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RE: Tips on sexually pleasing a Dom - 4/1/2006 8:32:20 PM

feylin

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Good evening:

I agree with a lot of advice given here about anal sex. Playing with a butt plug first helps, I think, with taking away that fear of the unknown which could make a person tense when trying it for the first time with a partner. Lots of lube and on my side was the intial tactic and cumming from it was extraordinary. Being able to go at my own pace that first time was a good thing for me. I ended up being less fearful about the discomfort because I already knew that it can be quite pleasurable. I think that I read somewhere that having an orgasm first might help relax your body as well. Just take your time, LOTS of lube <chuckles>, and enjoy the new sensations. There is discomfort as you stretch but it ends up being amazing.

I have the same trouble with the gag reflex, so I am reaping the benefits of your question. Thank you! <smiles>

Best wishes,
christine

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RE: Tips on sexually pleasing a Dom - 4/1/2006 9:00:48 PM

shivvy

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i'm afraid an aching jaw is just one of those things. As is an aching back if you're at a funny angle. But the more you do it, and the longer you do it and the more you get used to it, the less of an ache you'll get. Sorry.

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RE: Tips on sexually pleasing a Dom - 4/1/2006 9:19:42 PM

ownedgirlie

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quote:

ORIGINAL: theRose4U

You'll soon discover that you really like popcicles.

Hahahaha!!! This made me laugh!!

"Master, may i have a popsicle instead, please?" ~ grinning ~

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RE: Tips on sexually pleasing a Dom - 4/2/2006 11:07:33 PM

MZCsDeZire

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When I first met my Master I wouldn't even give a BJ. BUT as being a slave that didn't last long. Now I can literally put his "thing" in my throat and he can "finish" in my throat so I don't even taste it. I had a terrible gag reflex at first but I got over it. HOW? Get yourself in a position that when you turn your head up your in a position for the "thing" to go directly in your throat straight on. Picture laying on your stomach with your face up as far as you can. Your throat is stratight. No it isn't easy to give it deep in that position but I was trying to give a mental Idea. ALSO cloroseptic spray is numing, there is a product called Kama Sutra that sells a numinb balm for gag reflex. But doing it yourself first and then try it with the numing stuff and you will get more used to it. One last thing. Breathing through your nose with something in the back of your throat cause a gag reflex so practice your breath play! LOL j/k

As for the anal your on your own I still can't take it.

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