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The surprise effect - 3/17/2010 6:10:43 AM   
sm8591


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Status: offline 		When i stand ready for a whipping session, although i know very well what it feels like, waiting for the first strike to hit my body always gets me sweating of excitement. The sissing sound of the whip even when it smashes on the soil, get my heart beat fast. The effect of the surprise takes several hits before it fades. This mental aspect adds a lot to the whipping experience, so the strikes are kept at very irregular intervals.

I guess other subs experience the same effect? Any comments?





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RE: The surprise effect - 3/17/2010 6:37:52 AM   
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Status: offline 		Does your Dom tease you with the whip first? I find that adds to the effect.

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RE: The surprise effect - 3/17/2010 6:48:00 AM   
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Does your Dom tease you with the whip first? I find that adds to the effect.


The foreplay of a whipping session takes longer than the whipping, teasing in various ways, a whip offers more possibilities than just whipping with it. often it serves to treaten ordering me tasks or excercices until i fail and get the punishment.





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RE: The surprise effect - 3/17/2010 7:16:05 AM   
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RE: The surprise effect - 3/17/2010 7:45:57 AM   
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When i stand ready for a whipping session, although i know very well what it feels like, waiting for the first strike to hit my body always gets me sweating of excitement. The sissing sound of the whip even when it smashes on the soil, get my heart beat fast. The effect of the surprise takes several hits before it fades. This mental aspect adds a lot to the whipping experience, so the strikes are kept at very irregular intervals.



like this? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ri5-MzbAS5Q

I'm sure many do.

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RE: The surprise effect - 3/17/2010 9:21:44 PM   
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Status: offline 		one of the reasons that my Mistress has me blindfolded for play is to increase the mental aspect of it. the strokes can be soft or harsh the whip is also used to casess and tease the flesh. while not able to see the sound is more of a focus and even before the first strike lands it can be felt the sound it makes as it goes through the air before the strike or even the ones that are never struck but just near the body to be sensed but not felt.
not that i like it or anything

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RE: The surprise effect - 3/17/2010 9:41:06 PM   
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Status: offline 		I always try to be unpredictable,and break the rythm and area. I find it uses less energy to acheive a final result if I don't just pedantically whack away at someone like a total dullard-beating dust from a rug.

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RE: The surprise effect - 3/17/2010 9:44:59 PM   
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Why don't I see masses crying out loud about how he has "imposed his kink" on us by including the image above?


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RE: The surprise effect - 3/17/2010 9:47:16 PM   
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No offense at all to the OP, but...



Why don't I see masses crying out loud about how he has "imposed his kink" on us by including the image above?



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RE: The surprise effect - 3/17/2010 9:55:01 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Smutmonger

He doesn't look like a walrus that's been run through the props of an ocean liner.
quote:

ORIGINAL: NihilusZero

No offense at all to the OP, but...



Why don't I see masses crying out loud about how he has "imposed his kink" on us by including the image above?



Oh, I realize that most people cry about it only when they don't find the culprit attractive. I just thought I might shine a flashlight on the hypocrisy at an apropos moment.

And, in fairness and not in complete hijacking, to send a positive boost to the OP's ego.

OP,

Anticipation is a powerful stimulant. Mind-fuck play is based upon using this sort of expectation/anxiousness to as potent a degree as possible.

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RE: The surprise effect - 3/17/2010 10:00:10 PM   
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Status: offline 		I know it's so unfair. I don't even DARE to post a picture like that.

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RE: The surprise effect - 3/17/2010 10:08:11 PM   
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Status: offline 		Of course,I'd just put on some "music to beat by" and go to town. It gets pretty wild during some of my scenes-you never know what to expect from a maniac!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EQ96oEwYrE8

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RE: The surprise effect - 3/17/2010 10:20:40 PM   
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Status: offline 		Or tie her down ever so tight,blindfolded and gagged.......all is silent. Then the sound of a blade slowly and methodically scraping on a sharpening stone is heard........insane giggling..and THIS blares on.......

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ULjPJNmBtdA

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RE: The surprise effect - 3/18/2010 10:22:09 AM   
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Status: offline 		The picture was taken in the circumstances which i just wanted to describe here, waiting while anticipating mentally for what 's expected to come. Notice that i'm not blindfolded. Being able to look back but not allowed to do so is part of the session.

Nudity cannot be a problem on a BDSM website and reading my posts as newbee you know how i look like.



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RE: The surprise effect - 3/18/2010 11:11:01 AM   
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Blah, Blah, Blah...



Your pic was NOT appreciated... and just because it's a BDSM site, it doesn't mean everybody wants to share in your voyerism-kink.  Anyone who wants to see your nekkidness can simply click your profile. Simple as that.



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RE: The surprise effect - 3/19/2010 6:35:28 AM   
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Status: offline 		The picture was indeed a surprise effect

and while i think it is an absolute beauty of a picture i was not well pleased to have it thrown in my face just like that... too big, when i am reading threads i prefer just the letters

also for me to enjoy whipping i need the teasing to go with it as well... as only random hard strikes are too difficult to deal with

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RE: The surprise effect - 3/19/2010 10:31:05 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Smutmonger

He doesn't look like a walrus that's been run through the props of an ocean liner.



I think that most Americans  try to impose a ban on nudity just being ashame for looking like "a walrus that's been run through the props of an ocean liner". Those who aren't capable of dealing with adult content shouldn't impose their narrow mindedness. And BTW showing a nude pic has nothing to do with voyeurism. Anyway these postings illustrate why this is a very poorly documented rather boring forum.

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RE: The surprise effect - 3/19/2010 11:06:13 AM   
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ORIGINAL: MasterSlaveLA

Your pic was NOT appreciated... and just because it's a BDSM site, it doesn't mean everybody wants to share in your voyerism-kink.  Anyone who wants to see your nekkidness can simply click your profile. Simple as that.



Prudishness is alive, well, and thriving I see.  I just don't understand why everyone gets their panties in a wad over something like this.  Did you misplace your scroll bar?  If you don't want to look at the picture... scroll down.  It's a locus of control thing. 

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