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How? - 3/20/2010 7:21:35 PM

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RE: How? - 3/20/2010 7:26:23 PM

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Have a read through the FAQ-it'll answer a few of your points.

http://www.collarchat.com/m_3057130/tm.htm

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RE: How? - 3/20/2010 7:26:33 PM

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You look like your 12..maybe that is the reason

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RE: How? - 3/20/2010 7:31:25 PM

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You look like your 12..maybe that is the reason

Oh come now, Divi. Don't exaggerate. He looks at least 13.

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RE: How? - 3/20/2010 7:31:53 PM

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Part of it is that you dont say much about what you offer a mistress. Very few of us are terribly interested in someone who wants to be whored out and punished for disobedience, but doesnt say anything about the positives that they offer. Can you cook? Clean? Hold a job? Aside from the fantasy of being shared, which many do NOT like, so it isnt as much of a selling point as you might think, what sets you apart from every other boy out there trying to be a slave?

It takes a lot more than being "pretty good looking" to be a good slave. It also takes a lot more than what you are willing to do or have done to you. Perhaps if you approach women with the idea of being a partner, and get to know them for themselves and not as a Mistress and a role you might have better luck.

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RE: How? - 3/20/2010 7:32:22 PM

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my bad ! Sorry he looks like 13.. he actually looks like my paper boy lol

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RE: How? - 3/20/2010 7:32:45 PM

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Eye candy is always nice, but looks fade over time. What matters is who you are inside. So, who are you? You've got to present yourself as more than a pile of aching needs.

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RE: How? - 3/20/2010 7:33:45 PM

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You're average looking, but you're no Adonis. Plus, your profile is all but blank. There's nothing about who you are as a person, let alone any information that would entice a woman's interest. No woman in her right mind is going to look twice at you unless you convince her you can offer her something of value. She certainly isn't going to cater to your kinks unless you're willing to cater to hers 9 times out of 10. Go here and read: http://www.collarchat.com/m_3057123/tm.htm

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RE: How? - 3/20/2010 7:34:01 PM

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You look like your 12..maybe that is the reason

C'mon Divi, don't be harsh-I still look young enough to get child bus tickets....

Don't judge us for looking all sweet'n'innocent...

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RE: How? - 3/20/2010 7:37:26 PM

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C'mon Divi, don't be harsh-I still look young enough to get child bus tickets....

Don't judge us for looking all sweet'n'innocent...

you my dear are sweet looking and you suck for getting a child bus ticket... geez !!! Sorry its my Birthday im a lil bitter hehe

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RE: How? - 3/20/2010 7:40:03 PM

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I'd say you're at least partially correct. For example, you wouldn't be able to be in service at certain events due to your age. That would absolutely disqualify you in My book. Being unable to contribute to a household financially would be another. I don't have an interest in feminization. I don't want someone I have to punish severely. I want them to obey. And so on, and so on, and so on.

It would be My suggestion that you start looking at what you can bring to the table, rather than what you can't. The desire to be whored out isn't nearly as desired by Dominant women who want real service. Not the kind that focuses on you. The kind that focuses on them. I could find someone to whore out in the matter of an hour. It's not a unique talent and it's not worth much. And, no offense, but if I was just looking for a sexual sub, I'd probably want one with a few more years of experience under his belt.

Can you cook? How are your housekeeping skills? Any knowledge of leather care or protocol? How are you at gardening? Exactly what are your education plans? Do you have any service skills, such as the ability to give a proper manicure or pedicure? Exactly what would you bring to the household?

Little hint. Now stack the answers to the above questions in comparison to some of the submissive males around these forums. THAT'S your competition.

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RE: How? - 3/20/2010 7:41:32 PM

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I wonder if he is old enough to drive lol

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RE: How? - 3/20/2010 7:44:05 PM

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Ok... obviously there was something here before... What is it that you want to know?

And let's go easy on the kid? We were all 18 once.

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RE: How? - 3/20/2010 7:56:05 PM

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You seem to be a-skeer'd of words.

There is nothing on your profile and you couldn't even be bothered to write a sentence. Actually, if I hadn't read other post I wouldn't know what the hell you were posting about. Your link just shows your pic, so is that it? you think you are all that so that's all that need be said? You are so hot you don't need words? Sweetie if that's true you need to go to Hollywood and make some money....lol You have to realize, just because one person might have said you were hot, doesn't mean that everyone else on the planet is going to think so...so you are going to have to put a bit of effort into it.

Maybe if anyone looks at your profile, they think you are not really serious or just can't be bothered to give a damn?

Just what I see any way

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RE: How? - 3/20/2010 8:00:08 PM

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Ok... obviously there was something here before... What is it that you want to know?

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ok, I'm with you...now that I read some of the other posts....when I look at his profile it has like one sentence on it....I'm confusssssssdid....lol

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RE: How? - 3/20/2010 8:00:18 PM

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Ok... obviously there was something here before... What is it that you want to know?

And let's go easy on the kid? We were all 18 once.

Oops, i guess we scared him off (Divi did it!). There used to be a question on his original post about how why he couldn't get a mistress to whore him out since he is a decent looking, unemployed 18 year old.

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RE: How? - 3/20/2010 8:03:32 PM

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Yep I did it.. I called his mom up

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RE: How? - 3/20/2010 8:05:55 PM

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wdewd

Ok... obviously there was something here before... What is it that you want to know?

And let's go easy on the kid? We were all 18 once.

Oops, i guess we scared him off (Divi did it!). There used to be a question on his original post about how why he couldn't get a mistress to whore him out since he is a decent looking, unemployed 18 year old.

And you are correct he did have more to his profile.. yep we were all 18 year old whores looking to be whored out on the net at one time lol

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RE: How? - 3/20/2010 8:13:45 PM

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wdewd

Ok... obviously there was something here before... What is it that you want to know?

And let's go easy on the kid? We were all 18 once.

Oops, i guess we scared him off (Divi did it!). There used to be a question on his original post about how why he couldn't get a mistress to whore him out since he is a decent looking, unemployed 18 year old.

Well he's discovering what this is all about. It's normal that a boy that age come across a little naively.

I hope he comes back with some of his questions and has a positive experience here.

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RE: How? - 3/20/2010 8:14:55 PM

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So he's 18. That's his excuse for being a little immature. What's yours?

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