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TndrSdst -> RE: Just a few thoughts on respect in the D/s world (4/1/2006 8:24:14 AM)
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Good Morning,
I just have to put my whips worth of comment on this post.
I have found that many many individuals utilize these titles in far to often the incorrect manner. Yet when we gentley point these things out, well shall we say the reation is very mixed. I too am of the old guard ways having been involved in one form or another from an early age. Where I see the differance is in the proper education of those involved. I could go on over all sorts of issues. However that will not be a positive thing to do. So all I can do is to assist those that ARE interested, that understand what it is they are saying.
I must say my favorite request is " Teach Me to Be a Dom. What is it about that question??? You do not teach someone to be a Dom. We can Teach almost anyone to use tools correctly, teach saftey ( we want our slaves and subs around for use for a long time), However Mindset is not something you teach. All of us come out of the Womb either Dominant Or Submissive, what life hands us along the way for the most part is what develops us to whom and what we are. I could go on into the pyschological proccess involved , howewver to dry for most. The mind is a terrible thing to waste.. and Many Doms and slaves and subs( or what ever other title may be used these days) waste it. A shame indeed.
And to Be fair, I find far to many Dominants who are unwilling or feel they never need to practise or better thenmselves. How can you claim to be in control of someone else if you can not control or be in control of yourself??
How can you understand the mindset of slaves and subs with out having had the experience of being there yourself???
Oh well , one slave at a time..one life at a time, we shall educate, flagellate,till they see the light. Till my next rant.. be well..
Flogginly Yours,
TndrSdst
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