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Hitting the mental anguish points. - 3/16/2010 12:19:06 AM   
Smutmonger


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Status: offline 		I really like mental sadism. Like when you threaten to top someone in a "creepy clown role"-because you know it freaks them out. What others do you like/hate?

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RE: Hitting the mental anguish points. - 3/16/2010 1:38:51 AM   
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Status: offline 		Not being allowed to touch causes me a great deal of mental torment....as does being threatened with having to be a puppy...I have quite a few mental triggers but those two are probably the most common ones that come up. While the puppy one is mostly just a threat I am often denied touch, and that messes with my head like nothing else

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RE: Hitting the mental anguish points. - 3/16/2010 3:46:41 AM   
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Status: offline 		In my case it is being thrown off balance.  I am typically unflappable, but there are times when I am put into a position where it seems that no matter what choice I make it will be a wrong one.  Just when I am at the point of tears caring arms are extended.  It is a fantastic bonding experience.

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RE: Hitting the mental anguish points. - 3/16/2010 4:29:26 AM   
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Status: offline 		Predicament bondage is a nice mix of physical and mental sadism for me. Watching a man's face while he is tormented by a conflict of desires is absolutely yummy for me. I've worked on a few scenarios of simply mental predicaments where two choices have twisted outcomes.

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RE: Hitting the mental anguish points. - 3/16/2010 9:01:52 AM   
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Status: offline 		Today I bought a set of precision blades, sterile dressings, skin tape and antiseptic wipes.

We've never done knifeplay or cutting.

She seemed...a tad disturbed

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RE: Hitting the mental anguish points. - 3/16/2010 9:13:01 AM   
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Status: offline 		Blindfolding him and letting him hear me do things like routing through his tool box, lighting the blow torch, flicking on the electric drill but the absolute best and most effective one I did was a tool I borrowed from a friend. It was a round saw that is used for removing casts off broken bones. it makes a hell of a noise and looks like something you would use for chopping up wood and although it cuts through wood, it won't cut the skin. I put some fake blood on it and then ran it down his leg.
I know, I know, I could of given him a heart attack but he should be careful when he challenges me to fuck with his head!

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RE: Hitting the mental anguish points. - 3/16/2010 10:48:23 AM   
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Status: offline 		When I was getting a cast cut off before surgery about 5 years ago that cast saw really fucked with my mind.

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RE: Hitting the mental anguish points. - 3/16/2010 12:53:37 PM   
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Status: offline 		I have a 'one hand trick'.

This relates specifically to my maiding, i.e. the situation of the maid serving dominants at a dinner table and clearing the table afterwards when I would pile up the tray with crockery, dirty plates, cups, cutlery, dirty napkins, the cruet set, sauce bottles, and so on.

As the dominants watched I would hoist the tray onto the fingertips of one hand and hold it up, watching the eyes of the dominants widen considerably as I would then waltz off with the tray perfectly balanced on my fingers and leave the room.

The best part is when I come back to the dining room and open the door to find everybody looking to see if it's me, which it is, smiling and holding an empty tray.

It's not just submissives who need such mental stimulation, dominants do as well.

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RE: Hitting the mental anguish points. - 3/16/2010 10:47:57 PM   
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Status: offline 		Watching her freaking cat backing up to the toybag used to hit my mental anguish points. Catch 22-get piss all over it by doing nothing-get tagged " the monster who abuses my precious little kitty!" if I threw something at it in time to chase it off-fuck.

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RE: Hitting the mental anguish points. - 3/16/2010 11:53:34 PM   
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Watching her freaking cat backing up to the toybag used to hit my mental anguish points.

Sorry, but

I'm not big on mental anguish, as I quite a bellyful of it from my nilla ex.
The creepy clown thing would probably make me laugh, though. Oops! Wrong reaction


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RE: Hitting the mental anguish points. - 3/16/2010 11:56:57 PM   
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bOUMIXbTM5U&feature=related

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RE: Hitting the mental anguish points. - 3/16/2010 11:57:30 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'm not really much for mental anguish. I have enough of that from childhood experiences (and even now from family or other dumbasses who wanna interfere in my life)

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RE: Hitting the mental anguish points. - 3/17/2010 12:01:36 AM   
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hmmm.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bOUMIXbTM5U&feature=related

I own that movie, so it would definitely crack me up!


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RE: Hitting the mental anguish points. - 3/17/2010 12:03:09 AM   
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Status: offline 		You might laugh so hard that you pissed your pants-then where would you be?

quote:

ORIGINAL: WyldHrt

quote:

hmmm.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bOUMIXbTM5U&feature=related

I own that movie, so it would definitely crack me up!



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RE: Hitting the mental anguish points. - 3/17/2010 12:05:34 AM   
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You might laugh so hard that you pissed your pants-then where would you be?

With you? I'm guessing I'd be in diapers.


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RE: Hitting the mental anguish points. - 3/17/2010 12:06:44 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: WyldHrt

quote:

You might laugh so hard that you pissed your pants-then where would you be?

With you? I'm guessing I'd be in diapers.



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RE: Hitting the mental anguish points. - 3/17/2010 12:12:00 AM   
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Or in the bath tub.

Let me guess, said tub would be filled with freezing cold water at some point?


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RE: Hitting the mental anguish points. - 3/17/2010 12:24:41 AM   
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RE: Hitting the mental anguish points. - 3/17/2010 2:48:46 AM   
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Status: offline 		Once my Husband had me blindfolded, i was naked and i was laid on my back on the floor. We had been kissing and He had been stroking my skin... the atmosphere was strange though... i did not feel comfortable, we did not seem to be connecting.

Then He got up and left me for a minute and then i could hear and feel Him stepping across me, He was above me, i could feel His feet on eitherside of me against my hips... He seemed to be squatting... and then He was making a grunting noise......... and then i felt this lump fall on my belly...

I was in a very very dark place for a moment... i could not move or speak... it was very very bad really, like falling into a black hole

and He started sniggering

and then i realised the lump was too cool and i could smell the scent of banana

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RE: Hitting the mental anguish points. - 3/17/2010 8:39:23 AM   
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quote:

I really like mental sadism. Like when you threaten to top someone in a "creepy clown role"-because you know it freaks them out. What others do you like/hate?


Smut lol, you are scary: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2xKVDM9F-kA

but mental anguish is hot, hard to find and agree with the laughing thing, some people just might be harder to scare.

*and I just noticed the 'power tools' posts ..uhhg shivers. I hate noisy tools, even if i hear a chainsaw a mile away. I find even the dishwasher disturbing noise lol.



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