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subforKeyholder -> What do most Domme's seek? (3/15/2010 3:12:58 PM)

Hi E/everyone.
This is my first post here, so please be gentle with me. ;-)
I'm at an odd stage of my life......I'm 38, single, and never have been married.
I enjoy being in a relationship with a woman and dating, but I also know that I'm completely submissive, and usually the two don't go hand in hand.
So, being uninvolved right now, I find myself visiting dating sites and BDSM sites.
Do you think many Dommes are looking for this or are they just looking for more of a D/s relationship?
Any thoughts?




Lockit -> RE: What do most Domme's seek? (3/15/2010 3:17:07 PM)

Who says that being submissive and a relationship don't go hand in hand? For many of us, it is a requirement. For me, I want a relationship and it includes d/s, love and all sorts of things.

There are dominant's that are different, but many of us want it all.




subforKeyholder -> RE: What do most Domme's seek? (3/15/2010 3:20:43 PM)

Thank You for the reply, Lockit!
Lately I have spent more time on this site reading and learning in hopes of finding just that.
That's very refreshing to hear. ;-)




Venatrix -> RE: What do most Domme's seek? (3/15/2010 3:27:01 PM)

Not only do I want it all, I have it all [:)]




subforKeyholder -> RE: What do most Domme's seek? (3/15/2010 3:28:58 PM)

Awww, You're very lucky!




Kaiel -> RE: What do most Domme's seek? (3/15/2010 4:49:40 PM)

Depends on the time of day....Sometimes I want breakfast, sometimes I want a backrub, etc... The list goes on and on.... but always includes a D/s type of relationship




LadyAngelika -> RE: What do most Domme's seek? (3/15/2010 5:01:09 PM)

quote:

I enjoy being in a relationship with a woman and dating, but I also know that I'm completely submissive, and usually the two don't go hand in hand.


Usually the two do not go hand in hand in the Dominatrix/fantasy/porn industry. But in the real world, there are many men and women who are into Female-led relationships.

Here is a post to a thread I started on that very topic recently: http://www.collarchat.com/m_3091495/tm.htm

And welcome to the boards!

- LA




PeonForHer -> RE: What do most Domme's seek? (3/15/2010 5:03:48 PM)

Hey - touch wood!




Venatrix -> RE: What do most Domme's seek? (3/15/2010 5:05:57 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

Hey - touch wood!


We've only met once.  I really don't think you know me well enough to ask me to do that.




GraciousLady -> RE: What do most Domme's seek? (3/15/2010 5:10:10 PM)

I know I'm looking for it all! I am, after all, a woman first.




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