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Ello, am totally new and looking for some guidance - 3/21/2010 10:21:12 PM

MidnightTwilight

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IDK if this is the right sight for me, but I have a friend who is on here quite frequently. I'm curious about becoming more comfortable with my sexuality. I grew up in a very anti-sex home, and it's hard for me to express myself sexually with my boyfriend of 4 years. Both of us enjoy switching the roles of being dominant and submissive, but don't truly fit into the mold here either. :/ Both of us are exploring these ideas further.

I'm here to explore both domination and submissiveness to figure out which I am.

I'm an analyzer... I can't help it.
XD I do truly apologize if I'm at the entirely wrong website. My research has been limited to books and to be honest, porn. XD

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RE: Ello, am totally new and looking for some guidance - 3/22/2010 5:21:50 AM

DesFIP

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Welcome. You know, you don't have to be either dominant or submissive. You can be just kinky without any nonsexual power play. You might want to read in Ask a Switch about that.

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RE: Ello, am totally new and looking for some guidance - 3/22/2010 5:36:01 AM

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RE: Ello, am totally new and looking for some guidance - 3/22/2010 5:41:07 AM

CarrieO

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Welcome!

Analyze away...use the search feature and look for different topics of interest in all the forums. The "Ask a Mistress" forum has a new FAQs thread you and your partner might enjoy (it also includes a link to use if you want to find some local groups/munches to attend). The "Ask a Switch" forum could be helpful (I enjoy looking at the older threads there), as DesFIP mentioned, but it's also good to look around and get a feel for what interests you.

I'll leave you to your research...