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ForeverOwned -> Do you feel any different (3/10/2010 8:11:39 PM)
when you are submitting to your partner than at other times? For instance, when i am submitting or because i submit, i feel alive, vibrant,sexier and i feel more desirable, more confident, more free and uninhibited. As i go about my day knowing what i know. i smile to myself, because it's like this wonderous mysterious sercret that only he and i share and it makes me feel excited.

MasterSlaveLA -> RE: Do you feel any different (3/10/2010 9:45:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ForeverOwned Do you feel any different I'm a little teapot Short and stout Here is my handle Here is my spout When I get all steamed up Hear me shout Tip me over and pour me out! [;)][:D]

HisSweetElysium -> RE: Do you feel any different (3/10/2010 9:46:20 PM)
no not really, but we're 24x7, so I think it's a bit different for me. Before we took that step, I sometimes felt that way, but now I feel it almost all the time and if I don't, he fixes it. [:D]

petitespitfire64 -> RE: Do you feel any different (3/10/2010 9:54:28 PM)
This lifestyle isn't a weekend hobby or an interesting diversion for me. It's how I live every single day, and have for the last 10+ years. I am submitting to Him at all times, even when He isn't with me. The only time I am NOT being submissive is when I have no Dominant to be submissive TO. So, no, I don't feel any different. No matter what I am doing, my goal is to please Him.

Aileen1968 -> RE: Do you feel any different (3/11/2010 1:21:38 AM)
Do I feel any different? Nope. It's not something that's turned on or off and isn't dependent upon his physical presence. When I was married I didn't feel married only when I was with my husband, I felt married always. It's the same thing with this. I always know that I'm his.

RCdc -> RE: Do you feel any different (3/11/2010 1:46:34 AM)
Submission isn't a turn on turn off thing in our relationship so no, I don't feel any more special or different on that basis. I do feel groovy because I am his and we are together. I feel sexy and vibrant consistantly because our relationship rocks regardless. Plus I am fab anyhoo. And life rocks so I feel alive all the time. the.dark.

lally2 -> RE: Do you feel any different (3/11/2010 2:30:41 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ForeverOwned when you are submitting to your partner than at other times? For instance, when i am submitting or because i submit, i feel alive, vibrant,sexier and i feel more desirable, more confident, more free and uninhibited. As i go about my day knowing what i know. i smile to myself, because it's like this wonderous mysterious sercret that only he and i share and it makes me feel excited. its not something i switch on or off either, and im not saying you do - but there are times when i get a little thrill in my tummy, like butterflies or a totally peaceful feeling sweeps through me or i can feel myself almost reverting to some sort of kid disguised as a grown up (not as a Daddy/lg thing) just that handing it all over has that an effect on me sometimes, not all times, but occasionally that vulnerability thing swings in where i have no choice over something and i have to let it go - it diminishes my ego for that instant but in a nice way. i hope those feelings never go away and those little peeked moments keep coming.

eyesopened -> RE: Do you feel any different (3/11/2010 4:09:33 AM)
It's a good thing to feel alive, vibrant and sexy! In my situation, I reckon I submitted only once and that it is on-going. Every decision I make or defer, every action I take, every quite time, every busy time is in concert with our dynamic, the rules, expectations, and needs for our Relationship. Because we are 24/7 I don't feel vibrant and sexy every minute of every day but all it takes is a moment to reflect on this wonderful thing we have together and yes, I feel alive in a way I had never felt before.

wisdomtogive -> RE: Do you feel any different (3/11/2010 4:29:23 AM)
I am going to agree with the other posters. Being submissive to Sir, is not waving a magic wand and poof I am now this or that. It is more for me about being period.

afkarr -> RE: Do you feel any different (3/11/2010 5:08:05 AM)
Yes and No. It's like a favorite pet; sometimes I have to put in the kennel and go about the business of life, but it's still there. Sometimes I get to let it out to play with.

lucylucy -> RE: Do you feel any different (3/11/2010 6:18:09 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ForeverOwned when you are submitting to your partner than at other times? Maybe I don't understand your question, but I am always in submission to him, so there are no "other times."

leadership527 -> RE: Do you feel any different (3/11/2010 7:55:24 AM)
Carol does not have any feeling that equates to "submissive". For her, it's just the way she operates in the world. There is no time that that she is "submitting" or "not submitting". So this question isn't really relevant to her.

Mercnbeth -> RE: Do you feel any different (3/11/2010 9:40:39 AM)
like Jeff's Carol, this slave doesn't perceive submission or submitting as a feeling. others mileage will most definitely vary.

peppermint -> RE: Do you feel any different (3/11/2010 9:59:10 AM)
I never feel submissive, however I am submissive. As with many other who have replied, we are 24/7. There is not "off" time from my submission. It's part of our dynamic always.

lovingpet -> RE: Do you feel any different (3/11/2010 12:43:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RCdc Submission isn't a turn on turn off thing in our relationship so no, I don't feel any more special or different on that basis. I do feel groovy because I am his and we are together. I feel sexy and vibrant consistantly because our relationship rocks regardless. Plus I am fab anyhoo. And life rocks so I feel alive all the time. the.dark. This! Absolutely! It's like that whole mushy being in love thing. The birds sing just a tad sweeter. The sun is just a touch brighter. And the grass just slightly greener. Then again, I happen to be a little smitten too. [;)] lovingpet

FelineFae -> RE: Do you feel any different (3/11/2010 12:52:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ForeverOwned when you are submitting to your partner than at other times? For instance, when i am submitting or because i submit, i feel alive, vibrant,sexier and i feel more desirable, more confident, more free and uninhibited. As i go about my day knowing what i know. i smile to myself, because it's like this wonderous mysterious sercret that only he and i share and it makes me feel excited. There are different ways in which i submit, so my feelings do change accordingly. If i am cleaning, i feel useful. If asked to fetch a drink, run a bath, or rub an sore muscle; i feel useful and a warm fuzzy feeling that Master trusts in me to do these things in a way he likes for not just anyone would know his preferences... Once, Master decided he was going to confront someone on my behalf. i had been goblin-sitting for her UM and she had not paid me for three weeks. i was mad, and that is not an easy thing to happen in my world. i wanted to really give her a piece of my mind. But i obeyed Master and he dealt with the matter. i felt good that i had obeyed, but i still really wanted to let the woman know how angry she had made me. i submit to be pleasing. i am human, and being pleasing will a lot more enjoyable in some actions over others. So, imho, it just seems to makes sence that one will feel differently in different forms of submission. But even if i am sweeping dust bunnies from behind the toilet while Master is at work, i can still smile in knowing that this action on my part will make him happy. He will never see that dust bunny... in fact if He can live his whole life with out knowing that dust bunnies exist, i have done my job...[:D]

Dominasola -> RE: Do you feel any different (3/11/2010 1:33:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lovingpet quote: ORIGINAL: RCdc Submission isn't a turn on turn off thing in our relationship so no, I don't feel any more special or different on that basis. I do feel groovy because I am his and we are together. I feel sexy and vibrant consistantly because our relationship rocks regardless. Plus I am fab anyhoo. And life rocks so I feel alive all the time. the.dark. This! Absolutely! It's like that whole mushy being in love thing. The birds sing just a tad sweeter. The sun is just a touch brighter. And the grass just slightly greener. Then again, I happen to be a little smitten too. [;)] lovingpet nodnodnod to what both the.dark and lovingpet said. [:)]

littleone35 -> RE: Do you feel any different (3/11/2010 3:52:38 PM)
I am always his submisive and always submitting to his wishes and desires in everyday life so there is not a time i feel "more" submissive. That being said even after more then 4 years i still get that little thrill, butterflies in the stmach feeling when i hear his voice and even more when he walks in the door. Matt's littleone

sblady -> RE: Do you feel any different (3/11/2010 4:57:20 PM)
Yep, we've been together for almost 2 1/2 years and I still get excited and bubbly just thinking of him and our relationship.[:)]

LafayetteLady -> RE: Do you feel any different (3/11/2010 9:02:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: littleone35 I am always his submisive and always submitting to his wishes and desires in everyday life so there is not a time i feel "more" submissive. That being said even after more then 4 years i still get that little thrill, butterflies in the stmach feeling when i hear his voice and even more when he walks in the door. Matt's littleone Exactly. We don't use the D/s terms in our life, but that doesn't change our relationship. After 14 years, I probably feel more strongly about him than ever. I know that even my son has noticed that when I have spent time with my partner, my mood is better, I'm happier and I smile more. Even now, so many years into this, there is nothing and no one who can make me feel as centered and happy as he does. Our relationship isn't perfect (no one's is after all), but when I have a bad day, a text from him will brighten it. When I spend the night at his place, sometimes I will just lay there and watch him sleep. Ok, that might be the times when he is snoring so loud I can't do much else, lol, but like littleon35, he can still give me butterflies in my stomach.

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