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juliaoceania -> RE: Jesse James: stupid, or just dumb? (3/20/2010 11:05:55 AM)
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She isn't terrible looking, and I'm not saying I wouldn't fuck her, but if I had to choose... it wouldn't take long for me to pick Bullock.
And if I loved someone, and was with them, it doesn't matter how hot the other woman was, I wouldn't cheat. Of course, he may not love Bullock, I don't know.
You do not know either of these women. Bullock could be a complete pain in the ass for all you know. You know her public persona. You have never been in the presence of this other gal either. She could be all charisma and sexiness in person. She could be intelligent, kind, nice to old people, etc...my point is you are just going on media images and media reports of who and what these females are....
There are a few people that make themselves so repugnant in their public persona I do not think I could ever desire them, but based on a few photos, movies, media reports... I do not think I could make the judgment that you have about these two women if I had to choose between two men... but I tend to think what we see in public is like the top of the iceberg and what is beneath the surface is what the people in our lives know.
Perhaps James loves Bullock, perhaps he doesn't. Perhaps he wanted a piece of ass on the side, perhaps he sees no conflict between getting a piece of ass and loving Bullock... perhaps he is one of those people that can love more than one person at a time... shrugs.....
Generally speaking I do not condone nor cotton to men that cheat, nor the women they cheat with... but at the same time I find it slightly strange that the "other" woman is denigrated as being "unworthy" "slutty" and only good enough to "fuck" next to the wife. The problem isn't the other woman, the problem is the man. The value and worth of the other woman isn't even important in the conversation in my mind... why the comparison? Why denigrate one woman and put the other on a pedestal? Why aren't we saying James ain't worth while, he is a slut, he isn't marriage material... it says nothing about this other woman as far as her worthiness to be in a marriage or loved...
So the other woman isn't your cuppa... James isn't mine.... And to be honest, if I were a dude Sandra Bullock wouldn't be mine....lol... Sinergy does not think she is that hot, she is just so-so to him (I haven't asked if he even knows about this story). To be honest, I think the other woman in this case is more beautiful than Bullock... she is younger and she has prettier eyes.... I think women with pale skin, blue eyes, and raven hair are exotic creatures, and she is even more so for all the ink... just an opinion
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