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beej -> RE: how (4/1/2010 9:24:14 PM)
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i thought that i responded to people, but i think i really respond to triggers. in my experience so far, just because someone identifies as a dominant doesn't mean that i will respond to them submissively. they have to be dominant enough, for one, to overwhelm my natural "one up" mechanism, but on top of that, they usually have to present some kind of special lure or allure. so far, it's been that the Dom, let's say, will suggest something that we could do that would require me being submissive and that i find really hot... trigger pushed, and i'm in submissive mode. similarly, my fantasies have been pushing my dominance triggers lately, and so there here i am looking for a boy to call my own. :) for me though, definitely it does not come in phases or cycles. even switching within a scene involves a trigger, and then i can switch on a dime.
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