What qualities

What qualities (Full Version)

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Ask a Submissive

Message

osf -> What qualities (3/17/2010 2:34:08 PM)
what qualities do you think a dominant wants in you?

littlewonder -> RE: What qualities (3/17/2010 2:46:39 PM)
You'd have to ask him but I'm guessing compliance, obedience, honesty, integrity just to name a few.

windchymes -> RE: What qualities (3/17/2010 3:28:39 PM)
and don't forget the blowjobs on command!

osf -> RE: What qualities (3/17/2010 3:33:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: windchymes and don't forget the blowjobs on command! we get blow jobs on command?

opposingtwilight -> RE: What qualities (3/17/2010 4:22:33 PM)
Don't you?

AquaticSub -> RE: What qualities (3/17/2010 4:26:10 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: osf what qualities do you think a dominant wants in you? Submission to him probably. Beyond that it's going to depend on the individual dominant and, since I don't know every single dominant on the planet, I wouldn't try to paint them with one brushstroke.

opposingtwilight -> RE: What qualities (3/17/2010 4:29:42 PM)
I'm not sure what qualities a given dom wants in "me" ... From my experience, a lot of the doms who show interest seem to want me to be disloyal or at least dishonest since I've been told I don't know how many times that I should dump or cheat on my boyfriend so that I can have a chance to serve "him". They also seem to expect me to always look as good as I do in my best photographs, be utterly compliant from the word go, never question his authority and pretty much be ever horny, ever eager and willing to abandon any and all prior responsibilities that I may swiftly relocate to the vicinity of his bed/dungeon. sigh I've been reading way too many emails. Seriously though, I think that doms are like anyone else. Depending on what kind of relationship you want with a submissive, you'd probably be looking for someone who meshes well with you. There needs to be some kind of chemistry going on as well because its not much fun to try and play kinky games with someone who does nothing for you ...

WestBaySlave -> RE: What qualities (3/17/2010 4:30:48 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: osf what qualities do you think a dominant wants in you? When I find him, I'll ask him. [;)]

Wolf2Bear -> RE: What qualities (3/17/2010 4:39:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: osf what qualities do you think a dominant wants in you? I will let you know when I am in serious negotiations with a dominant. Anything I state now would be purely conjecture on my part.

corsetgirl -> RE: What qualities (3/17/2010 6:22:58 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: WestBaySlave quote: ORIGINAL: osf what qualities do you think a dominant wants in you? When I find him, I'll ask him. [;)] Ditto! [sm=mademyday.gif]

DesFIP -> RE: What qualities (3/17/2010 6:58:32 PM)
Me to love and respect him. To be in genuine agreement with him, not just go along with it while believing he's making a mistake. To be on the same page with him in a lot of areas of our life. To have his back as he has mine. And to remember how he likes his tea.

osf -> RE: What qualities (3/17/2010 7:06:49 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DesFIP Me to love and respect him. To be in genuine agreement with him, not just go along with it while believing he's making a mistake. To be on the same page with him in a lot of areas of our life. To have his back as he has mine. And to remember how he likes his tea. or coffee

SadistAndSlave -> RE: What qualities (3/17/2010 7:15:31 PM)
Master says "Big Boobs" of course there's more to it than the bosoms but.. well.. you know how that goes[;)] -Mia the slave

Kana -> RE: What qualities (3/17/2010 7:16:35 PM)
Boobs. Big big boobs. and a cunt, that always helps....

Smutmonger -> RE: What qualities (3/17/2010 7:17:29 PM)
Tips from the Dom side here. Intelligence. Devotion. Vision. Faith.

FlamingRedhead -> RE: What qualities (3/17/2010 7:45:28 PM)
Hmm. So far, the ones I've either talked to or met wanted me to believe all their bullshit, hook up immediately, submit instantly and without question, never complain about anything, clean their house, always be horny and wet, never expect them to keep their word, suck their dick for as long as it takes and cum on command. I'm sure I'm forgetting something. Anyway, they didn't last because I don't seem to possess the qualities they're looking for. It's not surprising considering I'm not a "twue" submissive, although since switches don't exist....I'm not really here answering this question.

DWCskitten -> RE: What qualities (3/17/2010 8:11:16 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: osf what qualities do you think a dominant wants in you? Well, no one can really know what all Dominants want, but i'm thinking some things would be universal, such as honesty, faith and trust in Him, integrity, obedience & compliance with His orders/wishes, willingness to serve in any & all ways at any time, devotion, intelligence, common sense.....things like that. Oh yes, and knowing how to give a great blowjob is always a plus. [:D] ~kitten~

NuevaVida -> RE: What qualities (3/17/2010 8:32:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: osf what qualities do you think a dominant wants in you? I have no possible way to know what qualities a "generic" dom would want, but I can say I know the qualities my owner wants, and they are the ones I already possess - passion, humor, dorkiness, self awareness, the ability to know and like myself, love of music and movies, the way I submit and obey, compassion, consideration for him and his daughter, my particular sense of ethics and morals, and the overall way I love him and receive his love. These may not seem like "qualities" at all to someone else, which of course is perfectly ok with me.

opposingtwilight -> RE: What qualities (3/17/2010 8:41:39 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: FlamingRedhead Hmm. So far, the ones I've either talked to or met wanted me to believe all their bullshit, hook up immediately, submit instantly and without question, never complain about anything, clean their house, always be horny and wet, never expect them to keep their word, suck their dick for as long as it takes and cum on command. I'm sure I'm forgetting something. Anyway, they didn't last because I don't seem to possess the qualities they're looking for. It's not surprising considering I'm not a "twue" submissive, although since switches don't exist....I'm not really here answering this question. You must be getting emails from the same doms as me!

littlegirlangel -> RE: What qualities (3/17/2010 9:21:00 PM)
Daddy and I have talked about this. He wants someone intelligent, a bit bratty but not obnoxious about it and silly and submissive but is able to guide herself too. He wants open communication and if I can't verbalize it I need to use my journal and if I still can't verbalize it he will teach me how. He also wants my love and he wants someone who will fit well within his poly household.

Page: [1] 2 next > >>

Collarchat.com © 2025

Terms of Service

0.03125