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ORIGINAL: domiguy

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ORIGINAL: Voodali


And Domi, I have never taken your bait before, but this time I'll just take a moment to observe that for a Dom, you sure behave like you've been burned by a Domme in the past.

Nah. I simply call'em as I see'em. I dig a few of ya'll but most of ya are fairly fucked up.

Take this for example....

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ORIGINAL: domiguy

Men make this whole thing go 'round. We pursue the subs as well as the Dommes. If Dommes were in control they would be the ones taking charge and pursuing their pathetic male subby counterparts.

They don't. It's just one of the many illusions about the whole domme bullshit.

Now let's read from your profile......

"I prefer to be pursued, and not to have to pursue. I may perv your profile, but probably won't approach you first, since I want to attract those who are truly moved to speak to me."

What type of a take charge attitude is this? I do like to joke around out here....But I am fairly fucking spot on in my observations....Odd, isn't it?

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ORIGINAL: joether

What if:

Things were reversed on collarme? The messages sent and recieved, were reversed. Dommes, instead of getting enough mail to build a sky-scraper, now only get one mail a month. Male subs, were flooded with mailings.

Okay, I'll play along for the moment.

At first, both parties would be happy, but after a few months, wouldn't the process simply become as it is now, but just opposite? Would male subs come to respect Dommes more, given, they have to (and I hate to say this in the same sentence as a Domme/Lady) whore themselves out? Would Dommes really feel respected, that their sub could drop them for someone else?

I am not sure that both parties would be happy with this because look how many unhappy male submissive's are with that one email a month. That's a conclusion I am not sure I could imagine or assume. I also cannot see how male submissive's getting lots of mail from dominant's would make them respect domina's more. There is far too little respect as it is now and with more email, I believe they would respect the domina's less as they were a dime a dozen. If there was respect in the first place by the majority, I might be able to see some respect, but when males have an abundance of women chasing them, most often I find they get their fill of as many as they want and respect them less. But this is based on what I see from many male submissive's here online.

Besides, the men would be so tired from banging anything that would bang them, since they are plentiful, I doubt they would have much time or energy to do much more than act like bunnies.

As for domina's whoring themselve's out, who can really say, but I don't see many lifestyle domina's whoring themselves out and simply have a hard time picturing it. Part of being a domina for me is my strength and will to do things my way. I don't have a number of submissive's all over me despite what's in my email and those chasing me, thus, I know for a fact, this domina wouldn't whore herself out simply because she was needy for a man in her life and there were so few of them. There are already so few I would be with that I just cannot wrap my mind around becoming less to get a lil. lol If I am so dispensable... which to many around here, I am, then so be it. My worth is not wrapped up in the going's on within the mind or pants of a male. I will wait for those who do see my worth, as I see it. lol

Yes, short term the concept sounds amusing, even a vacation. But long term, would it really be good for the concept of Femdom?

Vacation? No, I think not. When I need a vacation I hide my profile or say I am not looking and ignore the email. I don't need a vacation, too often, from how it goes now. However my eyes do hurt some days from rolling my eyes into my head with some of the games and claims. lol As for long term, lots of domina's for a few submissive's and a concept I am unsure of in your meaning, I don't see femdom changing much for me no matter the situation. lol I am who I am whether there is a man or many men around doing whatever.

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ORIGINAL: domiguy

I do have some pretty nice gams. I can swim and keep myself fairly fit so what is the worst thing that could happen by undertaking such a course of action?

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I doubt I would wear any undies so my balls would be swinging in the breeze.

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No, I didn't realize you were the competition. I imagine that you being on the other side of the pond and the pound might not actually place too much strain on our quarry.

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...something about the comparative attractiveness of lesbains and bisexuals...

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Go balls to the wall. We are not competing. Though we seek the same prey we are at different ends of the pool. You are young and seek those that are nubile, pert, and still growing and blooming into their personas while I am dealing with the aged, jaded and tired twats of CM. I hate you.

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While I stand out here emulating the rockettes in a row boat you are trying to perfect your underhanded curve in a canoe. Do middle easterners play softball? So many questions so little time.

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I have never read your profile before, did you mention you live at home? No worries, from what I have heard, many a red blooded U.S.A. Dom still lives with their mum as well.

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I wish you well.

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ORIGINAL: Voodali



Yes.  I wait to be pursued.  Interestingly, I used to pursue because I felt predatory towards those I was attracted to.  What I ended up with were lukewarm relationships with people who really could take or leave me.  Since I prefer to be alone rather than engage in that sort of waste of energy, I now wait to be pursued.  It is part of an elimination process. Oddly, it makes me feel more empowered, rather than less.  I am less of a silly little girl scrambling to attract the attention of someone who may or may not be interested, trying to force someone into a mold they don't fit, and more of the grounded individual doing her thing, and if someone comes along who wants a part of it, it is he who must impress me.  What could be more D/s ? There is much conventional vanilla dating wisdom that can attest to this approach. 

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ORIGINAL: joether

What if:

Things were reversed on collarme? The messages sent and recieved, were reversed. Dommes, instead of getting enough mail to build a sky-scraper, now only get one mail a month. Male subs, were flooded with mailings.

At first, both parties would be happy, but after a few months, wouldn't the process simply become as it is now, but just opposite? Would male subs come to respect Dommes more, given, they have to (and I hate to say this in the same sentence as a Domme/Lady) whore themselves out? Would Dommes really feel respected, that their sub could drop them for someone else?

Yes, short term the concept sounds amusing, even a vacation. But long term, would it really be good for the concept of Femdom?

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ORIGINAL: Voodali

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ORIGINAL: domiguy

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ORIGINAL: Voodali


And Domi, I have never taken your bait before, but this time I'll just take a moment to observe that for a Dom, you sure behave like you've been burned by a Domme in the past.

Nah. I simply call'em as I see'em. I dig a few of ya'll but most of ya are fairly fucked up.

Take this for example....

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ORIGINAL: domiguy

Men make this whole thing go 'round. We pursue the subs as well as the Dommes. If Dommes were in control they would be the ones taking charge and pursuing their pathetic male subby counterparts.

They don't. It's just one of the many illusions about the whole domme bullshit.

Now let's read from your profile......

"I prefer to be pursued, and not to have to pursue. I may perv your profile, but probably won't approach you first, since I want to attract those who are truly moved to speak to me."

What type of a take charge attitude is this? I do like to joke around out here....But I am fairly fucking spot on in my observations....Odd, isn't it?

Yes.  I wait to be pursued.  Interestingly, I used to pursue because I felt predatory towards those I was attracted to.  What I ended up with were lukewarm relationships with people who really could take or leave me.  Since I prefer to be alone rather than engage in that sort of waste of energy, I now wait to be pursued.  It is part of an elimination process. Oddly, it makes me feel more empowered, rather than less.  I am less of a silly little girl scrambling to attract the attention of someone who may or may not be interested, trying to force someone into a mold they don't fit, and more of the grounded individual doing her thing, and if someone comes along who wants a part of it, it is he who must impress me.  What could be more D/s ? There is much conventional vanilla dating wisdom that can attest to this approach. 

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But we are the Doms....We take what we want. We are at the top of the fucking food chain. We don't wait for or prey to come to us...Fuck that!!! They are not worthy. We are not Jelly fish...We want to pursue and conquer. Any lion can eat the sexually abused,sickly, demented and beaten wildebeest we want to tackle and take down only the strong.

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I like being pursued by a gentleman too. I am a sub. I always chalk it up to women are still women regardless.

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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

There's a lot more conceptual meat in this thread than I would have predicted just from reading the OP.

I don't pursue women.  I interest them.  If she's not actively helping in the courtship ritual, I move on.  I'm busy.  I've seen several people post things like, "Men who pursue the pussy are really subbing to it," and I agree.

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Get off your 5'0" 150 lb ass and tackle that male subby of your dreams. You will have him lounging under your feet in no time flat!!! Anywhooo, do you ever check out your competition?...You are at the top O' the heap of the Dommes. In a lull, I might even bang you.

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ORIGINAL: Voodali

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But we are the Doms....We take what we want. We are at the top of the fucking food chain. We don't wait for or prey to come to us...Fuck that!!! They are not worthy. We are not Jelly fish...We want to pursue and conquer. Any lion can eat the sexually abused,sickly, demented and beaten wildebeest we want to tackle and take down only the strong.

You may be a lion, but I'm more of a  black widow spider.  Different style of predation. Many flies stick to the web, but I'm waiting for a succulent hummingbird.

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ORIGINAL: domiguy


I am not picking on you so don't take this personally.

But we are the Doms....We take what we want. We are at the top of the fucking food chain. We don't wait for or prey to come to us...Fuck that!!! They are not worthy. We are not Jelly fish...We want to pursue and conquer. Any lion can eat the sexually abused,sickly, demented and beaten wildebeast we want to tackle and take down only the strong.

So the forums are our friend...We get to brush shoulders and come into contact with so many possible pummelees out here. It's a crying shame not to take full advantage of the opportunities given.

Get off your 5'0" 150 lb ass and tackle that male subby of your dreams. You will have him lounging under your feet in no time flat!!! Anywhooo, do you ever check out your competition?...You are at the top O' the heap of the Dommes. In a lull, I might even bang you.


We, at Domiguy Industries, have been helping the wayward Domme for over thirty years. ...No need to thank me...It's what I do.

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What kind of a man wants to be referred to as a succulent hummingbird?

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ORIGINAL: joether

What if:

Dommes, instead of getting enough mail to build a sky-scraper, now only get one mail a month.

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ORIGINAL: Voodali

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But we are the Doms....We take what we want. We are at the top of the fucking food chain. We don't wait for or prey to come to us...Fuck that!!! They are not worthy. We are not Jelly fish...We want to pursue and conquer. Any lion can eat the sexually abused,sickly, demented and beaten wildebeest we want to tackle and take down only the strong.

You may be a lion, but I'm more of a  black widow spider.  Different style of predation. Many flies stick to the web, but I'm waiting for a succulent hummingbird.

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ORIGINAL: brainiacsub

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ORIGINAL: domiguy


I am not picking on you so don't take this personally.

But we are the Doms....We take what we want. We are at the top of the fucking food chain. We don't wait for or prey to come to us...Fuck that!!! They are not worthy. We are not Jelly fish...We want to pursue and conquer. Any lion can eat the sexually abused,sickly, demented and beaten wildebeast we want to tackle and take down only the strong.

So the forums are our friend...We get to brush shoulders and come into contact with so many possible pummelees out here. It's a crying shame not to take full advantage of the opportunities given.

Get off your 5'0" 150 lb ass and tackle that male subby of your dreams. You will have him lounging under your feet in no time flat!!! Anywhooo, do you ever check out your competition?...You are at the top O' the heap of the Dommes. In a lull, I might even bang you.


We, at Domiguy Industries, have been helping the wayward Domme for over thirty years. ...No need to thank me...It's what I do.

Hang on a minute, now domi. I'd rethink this if I were you. Your references to the animal kingdom, i.e. jelly fish and lions, although appropriate, is not entirely correct. For many species, it is the female - regardless of sexual dominance or submissive role - who actually chooses the most worthy male. The males strut and preen to demonstrate their prowess and strength and overall desirability, but ultimately he will only mate with the females who deem him worthy. Once she has chosen, he may claim her and have his way, but until then his flashy peacock feathers make for just good sport and show. The human animal has elevated such behavior beyond mere science to a form of high art.

Now in the case of many spiders, the female is generally the dominant and will proceed to kill and devour the male after mating. But please... feel free to continue teasing the Dommes.

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ORIGINAL: domiguy

God, if I was a male subby I could only hope for death. Please eat me. It's a mercy meal.

You have yet to view my plumage...I'ts breathtaking. You subbies are so silly and you wonder why your relationships turn to shit once you get past the bling and the bright feathers. You have not the ability to discern the qualities that actually make up an appropriate partner.

So you like my feathers and we mate...Then I find out we are the type of species that mate for life. What a fucking drag!!!

You know who invented wind power and those huge massive windmill turbines? Male eagles that's who. Come on honey, let's go for a fly....Wheeeeeeeeee!!!!

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ORIGINAL: brainiacsub


Sadly, dear, you might find out that we are indeed Penguins rather than Eagles, who in addition to mating for life, the male of the species stands out in the cold for hours keeping the eggs warm while the female searches in earnest for food.

I'm just sayin...