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Collarme biased against males - 3/31/2006 5:10:30 PM   
TheBastard


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Status: offline 		On several occasions I submited a photo for my profile and it was rejected. No it wasn't a "cock" photo, in fact I had my pants on. It was a waist up photo. It fit well within the stated guidelines. Over and over it was rejected.

Yet I see the same profile photos of the same type posted only they are females. In fact,  several were of the same point of view, pose, and material. The only difference was my picture do not have breasts.

The person(s) responsible for accepting/rejecting photos is gender biased. The odds are stacked up against males here, why make it worse? It should be fair for all.

Else the rules should read:

No extreme or vulgar pictures.  No explicit genital nudity.
No objects or places for your primary photo
We cannot approve photos containing persons in bondage at this time.
Persons who appear underage will be asked to furnish proof of age
Males are held to different standards, good luck.

I am not debating this. It is true as I have a huge list of female profiles that prove my point.
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RE: Collarme biased against males - 3/31/2006 5:12:04 PM   
knotnilla


Posts: 47
Joined: 12/5/2004
Status: offline 		maybe you are REALLY ugly. I have seen my share of naked from the waist up males... just sayin...

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RE: Collarme biased against males - 3/31/2006 5:15:11 PM   
michaelGA


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Status: offline 		here's a suggestion...get a breast pump...then maybe they'll post it...LOL

(just kidding)


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RE: Collarme biased against males - 3/31/2006 5:20:41 PM   
MasterFireMaam


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Status: offline 		I can see submitting it twice...just in case the first time was a mistake. But, dude, they said no. No means no, for whatever mysterious reasons. Just go take another photo.

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RE: Collarme biased against males - 3/31/2006 5:20:44 PM   
TolerableCruelty


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Status: offline 		could be he doesn't need a breast pump.... maybe they just have a natural aversion to letting people post pics of their "man-boobies".. lol

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RE: Collarme biased against males - 3/31/2006 5:26:52 PM   
michaelGA


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RE: Collarme biased against males - 3/31/2006 5:29:04 PM   
PlayfulOne


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Status: offline 		Keep submitting it,  its good sport to keep smacking your head against the wall

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RE: Collarme biased against males - 3/31/2006 5:33:10 PM   
artglfr


Posts: 235
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Status: offline 		 crying won't help you. You complain an awful lot for a so called Dom...Don't like where You live it isn't kinky enough for you, collar me discriminates against you. I know you are going to have lots of fun with this post. Read on!!! the whole entire world can't be against you,,,can it?

< Message edited by artglfr -- 3/31/2006 5:35:54 PM >

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RE: Collarme biased against males - 3/31/2006 5:35:18 PM   
michaelGA


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Status: offline 		Stop????
Stop what?


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RE: Collarme biased against males - 3/31/2006 5:45:43 PM   
MySweetSubmssive


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From: Lehigh Valley, PA
Status: offline 		Bastard,

I think this is an excellent question.  A submale friend of mine had the same problem and responded with the same confusion and ire.  We're so used to sexually objectifying women in our culture (why do I feel like Andrea Dworkin right now?) that sexy images of a woman pass below our radar, but the same pose from a man seems extreme or vulgar. 

I'd love to see more (well-done) sexed-up images of men.  In the interests of pushing the envelope, I propose more sexy man pics.  Purrrrrrrrr.

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RE: Collarme biased against males - 3/31/2006 5:51:10 PM   
michaelGA


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Status: offline 		in this matter i believe he has a valid point, not to mention an equal right to bitch and moan like the rest of us...unless the Mods put an end to it. it's not your place or anyone's to shut people up...only the Mods.

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RE: Collarme biased against males - 3/31/2006 5:56:43 PM   
fastlane


Posts: 2159
Joined: 5/26/2005
Status: offline 		My cock is exposed on my profile....hmmmmm
Maybe they couldn't see it?



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RE: Collarme biased against males - 3/31/2006 6:07:23 PM   
IronBear


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Joined: 6/19/2005
From: Beenleigh, Qld, Australia
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quote:

ORIGINAL: TheBastard

On several occasions I submited a photo for my profile and it was rejected. No it wasn't a "cock" photo, in fact I had my pants on. It was a waist up photo. It fit well within the stated guidelines. Over and over it was rejected.

Yet I see the same profile photos of the same type posted only they are females. In fact,  several were of the same point of view, pose, and material. The only difference was my picture do not have breasts.

The person(s) responsible for accepting/rejecting photos is gender biased. The odds are stacked up against males here, why make it worse? It should be fair for all.

Else the rules should read:

No extreme or vulgar pictures.  No explicit genital nudity.
No objects or places for your primary photo
We cannot approve photos containing persons in bondage at this time.
Persons who appear underage will be asked to furnish proof of age
Males are held to different standards, good luck.

I am not debating this. It is true as I have a huge list of female profiles that prove my point.



There is no point coming to the forums and winging about the unjustness and unfairness of CM…
  1. It is not a democratic site..
  2. You only have the privileges and rights as given by CM.
  3. Cm is a FREE site so stop Bitching, Whining and Complaining or get your own site which you can control
  4. The forums are not the place to vent this crap there is an appropriate place to do so.


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RE: Collarme biased against males - 3/31/2006 6:40:14 PM   
dedicated2her


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Status: offline 		  Yeah..and my picture got accpeted.  And mine is waist up picture as well.   

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RE: Collarme biased against males - 3/31/2006 6:50:56 PM   
michaelGA


Posts: 1194
Status: offline 		so far, the Powers That Be have not told him to stop "whining" (or anyone for that matter) and, maybe i'm wrong about this, but don't THEY run this site? are you a Mod?

only the Mods have the right to tell someone to stop any activity on here.

live with it


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RE: Collarme biased against males - 3/31/2006 6:56:32 PM   
candystripper


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quote:

My cock is exposed on my profile....hmmmmm
Maybe they couldn't see it?

fastlane


Liar!  LOLOLOLOLOLOL.  Where is this famous cock?
 
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RE: Collarme biased against males - 3/31/2006 6:58:47 PM   
candystripper


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quote:

ORIGINAL: michaelGA

so far, the Powers That Be have not told him to stop "whining" (or anyone for that matter) and, maybe i'm wrong about this, but don't THEY run this site? are you a Mod?

only the Mods have the right to tell someone to stop any activity on here.

live with it



O no....Michael W/we can all give information and OPINION.  Besides He does need to move on.
 
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RE: Collarme biased against males - 3/31/2006 6:59:50 PM   
artglfr


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Joined: 4/8/2005
Status: offline 		 NO  one here has said he couldn't post only that for a so called Dom he cries a lot. read his Profile...No picture at all because CM won't let him   You have a picture, I do everyone else manages one except him. true he has every right to post and in the same vein don't I have the same right?
relax it will be ok.

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RE: Collarme biased against males - 3/31/2006 7:22:28 PM   
dorsaisgirl1


Posts: 156
Joined: 3/13/2006
Status: offline 		fastline is that a hat you got covering it up lol

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RE: Collarme biased against males - 3/31/2006 7:37:22 PM   
dorsaisgirl1


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Status: offline 		do you have another photo of yourself you can try . i am sure that it must be a misunderstanding. try some other pics perhaps you can ask a moderater if you can ask them politely without acuseing them of sexual discrimination.

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