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WyldHrt -> RE: Would you like an marking for commercial people? (3/14/2010 9:39:53 PM)
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Well my frame is defently not empty, my text is just not so extreem as you see here regular. Why must all add from slaves be like what they like, what they want and what an dom must do to them, with an picture from there hard dick? Damn i am just looking for frends here and if there comes an serios relation out i am open for it, and that is all i said in my profile, why must it be so coarse? Is an request on normal people who got the same intrest in bdsm so fucking wrong?
LOL, nowhere did I say that you should put up a list of what a Domme should do to you. In fact, I did not mention kink at all, and I'm about the last person on the site that is going to suggest putting up a dick pic.
Your text says that you want to talk with people who have similar interests, but says nothing about what those interests are. There's just nothing there to start a conversation with. You are interested in BDSM... just like nearly everyone else on this site. This is one reason that good profiles list lots of vanilla interests. First off, it gives someone an idea of who you are and what you like to do, and secondly, it attracts people with mutual interests.
You've perved my profile, and no doubt seen that I list cooking, fishing, photography, reading, sushi restaraunts, and crafts there. When I get an email that mentions one of those things, I know the person took the time to read my profile, and that we may have something in common to discuss. Beyond that, it tells a little of what I have to bring to the table as regards a relationship or friendship. Most BDSM relationships are not all kink, all the time; and neither are friendships between people who meet here. There has to be some commonality beyond kink, or it won't be a good match.
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I dont want to top from bottom becourse i want to experience an Dom and not telling her what to do. Then i dont want freaks eather..... just an normal talk damn is that to much??? and then i am the reason that there are here so many webcam and pro's?
See above. It has nothing to do with topping from the bottom and everything to do with getting someone's attention. If your profile doesn't do that, why would anyone genuine want to talk to you?
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I never said that i dont talk with normal people here, i just said that there are so many pro's and webcam girls that it is irritating, with an request for some script so it is clear at first sight that you have to deal with an commercial person. Where you get it from that i dont communicate with normal people at all i dont know, but i think it is only your way of thinking.
First off, I have no idea who you do or don't talk to, and never said that I did. You were the one who came here complaining about pros and cam girls, and said that you were tired of being fooled by them. Believe it or not, I was trying to help you attract less pros, and more genuine Dommes.
Secondly, as I already told you, such a script would rely on the user to be honest about wanting money. The ones who are inclined to be honest either state what they want in their profile, or will tell you on first contact that they want money. The bait and switch types are certainly not going to tick a button that will make their pool of potential income the least bit smaller. Why on earth would they, when they are already deceiving men from the get go?
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Just an field more in mysql, an add an markbox in the profile page "Do you ask for tribute from members on CM? " That can be putted in search options to under pictures and video and that is all.
Who do you think is going to enforce this? It's a free site with a small, volunteer staff that simply doesn't have time to check all profiles to see that everyone is playing by the rules.
You would honestly be better served learning to hone your "Pro radar" than coming here and complaining, or expecting the management of this site to deal with the problem for you. Go to the "Ask a Mistress" forum and look at the profiles of the lifestyle Dommes there. You will see that most are not models with perfectly airbrushed pics and profiles full of kink. They are real ladies, with real life interests beyond kink.
All that said, CarrieO made a good point. If it is friends you are looking for, then hang around the forums more and get to know the people here. The whole purpose of this side of CM is for kinksters to get together and talk, chat, have fun, and make friends.
Who knows, you might even decide someday that I'm not nearly as mean as you might think. [;)]
ETA- sheesh, I spend all that time typing and the OP exits right in the middle of it. [>:]
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