types know what you are trying to get [;)]


Actually, at the risk of using the generalized "we", we'd all be very happy to see WyldHrt get her spanks.  Please do continue. :-)

Elan.



LadyNTrainer -> RE: Expanding my defintion of service... (3/11/2010 6:02:35 PM)

I don't have too much to add except that I suspect it's not going to take long at ALL for you to get snapped up by a dominant woman who is close enough to take advantage of what you're offering.  You're doing it right.  Also, even though you are offering no strings service, I betcha you'll be first on her list when she does feel like playing.  Thems who offer good things tend to get good things in return.  Thems who demand all good things for themselves without offering anything to make anyone else's life easier tend to get no takers.  



Rochsub2009 -> RE: Expanding my defintion of service... (3/11/2010 6:54:51 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

Oh and yes, tongue exercises... that's for good conversation, right Rochsub? ;-)



Of course, Ma'am.  In fact, why don't You step into my office so W/we can have a nice, long "conversation".  [;)]



Domin8tingUrDrmz -> RE: Expanding my defintion of service... (3/11/2010 7:16:44 PM)


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ORIGINAL: ElanSubdued

Domin8tingUrDrmz,

quote:

Domin8tingUrDrmz to WyldHrt:
It must suck for you subbly types when we dommly types know what you are trying to get [;)]


Actually, at the risk of using the generalized "we", we'd all be very happy to see WyldHrt get her spanks.  Please do continue. :-)

Elan.



WyldHrt is a darling Guinea Pig. If I had the pleasure of meeting her in person, I'd be honored to give her those spankings. Even if she is a girl...lol. Those of you who'd want to watch her bum go from white to crimson red would have to bring camcorders. [8D]



LadyAngelika -> RE: Expanding my defintion of service... (3/12/2010 4:46:45 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Rochsub2009

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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

Oh and yes, tongue exercises... that's for good conversation, right Rochsub? ;-)



Of course, Ma'am.  In fact, why don't You step into my office so W/we can have a nice, long "conversation".  [;)]


My my... do you consider yourself a cunning linguist then? ;-)

- LA



Rochsub2009 -> RE: Expanding my defintion of service... (3/12/2010 5:41:30 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika


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ORIGINAL: Rochsub2009

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

Oh and yes, tongue exercises... that's for good conversation, right Rochsub? ;-)



Of course, Ma'am.  In fact, why don't You step into my office so W/we can have a nice, long "conversation".  [;)]


My my... do you consider yourself a cunning linguist then? ;-)



i'll let You be the judge of that.  Please let me know after O/our "conversation".  [;)]

(BTW, very good comeback.  i laughed out loud at that one).



angeldmort -> RE: Expanding my defintion of service... (3/12/2010 7:51:21 PM)

"learn how to give a GOOD hot stone massage."
Oooohhhh... [sm=agree.gif]

"Learn how to give a good manicure, pedicure, and facial."
I may cry. WANT!
And if someone were to put away my laundry and iron/put away the fabric room.... I've had things like that on my wish lists for birthdays and christmas and can't get it.



WyldHrt -> RE: Expanding my defintion of service... (3/12/2010 8:38:36 PM)

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Actually, at the risk of using the generalized "we", we'd all be very happy to see WyldHrt get her spanks.  Please do continue. :-)
Elan.


WyldHrt is a darling Guinea Pig. If I had the pleasure of meeting her in person, I'd be honored to give her those spankings. Even if she is a girl...lol. Those of you who'd want to watch her bum go from white to crimson red would have to bring camcorders. [8D]

Geez, you two are makin' me blush! [8D]



AlexandraLynch -> RE: Expanding my defintion of service... (3/12/2010 11:23:16 PM)

I think you're doing pretty well as you're going on. That said, learning how to give good massages, perhaps taking a course or two in that, would not be a bad thing at all.  Being competent at what you do and confident in your competence, while being willing to submit obediently and with devotion....ah, that's supremely sexy.




WyldHrt -> RE: Expanding my defintion of service... (3/12/2010 11:29:25 PM)

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That said, learning how to give good massages, perhaps taking a course or two in that, would not be a bad thing at all.

I agree! I took an excellent course when I was in college (16 years ago), and it was not only fun, but I learned a lot about technique. To this day, I get told that I have "great hands". [:)]



LadyPact -> RE: Expanding my defintion of service... (3/13/2010 12:16:44 AM)

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ORIGINAL: WyldHrt

quote:

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Actually, at the risk of using the generalized "we", we'd all be very happy to see WyldHrt get her spanks.  Please do continue. :-)
Elan.


WyldHrt is a darling Guinea Pig. If I had the pleasure of meeting her in person, I'd be honored to give her those spankings. Even if she is a girl...lol. Those of you who'd want to watch her bum go from white to crimson red would have to bring camcorders. [8D]

Geez, you two are makin' me blush! [8D]


Don't let her be modest.  In My personal opinion, she's fantastic.



WyldHrt -> RE: Expanding my defintion of service... (3/13/2010 12:25:04 AM)

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Don't let her be modest.  In My personal opinion, she's fantastic.

*blush* 
...and LP has made my ass turn red.... and black... and blue... [:D]



LadyAngelika -> RE: Expanding my defintion of service... (3/13/2010 5:52:16 AM)


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ORIGINAL: angeldmort

"learn how to give a GOOD hot stone massage."
Oooohhhh... [sm=agree.gif]

"Learn how to give a good manicure, pedicure, and facial."
I may cry. WANT!
And if someone were to put away my laundry and iron/put away the fabric room.... I've had things like that on my wish lists for birthdays and christmas and can't get it.



See this is where every woman is different. While I would adore for a man to give me a nice massage after a long day, I do see a professional masseuse regularly. As for the rest, I'd rather go to a spa for a facial from a trained aesthetician or to my manicurist as she is absolutely amazing. To me, those things are girl time, me time. So to each her own.

As for house cleaning, it would depend on his job and other obligations. I have a house cleaner that pops in and takes care of the basics. What would be most important to me is that he be proactive about maintenance and the daily things.

- LA



LadyAngelika -> RE: Expanding my defintion of service... (3/13/2010 5:54:38 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Rochsub2009

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika


quote:

ORIGINAL: Rochsub2009

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

Oh and yes, tongue exercises... that's for good conversation, right Rochsub? ;-)



Of course, Ma'am.  In fact, why don't You step into my office so W/we can have a nice, long "conversation".  [;)]


My my... do you consider yourself a cunning linguist then? ;-)



i'll let You be the judge of that.  Please let me know after O/our "conversation".  [;)]

(BTW, very good comeback.  i laughed out loud at that one).



Thanks! And well... a woman can only dream about such a stimulating conversation ;-)

- LA



Scotty306134 -> RE: Expanding my defintion of service... (3/19/2010 1:11:13 PM)

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leave a custome CD of music in the radio, a gift small gift in the trunk, and new book in the glove box, and some various small gifts in the cup holders, maybe on the dash, under the seat...
I'd have nightmares about trying to explain the melted chocolate running down from the cupholders onto the carpet from the treats I'd left for Mistress! Scotty



DesFIP -> RE: Expanding my defintion of service... (3/19/2010 8:26:09 PM)

Some dominants like anticipatory service and others prefer to give the orders when they want something. If she's the type who enjoys giving you orders, then you jumping up and doing things on your own robs her of her fun.

And saying you'll be right back after filling the car with gas but then spending an hour at the car wash cleaning the car deprives her of her car, and also of you. She might well have plans for the two of you to go antiqueing afterward or playing. You need to ask her what she wants instead of assuming.

Beyond that, learn what interests you. Better you be a great carpenter than a half assed cook with no real interest in it.



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