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DelightMachine -> RE: Found a beautiful boy...Happy Day (4/2/2006 7:22:34 PM)
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What a coincidence! I just spent a wonderful day in New York with an incredibly vivacious, unbelievably sexy, creatively sadistic woman who's got me wrapped around her little finger.
She gently encouraged me to actively plan the day, which allowed me to court her both in my attentive manners and to demonstrate how well I can be of service to her. I wouldn't have suggested planning out the whole day on my own because it would seem presumptuous. But she suggested it, so I could do it. It was fun to come up with a loose itinerary, to figure it out and then for it to go well.
One of the satisfying things about being a submissive is the thanks you get from the dominant and knowing you've pleased her. This woman knows how to compliment and encourage the behavior she likes. It's one of the things that made for a very satisfying day -- and relationship.
And when she's having a good time, you know it because she's very expressive and quick to laugh or smile And she just wriggles with pleasure when she gets a foot massage.
Not everything went right. The "Persian/Italian" restaurant that was right near Paddls turned out to be a Persian restaurant. It used to be Italian. But we both liked it.
At Paddles, she surprised me at how tough she could be with a toy she'd just bought (a taws). I love looking at the marks it left on my butt. She told me I was pretty tough too. She was determined to let me know she could be hard in a scene if she wanted, but I lasted longer than expected before calling out my safe word. I liked hearing that in part because I was being stoic for her.
She also helped me screw up the courage to walk up to the bar at Paddles and buy a bottle of water for her. I'd done it naked years ago in the old Hellfire Club, but never in a pair of lacy red women's panties, which is a different experience. When she told me she could tell some of the women approved and I didn't really look too overweight, that made it easier.
She put her collar of consideration around my neck while I was still strung up. It surprised me that she would do it at that point. As soon as I got free, I couldn't help but get on my hands and knees and kiss her feet.
We got to talk a lot, laugh a lot, hold hands a lot, play together a bit at Paddles, kiss a lot and get tired together on the train, cuddled together. I learned her favorite color, how outgoing she is with strangers, how comfortably we fit into each other when we're cuddling, and a lot of other things about her. All while passing by the Empire State Building, the Chrysler Building, Grand Central and the New York Public Library.
It was a great beginning.
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