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idontwanttogo -> learning to be myself while being someone else's (3/15/2010 12:30:15 AM)
I belong to [Mod Edit: username removed] It is fairly new and, so far, online; so, maybe it should be said it is more like a promise of future belonging? Well, that is not how we say it, though. This is the first time I've belonged to someone in quite this way. I've been owned by persons, served them, but, it was never as part of a romantic relationship and it was not sexual, except incidentally. Sometimes it was friendship, often it was strictly service. Plus, I have spent a long time on my own, serving no one at all. I am out of practice, and walking into unfamiliar territory, both at the same time. It's hard. I'm trying! My profile says I'm a slave. That is not strictly accurate. He owns me, but, I have told him, from the beginning, I will not be a slave to anyone. If I have someone in my life, who owns me, we will be married. I know a lot of people will disagree with this, but, this is my introduction, so they can go disagree on their own! The fact is that with the laws of the Western world being what they are, with societal rules being as they are, to say you are owned by someone is just a saying, and you have to believe that the saying is true. I believe in the Holy Scripture and that a wife is owned by her husband; therefore, the only way a man can truly own me, now, in this society, is to be my husband and to be the head of the woman, who stands between her and the Christ. Thusly, I would be totally owned by my own submission to him, to the laws, to God, through a very well defined, time honored contract. I am here, seeking to know this man, and seeking to understand things that are of his interest. Friends are welcome, too!

Domin8tingUrDrmz -> RE: learning to be myself while being someone else's (3/15/2010 12:47:17 AM)
Welcome. Good luck with your current relationship, I hope it is fulfilling. [:)]

idontwanttogo -> RE: learning to be myself while being someone else's (3/15/2010 12:51:16 AM)
Alright! something is glitchy! Anyway, to the person above this: thank you for the kind thoughts.

AZBBWLVR -> RE: learning to be myself while being someone else's (3/15/2010 1:16:24 AM)
Things I find hard to believe about this story girl Who'd own you and not get sexual? How can you be owned if you have not met? Girl you need a man who wants to shout to the world that he owns you I wrote to your man to ask about you You aren't even on his profile! Why?

AZBBWLVR -> RE: learning to be myself while being someone else's (3/15/2010 1:28:23 AM)
it isn't a glitch you're just too hot to be that smart lol

MasterJackal -> RE: learning to be myself while being someone else's (3/15/2010 4:24:58 AM)
you are a jack ass! she's hot yeah but the girl is obviously more intelligent than you read her journal total class!

choccywoc -> RE: learning to be myself while being someone else's (3/15/2010 6:10:21 AM)
I don't know what you're on about but welcome.

thishereboi -> RE: learning to be myself while being someone else's (3/15/2010 7:50:20 AM)
quote: Things I find hard to believe about this story girl What I find odd, is the second two posters to reply.... both joined today both have only posted twice, both times in this thread both mention cmailing your master? [8\|]

idontwanttogo -> RE: learning to be myself while being someone else's (3/15/2010 9:58:20 AM)
quote: What I find odd, is the second two posters to reply.... both joined today both have only posted twice, both times in this thread both mention cmailing your master? quote: ORIGINAL: thishereboi Yep! That is odd. Almost as odd as a complete stranger doing the research and pointing out their findings, just like any of it should matter to them.. Methinks that puts a certain someone in league with those two .. persons .. and I had a really f'd up morning of dealing with them via email, so I don't need to here your "bad cop" to their "good cop" b.s. I mean, it becomes a bit obvious that somewhere out there, there is a jealous female with too many profiles when three people show up on one thread who, through emails and posts to that thread, all start bad mouthing one particular woman in regards to her knowing one particular man. Get a life!

idontwanttogo -> RE: learning to be myself while being someone else's (3/15/2010 10:00:14 AM)
Hi. Welcome to the suddenly controversial thread. lol Thank you for your nice, and sane, comment. It appears to be the only one on here. I'm trying to figure out how to work this shite and delete this altogether and start from scratch!

Domin8tingUrDrmz -> RE: learning to be myself while being someone else's (3/15/2010 10:06:33 AM)
idontwanttogo, I'm sorry you had such a bad morning dealing with two of the posters above. However, thishereboi posts to these boards fairly regularly. I sincerely believe she was commenting on their idiotic behavior and wasn't trying to aggravate you further. I think you can rest assured that she is not in cahoots with the idiots above. I don't know her personally, but based on what I've read of her posts, I'm fairly confident she isn't giving you grief. One thing you will learn quickly here, if you haven't already, is how to report, block, and delete pesky CM'ers. Being new to this site you will encounter quite a bit of that initially, it will fade somewhat once you lose your newness status. Please take a deep breath, apologize to thishereboi, and block the other idiots above. Again, welcome, I hope things go smoother for you in the very near future.

Domin8tingUrDrmz -> RE: learning to be myself while being someone else's (3/15/2010 10:14:51 AM)
idontwanttogo, I should also let you know that you can block posters on this side too. If someone is harrassing you here, report them, then click the "Hide" button under their user name. This way you won't have to see their idiotic rantings. [:)] Chin up buttercup, you are in for a bumpy ride [;)].

idontwanttogo -> RE: learning to be myself while being someone else's (3/15/2010 10:15:58 AM)
(sigh) This has gone all ridiculous. I just wanted to introduce myself ffs How hard is that? It shouldn't be this complicated. So, except for that one person: shush up, the crazy, conspiracy theory ridden lot of you! I'm ignoring this thread as much as possible until I figure out a way to delete it! Advice on that subject is welcome!

Domin8tingUrDrmz -> RE: learning to be myself while being someone else's (3/15/2010 10:20:17 AM)
Unfortunately, the powers that be here on CM, do not grant us the ability to delete a thread. It should have been easy for you to introduce yourself, yes. Next time, just ignore idiots...lol. They are a dime a dozen, really. Do not give them the satisfaction of responding to their emails or messages and you will be just fine. Really, ignore/block are your best options at this point. Don't let it upset you, just move forward.

Lockit -> RE: learning to be myself while being someone else's (3/15/2010 10:23:16 AM)
You cannot delete the thread or post. You can edit your post for a short time after posting it and after that it is what it is. I've been here a number of years and can't remember anything like this happening. lol I guess you never see it all! Anyway, welcome to the boards and don't let poster's get to you. It isn't worth the struggle. Look around the post's. You will see things you can do like report or hide. Use as needed. I am not sure there is anything to report, but don't know the whole story. If someone is harassing you in email, you can block them.

ModTwentyOne -> RE: learning to be myself while being someone else's (3/15/2010 10:36:26 AM)
To the OP: Creative writing has its own section down at the bottom. To everyone: This thread is now locked.

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