SexySea
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Joined: 8/2/2007
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Hello, my screen name is SexySea and after the end of a 2 1/2 year relationship with a Dom and the closure that comes with that I'm eargerly looking forward to meeting new people and perhaps that one right Dom that I can dedicate my life to.
I have learned a lot from my relationship not only about what I need but about what I want to give in return. There are a few things that I'm unwilling to compromise on (that you should know about before any of your time or mine is wasted) and they are;
(1) I am only interested in a monogamous VLTR (possibly marriage) so if you can't think in terms of forever with the right sub/slave, I'm not for you.
(2) I a straight female subbie and I want a relationship with a straight male Dom. I also prefer men in their mid 40's or older. This is no reflection on your experience or how many years you say you've been a Dom I just feel that older man are more deserving of my respect and that power exchange is easier.
(3) I would prefer to meet someone in Calgary or the surrounding area but I will relocate for the right man. This doesn't mean that we'll e-mail back and forth for a week and I'll pack up everything and move to Russia. It means that I am willing to meet you on neutral territory and then spend sometime with you both where I am and where you are. Once we are ready to make a real committment, then and only then will I consider moving in with you.
(4) I NEED to have BDSM in my life. I love being made love to and vanilla can be great but I need the lifestyle as well.
(5) I am an ample BBW and I am not interested in men who want me to be smaller or larger. My body is my own business and if you don't love the joys of a large soft curvy body please don't bother to contact me.
(6) Please, Please, Please actually spend the time to read my profile. I'm a little sick of messages from men who think that I'm the Domme they want and people who want me in their Poly household ect.....
(7) Please don't respond to me expecting a response if YOU don't have your profile filled out. I spent the time to do mine you should respect others enough to do the same. Only learning your screen name and that you live in Canada, Canada makes me wonder just what it is that you're trying to hide.
(8) I have my own income but do not work outside the home. I consider the running of the houshold and taking care of you my job.
These are the things that are trully important to me. If you think that by my being honest and open about what I want up front is un-sub like you really don't understand what I'm trying to do here. I trying to prevent both of us from wasting our time. There are thousands of prople on this site trying to connect and I'm hoping that this little note will help you decide whether you and I might want the same things.
I will respond to every polite inquiry and I hope that perhaps after reading this and my profile you might just think that we should chat.
SexySea
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