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LadyLiona -> unforgiveable Domme sins? (3/27/2010 5:11:22 AM)
I would have to say near the top of the list would have to be sub-poaching. Had some wannaba try to take my sissy the other day. Guess 'she' didn't know the meaning of loyalty. Just wondering what my fellow Dommes think are other unforgiveable sins a Domme could commit.

VaguelyCurious -> RE: unforgiveable Domme sins? (3/27/2010 5:25:28 AM)
Sorry for sounding nauseating and preachy, but forgiveness has to do with the sinnee, not the sinner. If there are things you refuse to forgive a person for, then that's your issue, not theirs. It's you that the anger will eat away at, not them.

LaTigresse -> RE: unforgiveable Domme sins? (3/27/2010 6:35:54 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyLiona I would have to say near the top of the list would have to be sub-poaching. Had some wannaba try to take my sissy the other day. Guess 'she' didn't know the meaning of loyalty. Just wondering what my fellow Dommes think are other unforgiveable sins a Domme could commit. This just screams drama and nothing about it has anything to do with anyone being dominant or not. It has to do with they type of friends you choose.

GraciousLady -> RE: unforgiveable Domme sins? (3/27/2010 7:29:50 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyLiona I would have to say near the top of the list would have to be sub-poaching. Had some wannaba try to take my sissy the other day. Guess 'she' didn't know the meaning of loyalty. Just wondering what my fellow Dommes think are other unforgiveable sins a Domme could commit. High drama worthy of tweens at a mall.

LadyPact -> RE: unforgiveable Domme sins? (3/27/2010 7:47:39 AM)
Had it been for just the title, rather than the content of the post, this could have been a really good thread. Unforgivable Domme sins? Shattering My boy's trust in Me beyond repair. Intentionally or maliciously breaking his hard limits. A complete withdraw of My authority in the dynamic. Permanently harming him in such a way that can not be repaired. I may not specifically termed them as sins, but I could absolutely see some things as unforgivable.

LadyAngelika -> RE: unforgiveable Domme sins? (3/27/2010 11:21:59 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact Had it been for just the title, rather than the content of the post, this could have been a really good thread. Unforgivable Domme sins? Shattering My boy's trust in Me beyond repair. Intentionally or maliciously breaking his hard limits. A complete withdraw of My authority in the dynamic. Permanently harming him in such a way that can not be repaired. I may not specifically termed them as sins, but I could absolutely see some things as unforgivable. Agreed. - LA

undergroundsea -> RE: unforgiveable Domme sins? (3/27/2010 3:20:21 PM)
Turning off the TV during a Texas football game. :p Cheers, Sea

LadyLiona -> RE: unforgiveable Domme sins? (3/27/2010 3:47:45 PM)
What's dramatic about it? You can't honestly tell me it's ok for a Domme to go around trying to take subs or slaves who are already owned.

LadyPact -> RE: unforgiveable Domme sins? (3/27/2010 4:57:11 PM)
I never said anything of the sort. However, I can promise that any external influence (said poacher) will ever carry the magnitude of offenses that can possibly happen (the examples I gave above) within the dynamic itself. I'm a rather simple person, so I will express it in a very simple way: 1. I make the rules. That's My job. It is also My job to enforce the rules. 2. It is My boy's job to follow the rules. 3. Anyone else outside of those rules, I would hope would have the courtesy to observe that I have rules in place. As much as I would like it to, this doesn't always happen. In those cases, rules one and two are then applied. The dynamic itself is always more important than an outside influence. While you may be very angry at this recent issue, you may choose to focus more on your boy's loyalty than whatever else took place. You are in control of the one who serves you and not the actions of everyone else. It seems to Me that your faith in him is well placed, though you may want to take a look at the standard of criteria of who you call 'friend'.

Aylee -> RE: unforgiveable Domme sins? (3/27/2010 5:13:46 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyLiona Just wondering what my fellow Dommes think are other unforgiveable sins a Domme could commit. Wearing white spikey boots after Labor Day.

undergroundsea -> RE: unforgiveable Domme sins? (3/27/2010 7:37:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact I'm a rather simple person, so I will express it in a very simple way: Excellent post :) Cheers, Sea

fadedshadow -> RE: unforgiveable Domme sins? (3/27/2010 10:33:51 PM)
murder perhaps?

VaguelyCurious -> RE: unforgiveable Domme sins? (3/27/2010 11:45:42 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Aylee Wearing white spikey boots after Labor Day. Ok, I've read this through three times and I still have no idea what it means. Is Englishness an Unforgiveable Domme Sin (which will now be abbreviated to a UDS)? Edited because my poor english fingers didn't hit the keys I wanted them to. Yes, I did just blame my country of birth for my malcoordination.

VaguelyCurious -> RE: unforgiveable Domme sins? (3/27/2010 11:49:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyLiona What's dramatic about it? You can't honestly tell me it's ok for a Domme to go around trying to take subs or slaves who are already owned. No, but it's drama to still be pissed off enough after the event that you start a thread that can't possibly be anything but extremely negative. People who deliberately set out to be negative are looking for drama, no?

MadamJoy118 -> RE: unforgiveable Domme sins? (3/28/2010 12:57:43 AM)
doesnt seem to me that this poster meant to be negative malicious or cause drama. something frustrated her and she thought of a topic that might get ppl to think for a min and to read responses on the actual topic would have been nice. instead this thread if full of ppl causeing drama by assuming or judging what her feelings and intent was. my reply to the POST is either poaching if its unforgivable by one domme to the next but from a sub i would have to say the same as ladypact. ruining the trust would not only be hard for me to forgive myself for but i would expect him to have a hard time with it as well...

LadyAngelika -> RE: unforgiveable Domme sins? (3/28/2010 7:11:37 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious quote: ORIGINAL: Aylee Wearing white spikey boots after Labor Day. Ok, I've read this through three times and I still have no idea what it means. Is Englishness an Unforgiveable Domme Sin (which will now be abbreviated to a UDS)? Edited because my poor english fingers didn't hit the keys I wanted them to. Yes, I did just blame my country of birth for my malcoordination. Dear Mistress Malco, There is this commonly accepted social norm that one must not wear white after Labor Day (or Labour Day as we Brits and Canadians would spell it). Labor Day is the first long weekend of September and is an indication that fall and winter are coming. White is a summer colour and should only be worn in the summer. That is why fashion designers came up with a creamy beige that they call winter white which is acceptable to wear in winter. Aylee played on this and the fact that Dommes stereotypically wear spikey boots (the Dominatrix image) and made a clever combination. Of course, this is very important information for you to have should you care to cross the pond during the autumn or winter months. ;-) - LA

Aylee -> RE: unforgiveable Domme sins? (3/28/2010 7:44:32 AM)
Thanks LA. You answered that before I had a chance to.

LadyAngelika -> RE: unforgiveable Domme sins? (3/28/2010 8:14:30 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Aylee Thanks LA. You answered that before I had a chance to. My pleasure! Anything to call that little cutie pie of a Domme "Mistress Malco" ;-) - LA

GraciousLady -> RE: unforgiveable Domme sins? (3/28/2010 8:24:52 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MadamJoy118 doesnt seem to me that this poster meant to be negative malicious or cause drama. something frustrated her and she thought of a topic that might get ppl to think for a min and to read responses on the actual topic would have been nice. instead this thread if full of ppl causeing drama by assuming or judging what her feelings and intent was. my reply to the POST is either poaching if its unforgivable by one domme to the next but from a sub i would have to say the same as ladypact. ruining the trust would not only be hard for me to forgive myself for but i would expect him to have a hard time with it as well... MadamJoy, I appreciate your response but let me try to explain why some of us feel this is just so much drama. To me, and I believe to others, this is drama because of the pettiness of the original incident that is being blown literally into Biblical proportions by being compared a sin. It seems the OP had another Domme make an attempt to take her submissive. Instead of just calmly passing over a rude event in life as we all do she chooses to post a rather childish topic. Had I been in her place I would have not acted at all when the offending Domme made an attempt on my sub. The OP should have armed her sub with proper protocols to deal with the offending Domme and if her sub was so flighty she would have been better done with it. As I have said many times before this lifestyle is no different than any other. What we have here is 2 adult people involved in a relationship they choose to be in. If the sub decided to leave his Dominant for whatever reason there is nothing the Dominant can do and the original relationship was likely not a strong one to begin with Certainly the offending Dominant is wrong but there are many rude people on this earth and unless harm is done it should be passed over in an adult manner. Basicly, this mole hill has been made into a mountain.

LadyAngelika -> RE: unforgiveable Domme sins? (3/28/2010 9:25:27 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GraciousLady quote: ORIGINAL: MadamJoy118 doesnt seem to me that this poster meant to be negative malicious or cause drama. something frustrated her and she thought of a topic that might get ppl to think for a min and to read responses on the actual topic would have been nice. instead this thread if full of ppl causeing drama by assuming or judging what her feelings and intent was. my reply to the POST is either poaching if its unforgivable by one domme to the next but from a sub i would have to say the same as ladypact. ruining the trust would not only be hard for me to forgive myself for but i would expect him to have a hard time with it as well... MadamJoy, I appreciate your response but let me try to explain why some of us feel this is just so much drama. To me, and I believe to others, this is drama because of the pettiness of the original incident that is being blown literally into Biblical proportions by being compared a sin. It seems the OP had another Domme make an attempt to take her submissive. Instead of just calmly passing over a rude event in life as we all do she chooses to post a rather childish topic. Had I been in her place I would have not acted at all when the offending Domme made an attempt on my sub. The OP should have armed her sub with proper protocols to deal with the offending Domme and if her sub was so flighty she would have been better done with it. As I have said many times before this lifestyle is no different than any other. What we have here is 2 adult people involved in a relationship they choose to be in. If the sub decided to leave his Dominant for whatever reason there is nothing the Dominant can do and the original relationship was likely not a strong one to begin with Certainly the offending Dominant is wrong but there are many rude people on this earth and unless harm is done it should be passed over in an adult manner. Basicly, this mole hill has been made into a mountain. GraciousLady, your words echo my thoughts exactly. Thank you for taking the time to write them out. - LA

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