MissBeautiful2U
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No, I would not be interested in someone who wants to be totally hidden from society. I've had messages similar to what you describe as well. I think it is a fantasy for some, but I think that most of those who write stuff like that are not serious. Thus, a waste of my time. They want to read stuff to jerk off too. For the others who are seriously wanting something like that, I would think that would require more energy on my part than I'd be willing to give. It comes across as very high maintenance.
Like some others said, even if the slave I have does not work, I would still want them to take care of errands for me and interact with my friends who are like-minded. (And just for the record, I would not expose vanillas to my kink without their consent... I'm talking about people who would enjoy seeing a slave serve).
Your situation is a bit different from mine as you are single and looking to build a poly household. It might be conceivable that you could have a slave who never leaves the house if you have another who does. I'm not sure how healthy it would be for someone to immerse full-time in a "prisoner-like" mode, but that would be for you to decide knowing the person.
Should you decide to go this route and find someone who is sincere about his desire to be "hidden away", I would make sure he understood that you still expected him to serve well within the home. That his life would not be all about him being used for bdsm pleasures. I know you have it in your profile, but some guys don't take the time to read. I would also run a background check on him before he was allowed to move in to see if he is hiding something.
As for being cut off from family and friends, that is something I would not tolerate from a boy. Period. His desire to "disappear" would make his family sad. Friends he can tell he is moving to timbuktu and they might forget about him if he doesnt make regular contact. But family would worry. I see it as cruel to subject them to that sort of anxiety just so his kink can be filled. I'd require that he send them a note quarterly if he really didn't want to talk to them.
Now: advice on the profile-- I would consider putting in a challenge phrase at the end of it. You are taking the time to lay out what you are looking for, a boy who is serious should take the time to read it. I also have a list of FAQ's in mine because I got tired of answering some of the same questions over and over. Things that I felt a boy has a right and should know, questions that are reasonable, but are generally repetitive. Now, I will still discuss these questions if a boy has read the FAQ's because he might have a particular concern or question that is related... it just saves me some time in going over what could be dealbreakers for some.
I am with kitten on include a picture. I eventually gave in and put my weight on my profile (I think) but I would leave it at that. Confidence is very sexy in anyone.
:) Hope you find some good ones to serve.
Robin
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