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Seeking Mistress - 3/13/2010 12:45:17 AM

bebound2b

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Hi someone told me that some Dominatrix's take on subs for free, Ive been into the scene for a good 12 years, and am now seeking an online mistress to bring me out in the open.

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RE: Seeking Mistress - 3/13/2010 5:05:39 AM

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try seeking friendship first buddy. trust is essential in a D/s relationship you know

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RE: Seeking Mistress - 3/13/2010 5:15:39 AM

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Most Dominants (Dominatrix is not a particularly favored word for us) do take on personal submissives. However, it isnt a business contract when we do so. It needs to be a relationship built over time, not just something you jump into. It isnt the same as the pros who are more willing to take on shorter term less developed client relationships as business transactions. These are for our own enjoyment and so the person involved has to be more than a client, they have to be someone we want to keep around. Saying 'I want a Mistress' isnt going to help, its you and everyone else on here looking. You need to find a way to make yourself desireable, make a Mistress want YOU.

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RE: Seeking Mistress - 3/13/2010 5:50:40 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: bebound2b

Hi someone told me that some Dominatrix's take on subs for free, Ive been into the scene for a good 12 years, and am now seeking an online mistress to bring me out in the open.

Thanks

A Dominatrix works for money. A Mistress does not. A Dominatrix may take personal slaves but that makes her a Mistress in that situation. Your looking for a Mistress. Finding an on line relationship of any kind will not bring you out. A real time one will.

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RE: Seeking Mistress - 3/13/2010 6:00:24 AM

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OP, welcome to the boards. But you obviously haven't read the FAQ thread at the top of the Ask a Mistress forum. Please do- it can really help you in your efforts to attract a domme.

This is not the place for your personal ad. The place for that, is in your profile.

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RE: Seeking Mistress - 3/13/2010 6:02:18 AM

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Hi someone told me that some Dominatrix's take on subs for free, Ive been into the scene for a good 12 years, and am now seeking an online mistress to bring me out in the open.

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Your post makes no sense. You've been into the scene for 12 years but you need someone online to get you out in the open?

Seems to me that if you were in the scene for 12 years, you'd already be out in the open. And why would you want to revert from the scene to online if you goal is to be out in the open?

You might want to define what you mean by the scene as well as out in the open.

Also, the question that you ask is unlikely to be the question of someone who has been in the scene for 12 years. Without further explanation on your part, I am inclined to doubt your authenticity.

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RE: Seeking Mistress - 3/13/2010 6:18:36 AM

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My guess is that you have been watching and reading femdom porn for 12 years and now are seeking a Mistress online to get closer to realtime?

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RE: Seeking Mistress - 3/13/2010 6:22:32 AM

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ORIGINAL: bebound2b

Hi someone told me that some Dominatrix's take on subs for free, Ive been into the scene for a good 12 years, and am now seeking an online mistress to bring me out in the open.

Thanks

fast reply

I am curious, now is an "online" Mistress, going to "bring you out into the open?" What open???? The screen, webcam??? your post doesn't make any sense.

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RE: Seeking Mistress - 3/13/2010 7:00:05 AM

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Hi someone told me that some Dominatrix's take on subs for free, Ive been into the scene for a good 12 years, and am now seeking an online mistress to bring me out in the open.

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hmmmm your profile says you are 25.....

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RE: Seeking Mistress - 3/13/2010 7:01:45 AM

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Umm...

I have a sneaking suspicion that we may, just possibly, have been trolled.

And not in the nice slurpy way.

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RE: Seeking Mistress - 3/13/2010 8:49:11 AM

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ORIGINAL: masmiss

My guess is that you have been watching and reading femdom porn for 12 years and now are seeking a Mistress online to get closer to realtime?

We have a winner! masmiss is right. I missed it. This is another guy who watches to much internet porn.

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RE: Seeking Mistress - 3/13/2010 11:47:07 AM

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FR,

He could be a guy who realises he's been watching too much internet porn (hence, his having 'been into into the lifestyle for a good 12 years' ('into', not 'in') - and now wants to move a bit nearer to the real world. Just saying.

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RE: Seeking Mistress - 3/13/2010 12:06:16 PM

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Damn Peon....one could get sea sick looking that those abs....lol

Sorry to highjack...now back to your regularly scheduled I need a Domme for free thread

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RE: Seeking Mistress - 3/13/2010 1:29:49 PM

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I've always wondered why women keep telling me that looking at me makes them want to vomit.

Thanks, Drk. *Blush*

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RE: Seeking Mistress - 3/13/2010 1:56:47 PM

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I wouldn't think of vomiting to those abs, however, I do think a lil finger nail action would be warranted.

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RE: Seeking Mistress - 3/13/2010 2:22:09 PM

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Phooey.

Anyway, back to the OP: I think he needs to do some intensive, preliminary learning. The FAQs would be a great place to start. I certainly wish they'd been around when I joined CM those many moons ago.

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RE: Seeking Mistress - 3/13/2010 3:08:58 PM

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ORIGINAL: wandersalone

quote:

ORIGINAL: bebound2b

Hi someone told me that some Dominatrix's take on subs for free, Ive been into the scene for a good 12 years, and am now seeking an online mistress to bring me out in the open.

Thanks

hmmmm your profile says you are 25.....

LMAO

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RE: Seeking Mistress - 3/14/2010 9:55:46 AM

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I think the OP has a point. Women should not demand tribute in the current recession. Domination should be free.
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RE: Seeking Mistress - 3/14/2010 9:59:18 AM

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I think the OP has a point. Women should not demand tribute in the current recession. Domination should be free.
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RE: Seeking Mistress - 3/14/2010 10:02:27 AM

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If you want domination for free. Get a cat. Wait, they cost money too.

Many women will dominate 'for free'. But most won't dominate one who is whining all the time about those who won't, or one who cannot contribute in other ways.

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