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differentdoms -> Poly Family Seeking Subs (3/30/2010 3:15:36 PM)

I know this is not a new concept in the slightest, but we are having difficulty find ANY sub(s), not to mention our perfect sub(s) to join us. We are a Master/Mistress Dom/Dom family with several children and are in search of one or more suitable female Sub(s) for live-in duties.

We live in Southern Arizona and the lifestyle aparently is NOT very practiced here... at least not that we can locate without paying enormous "fees" to join a social group.

Any input or interested Subs... Respond here or on our profile.

-Master Angel




keteward -> RE: Poly Family Seeking Subs (3/31/2010 12:45:12 AM)

Can't help you with the sub part, but will welcome you and wish you luck on your search :)




choccywoc -> RE: Poly Family Seeking Subs (4/1/2010 7:03:05 AM)

Welcome, have fun.




sirsholly -> RE: Poly Family Seeking Subs (4/1/2010 7:06:58 AM)

[sm=welcome.gif]


Perfect subs are so hard to find. I keep telling my Master that and pointing out how freakin' lucky he was to have found me. I then tell him if he keeps rolling his eyes like that he is risking an aneurysm.




cvkodiak -> RE: Poly Family Seeking Subs (4/2/2010 7:23:12 AM)

Sorry, read everything more carefully, please ignore this post and best of luck to you.




peppermint -> RE: Poly Family Seeking Subs (4/2/2010 10:21:57 AM)

A member of our munch was also complaining about the huge fees required to join the organizations in Tucson and Phoenix.  As he indignantly told us, they wanted to charge HIM a fee to attend a play party in their facility after paying a membership fee.  Guess he felt the others in the group should pay the fees to lease play space, pay utilities, have insurance so he can go there and play for free.  For some the $40 a year fee, $5 to get into a seminar, and $10 to attend a play party are out of their budget.   You CAN, however, attend munches and coffees for much less.  At those you will only pay for what you buy at the restaurant.  A cup of coffee is not out of most budgets. 

Anyway, before you complain about the high costs of joining, figure out how many people it would take to just pay your rent/mortgage, utilities, upkeep, and insurance if you charged $40 a year and $5-10 for every event. 

Submissives who are willing to become part of an established relationship are often referred to as unicorns.  That reference might give you an idea as to why your own unicorn is so difficult to locate. 




differentdoms -> RE: Poly Family Seeking Subs (4/2/2010 5:48:49 PM)

Peppermint...

I was not ref to anything to do with party locations/offices. We have no desire to attend them. We simply wanted to meet/know new people in a public setting, ie coffee shop, restaurant, etc. I'm not looking for anyone to pay my bills either, my finances are just fine the way they are... not sure what that is even about. But if i wanted to attend such a party i would expect to pay a fee for that...

-Master Angel




LadyPact -> RE: Poly Family Seeking Subs (4/2/2010 5:59:31 PM)

You are a seller in what is called a buyer's market.  That means the buyers are going to go for the best situation they can possibly obtain.  They are rare while there are more than enough folks who desire to add someone.  Think of it very much like the adoption screening process.  There's a reason that couples wait YEARS to fulfill their dream.  Same thing. 

You may be interested in checking out the poly board.  Do a search there under unicorn hunting.  You may be surprised what the competition looks like.

Welcome to the boards.




peppermint -> RE: Poly Family Seeking Subs (4/2/2010 6:20:40 PM)

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ORIGINAL: differentdoms

Peppermint...

I was not ref to anything to do with party locations/offices. We have no desire to attend them. We simply wanted to meet/know new people in a public setting, ie coffee shop, restaurant, etc. I'm not looking for anyone to pay my bills either, my finances are just fine the way they are... not sure what that is even about. But if i wanted to attend such a party i would expect to pay a fee for that...

-Master Angel


I'm very sorry to have misunderstood your intention when mentioning that the social clubs in your area charged enormous fees.  I didn't realize you had no interest in those groups.  I assumed you were talking about APEX and DD.  However, as I stated earlier those groups have coffees and munches that are off campus so to say and cost little or nothing. 

My example about housing was to merely point out how very little those social groups actually charge compared to what the members receive.  The members get a safe place to play with all sorts of equipment.  The members have the ability to social network to find partners.  The members get "how to" classes to help increase their own skill level.  It costs a great deal of money to rent commercial space for a permanent dungeon.  I was in no way suggesting that you wanted or needed anyone to help you pay your own bills.  I was just trying to explain with my example why those groups must charge what they do.  I apologize for any misunderstandings. 




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