Elisabella
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ORIGINAL: tazzygirl if i recognized a switch, perhaps. and as much as that may get me chewed out, i simply cannot view a man who kneels as dominant. they may have a dominant streak, which is a totally different animal. Even "sub" would be higher than "slave" if you want to get into hierarchy...personally I don't...I don't think that I would have the right to tell someone I don't know that they shouldn't debate with me because of their BDSM status, and I know I'd never personally stand for it. Also, a dominant streak is all it takes. I'm a switch myself and trust me when I'm in a dominant state of mind...I'm a Domme. I own that shit. Someone might not want to recognize me as a "real" domme because I sometimes submit, but that would be intellectual...on a physical level, if I'm being a domme, and they are a sub...they'll feel it. I don't know if it's different for a man, but oftentimes the only thing that would stand in the way of being dominated by a switch is the knowledge that they are a switch sets up a mental roadblock.
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