Collarspace Discussion Forums


Home  Login  Search 

Mental Dominance


View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest
 
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Ask a Submissive >> Mental Dominance Page: [1]
Login
Message << Older Topic   Newer Topic >>
Mental Dominance - 4/1/2006 1:16:22 AM   
MineToControl


Posts: 12
Joined: 6/26/2005
Status: offline 		I'd like to know what your favorate types of mental dominance have been?
Profile   Post #: 1
RE: Mental Dominance - 4/1/2006 2:21:16 AM   
Daddysredhead


Posts: 23574
Joined: 11/6/2005
From: Northern (yet still part of the South) Virginia
Status: offline 		Orgasm control by my Master...  and recently mental orgasms that He has helped me achieve...  takes a little while but, wow... 

Also, there are looks that He gives me which provide direction re: how to respond in a public setting to certain things.

< Message edited by Daddysredhead -- 4/1/2006 2:24:14 AM >

_____________________________

Founding Member, Clan of the Scarlet O'Hair-a's

Do not challenge me to a battle of wits & come to fight unarmed.

Are you really that stupid? ~ Bless your heart

13th doughnut


(in reply to MineToControl)
Profile   Post #: 2
RE: Mental Dominance - 4/1/2006 7:49:50 AM   
LuckyAlbatross


Posts: 19224
Joined: 10/25/2005
Status: offline 		Humiliation, objectification, animalization, and just general mind fucks/fear play for me.

_____________________________

Find stable partners, not a stable of partners.

"Sometimes my whore logic gets all fuzzy"- Californication

(in reply to MineToControl)
Profile   Post #: 3
RE: Mental Dominance - 4/1/2006 9:26:58 AM   
MineToControl


Posts: 12
Joined: 6/26/2005
Status: offline 		Mind sharing how you worked from orgasm control into Mental Orgasms?  I've been practicing delaying...prolonging, and then cumming on command.  But I'm still a little lost as to how to make the leap from physical to mental Orgasms.

(in reply to Daddysredhead)
Profile   Post #: 4
RE: Mental Dominance - 4/1/2006 10:24:49 AM   
starymists


Posts: 139
Joined: 2/1/2006
Status: offline 		Mental Dominantion...we use many forms...my favorite being the 'make me games'. Make me move, make me make a sound, make me cum, make me not cum. In the past, mental dominantion has included more than one area. For example, standing up against the mirror *yes a wall mirror*, a marble under each finger tip, watching the strap as it comes down with orders not to move, not to drop a marble, not to cum and not to make a sound...

(in reply to MineToControl)
Profile   Post #: 5
RE: Mental Dominance - 4/1/2006 1:02:50 PM   
Daddysredhead


Posts: 23574
Joined: 11/6/2005
From: Northern (yet still part of the South) Virginia
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: MineToControl

Mind sharing how you worked from orgasm control into Mental Orgasms?  I've been practicing delaying...prolonging, and then cumming on command.  But I'm still a little lost as to how to make the leap from physical to mental Orgasms.


I will ask Master to contact you privately regarding this.  I am not sure how it happened, but am really happy it did.  *smiles*  They do not feel the same as a direct physical contact orgasm, but they are still very intense for me.

Daddysredhead


_____________________________

Founding Member, Clan of the Scarlet O'Hair-a's

Do not challenge me to a battle of wits & come to fight unarmed.

Are you really that stupid? ~ Bless your heart

13th doughnut


(in reply to MineToControl)
Profile   Post #: 6
RE: Mental Dominance - 4/2/2006 7:10:05 AM   
twicehappy


Posts: 2706
Joined: 2/5/2006
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: MineToControl

I'd like to know what your favorate types of mental dominance have been?


Personally I love the 24/7 power exchange. Knowing I am owned by them all the time irregardless of what is happening, where we are, what we are doing.

I adore those seemingly simply things that they both do that are total mind f***’s. Things that intellectually you are aware they are doing or having you do that you are helpless to stop anyway. Aware the entire time both of them see the frisson’ of erotic submissive electricity zinging from your brain straight to other unmentionable parts.

A perfect example; (And even I after 31 years in this lifestyle was so enthralled and unable to sustain my self composure). I hate panties with a passion! I hate them so bad I had it listed as a soft limit. I have a good reason for feeling this way, I am very sensitive. I mean extremely sensitive, anything that gets that close to those parts my body takes as a party invitation.
This disturbed Master, he was of the opinion (when I am in jeans) these parts should be protected. Of course I whined but they made this an order I must obey. So off on a quest to purchase panties (both insist on Victoria’s Secret only).
First time I had to undress in front of Master with pansies on suddenly I was overwhelmed by heretofore unfound feelings of shame, embarrassment and fear. Wow, went my brain, where the hell is this coming from? I had been nude in front of both of them, damn, I’ve scened in public, in my younger years I was an exotic dancer while putting myself through school, I walk around naked frequently no issues.
The following day I confessed these emotions to my Mistress. Really incompetent maneuver on an experienced slave’s part. She proceeded to get me several new and fancier pairs and have me drop my jeans to show them how they looked every time she knew I had on a pair he had not seen me in. OUCH!

Simple, absolutely. No sm play involved in this, yet a tremendous mind f***. Master and Mistress are dominating me mentally completely with very little effort on their part, we are all entirely conscious of the effect, and it still works. It actually makes it more intense.



_____________________________

Infinite Diversity in Infinite Combinations.

The human heart is not a finite container but an ever expanding universe with all the stars contained there in.

(in reply to MineToControl)
Profile   Post #: 7
RE: Mental Dominance - 4/2/2006 9:21:40 AM   
MineToControl


Posts: 12
Joined: 6/26/2005
Status: offline 		Twice Happy,

Thank you for your most interesting insight.......It is amazing what triggers such powerful mental emotions.  Who would have ever thought putting panties on would capture those feelings for you.

(in reply to twicehappy)
Profile   Post #: 8
RE: Mental Dominance - 4/3/2006 11:39:48 PM   
sfogarty


Posts: 23
Joined: 3/15/2005
From: Houston
Status: offline 		When I move fully into the connection with the dominant, and there is no longer any choice(1) on my behalf to obey. It becomes a undeniable, unquestioned instinct that competes only with reactions on the level of fight-or-flight. Nothing higher even registers.

(1) Not to imply that consent has been lost, but that the internal decision process has been... rendered irrelevent. No conscious thought of obedience exists anymore.

(in reply to MineToControl)
Profile   Post #: 9
RE: Mental Dominance - 4/4/2006 12:29:30 AM   
BitaTruble


Posts: 9779
Joined: 1/12/2006
From: Texas
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: MineToControl

I'd like to know what your favorate types of mental dominance have been?


When by word or look, he stops me dead in my tracks, right before I'm about to speak and tells me exactly what I was going to say. Also, when he opens up an entire new way of thinking or thinking about something in a way which is different than I had ever even imagined. Mental popcorn.. ideas popping and sizzling all over the place.. extra butter to boot. Yum.

Celeste

_____________________________

"Oh, so it's just like
Rock, paper, scissors."

He laughed. "You are the wisest woman I know."


(in reply to MineToControl)
Profile   Post #: 10
Page:   [1]
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Ask a Submissive >> Mental Dominance Page: [1]
Jump to:





New Messages No New Messages
Hot Topic w/ New Messages Hot Topic w/o New Messages
Locked w/ New Messages Locked w/o New Messages
 Post New Thread
 Reply to Message
 Post New Poll
 Submit Vote
 Delete My Own Post
 Delete My Own Thread
 Rate Posts




Collarchat.com © 2025
Terms of Service Privacy Policy Spam Policy

0.062